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No I've never stooped that low and never would. I don't publicly post anything sexual. I'm in a happy monogamous relationship and do not feel the need or desire to get attention from others in that way. I would be insulted. I think
No I've never stooped that low and never would. I don't publicly post anything sexual. I'm in a happy monogamous relationship and do not feel the need or desire to get attention from others in that way. I would be insulted. I think it'd be betrayal towards my partner for one and for 2. I respect myself and I don't need dirty compliments from sick-os to feel good about myself. If I did, I would have serious problems. Another thing about it... I surely don't need any sick-o stalker. Women who post revealling, overly provocative photos on social sites or ppublicly are highly risking their lives. It puts women in danger. Rapists and such are all around places like facebook. They can strive there because there's millions of girls so desperate for a little "your hot" comment that they'll take their clothes off to get it, even if it is from a sick 90 year old pervert who's ready to take advantage of her. Sorry for the rant, but those are some really important reasons.
However, I have dirty photos on DVD'S that are strictly private and only viewed by myself and my partner. I don't see anything wrong with that, but I'd never post them publicly or ever let a single other person see them besides my partner.
I'm in a happy monogamous relationship and my partner encourages (Okay, let's be honest here. He demands!
) that I post pictures of myself online in various states of dress and undress. I'm not gonna lie and say there's no ego boost when someone who sees them tells me I'm hot. Flattery is a natural reaction to compliments. So no, if you enjoy dirty compliments (or compliments at all), there is not something wrong with you and that doesn't make you desperate.
As for stalkers and rapists, you need only walk by someone staring out a window two stories up that you never looked at in baggy sweats, no makeup and a ball cap to catch the attention of one of those. Posting naked pictures of yourself on the internet is not the cause of rape. RAPISTS are the cause of rape. Don't want a rapist on the internet to see a picture of you and come rape you? Don't post any identifying factors of where you live on the internet.