Have you ever lied to have sex?

Pete's Princess Pete's Princess
Have you ever lied outright or lied by omission to get someone to have sex with you? What type of lie was it?
Answers (private voting - your screen name will NOT appear in the results):
Never lied to have sex
39
Lied once or twice to have sex
1
Lied multiple times to have sex
If you lied was it an outright lie - told someone something you knew was a lie.
If you lied was it a lie by omission - knew they would likely not have sex with me if I told them
1
I lied and I regret it
I lied and I regret some of the lies
I lied and I do not regret it - "Hey it got me laid so what is the big deal?"
Other - What wold a poll be without a catch all?
2
Total votes: 43 (42 voters)
Poll is closed
06/10/2013
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PropertyOfPotter PropertyOfPotter
Maybe I just don't get it, but what would someone lie about?
06/10/2013
Pete's Princess Pete's Princess
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Originally posted by PropertyOfPotter
Maybe I just don't get it, but what would someone lie about?
They might lie about their relationship status (married/involved], lies to impress (job, car, home), lies about liking the person more than they do, etc.

Lies by omission might be that they have an STD, are married, live with their parents, etc. Things that might make the person they are trying to bed, run for the hills.
06/10/2013
Fluke Fluke
Oh, of course. Almost every guy has. I mean it is not like they are sinister lies. It's more like you lie about having a better job than you have or you lie about how you like whatever band she likes.

I'm not going to lie to get sex when in a meaningful relationship, but for hooking up or attempting to hook up oh please everyone does.
06/11/2013
evanescentowl evanescentowl
I've fibbed about how many partners I've had (said I've had more than I've really been with), but I don't think that changed anything.
06/11/2013
bratcat bratcat
Not that i can recall, i tend to be pretty straight forward about what i want and any sort of circumstance im in. However i have been lied to and did not find out until years later, which explained A LOT about what happened.
06/11/2013
Lildrummrgurl7 Lildrummrgurl7
Nope. I've had no need to lie.
06/11/2013
kendra30752 kendra30752
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Originally posted by Pete's Princess
Have you ever lied outright or lied by omission to get someone to have sex with you? What type of lie was it?
Well kind of, but nothing big & nothing that was even serious. I had been drinking back when my partner and I first really got to meet each other & said "I'm not drunk, though!" When we were discussing sex. It was all in joking manner & I wasn't truly trying to make him believe I was not drunk. I'd never manipulate anyone into sex. It's something we joke about today. So you might could consider that somewhat a lie for sex. Lol
06/11/2013
Aishiteru Aishiteru
I haven't lied for sex, but I have been lied to.
06/11/2013
Zombirella Zombirella
No, but I have lied about a reason not to when I wasn't in the mood.
06/11/2013
Hallmar82 Hallmar82
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Originally posted by Zombirella
No, but I have lied about a reason not to when I wasn't in the mood.
Me too, I bet a lot of us have done this too.
06/11/2013
snowminx snowminx
Not that I remember, no reason too since it's easy for a girl to get laid =P

I don't believe in "Lies by omission". If I didn't tell my mom that I ate a piece of cake today while I'm on a diet is that me lying to her? Nope, don't think so. Yeah it might be a secret but not telling her wouldn't be lying to her in my eyes.
06/11/2013
Beautiful-Disaster Beautiful-Disaster
What's there to lie about? .. I've never lied to get someone to have sex with me.
06/11/2013
libbyv libbyv
Quote:
Originally posted by Pete's Princess
Have you ever lied outright or lied by omission to get someone to have sex with you? What type of lie was it?
no, not me
06/11/2013
Scythe Scythe
Quote:
Originally posted by PropertyOfPotter
Maybe I just don't get it, but what would someone lie about?
No i have never lied to have sex.
06/11/2013
TiffanyW TiffanyW
I have never had to lie to have sex. I have been married for 4 years, and if I want it, I get it. If he wants it, he gets it.
06/11/2013
BrittaniMaree BrittaniMaree
Never lied to have sex
06/11/2013
Bignuf Bignuf
Quote:
Originally posted by Pete's Princess
Have you ever lied outright or lied by omission to get someone to have sex with you? What type of lie was it?
It is the one thing that I hate about relationships or people...lying. I wouldn't do it, or tolerate it.
06/11/2013
Bignuf Bignuf
Quote:
Originally posted by libbyv
no, not me
Me either.
06/11/2013
Bignuf Bignuf
Quote:
Originally posted by Beautiful-Disaster
What's there to lie about? .. I've never lied to get someone to have sex with me.
I assume they mean like a guy saying he is single or rich or some such thing, or a woman likewise "inventing" a story about herself.
06/11/2013
Bignuf Bignuf
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Originally posted by Zombirella
No, but I have lied about a reason not to when I wasn't in the mood.
Maybe I am super strange...but I have never NOT been in the mood. Never had to "get out of it". Times when I was ill or something, he knew, and would not impose on me. Instead he would pamper me and get me better.
06/11/2013
Bignuf Bignuf
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Originally posted by Fluke
Oh, of course. Almost every guy has. I mean it is not like they are sinister lies. It's more like you lie about having a better job than you have or you lie about how you like whatever band she likes.

I'm not going to lie to get sex ... More
My hubby takes offense at the idea that "almost every guy has". He never did with me. In fact, he underplayed his background, hoping not to get someone interested in his money or position. Finally he found me, however, and we are pretty equal in the education/success department, so there was sure never a need to lie.
06/11/2013
Fluke Fluke
Quote:
Originally posted by Bignuf
My hubby takes offense at the idea that "almost every guy has". He never did with me. In fact, he underplayed his background, hoping not to get someone interested in his money or position. Finally he found me, however, and we are pretty ... More
A lie for good reasons is still a lie. If you underplay or overplay your background it is technically a lie. Underplaying can be an advanced playa move like if you say you drive an old car and then show up in a classic hotrod vette.

The one I've gotten a few times is a girl saying she's never kissed on the first date and then later on we ended up making out.

There's huge lies like saying your are single when you are in fact married and the little embellishing the truth that everyone does to impress each other. You can think you are the ultimate high and mighty perfect person all you want, but I find that most people have very functional bs meters. We are not going to call you out on it, but we know.
06/11/2013
wicked48 wicked48
Never lied to have sex.
06/11/2013
PeaceToTheMiddleEast PeaceToTheMiddleEast
No, I have never lied to have sex.
06/11/2013
LavenderSkies LavenderSkies
Oops! I think I accidentally voted incorrectly. My real response is No, I have never lied to have sex, nor would I need a reason to.
06/11/2013
Cosmonaut Cosmonaut
No. I never wanted someone that bad to have lied to get them in bed with me.
06/11/2013
edeneve edeneve
why lie about it??? if I have a connection beyond sexual attraction, I go for it. & I have no problems saying that I love what I'm experiencing or asking for what I want - of course that takes a special finesse, which I've perfected over many many years - I refuse to fake it and have sex w/o getting something out of it for me.
06/11/2013
Nezzie13 Nezzie13
My boyfriend and I were being goofy one day and we were swapping the lies that we'd heard people say in high school between kisses. "If we don't have sex soon my penis will explode," "You don't need a condom, I'm a virgin," and things like that. It was funny and sexy!
06/12/2013
joolie joolie
Nope. I have however lied to get out of having sex.
06/12/2013
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