Hello everyone I'm in a Pickle.

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Today has been an awful day from the start. I didn't sleep last night at all, But that's besides the point. First of all my SO and I live with my family, My mom, My niece, My younger brother and his GF. It's rough at times. We also share a phone (my SO and I not my whole family) But she pays the bill and bought the phone.
We work for my family as well. My sister bought my brother a weed eater because he needed one for work. That was a year ago she needed to use it so she asked me to grab it on the way out the door. I thought that she had talked to my brother. Well he calls the phone shortly after we left, and starts freaking out on my SO. She told him she couldn't talk right now and then he just flipped and hung up (this is what she is telling me I wasn't there to hear the convo so I don't know) Then he sends a text which I saw that reads "Next time I ask you somthing don"t be no smart ass I'm tired of biting my tongue with you. Some body needs to let you know you aint in monroe." So she came and got me. I didn't really do anything about it. I just told my sister cause really all of this could have been avoided if she didn't ask for the weed eater. She talked to him and he said that this wasn't between them it was between my SO, myself, and him. and now my SO is upset with me cause I didn't stand up for her. but it's just not right that I am stuck in the middle. I don't know was I wrong. what should I do? What would you do?
08/01/2012
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js250 js250
For starters---take a deep calming breath.

Now arrange for the three of you to sit down--maybe with the sister?--and discuss this as adults. It sounds to me like you are not supporting your SO--all she did was answer the phone. You grabbed the weed eater and if your brother has an issue--it should be with your sis and you--why your SO?? Some people cannot talk on the phone at every minute and maybe she did not want to get involved and have an issue like the current one?? Not harping on you--just trying to understand.
08/01/2012
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Originally posted by js250
For starters---take a deep calming breath.

Now arrange for the three of you to sit down--maybe with the sister?--and discuss this as adults. It sounds to me like you are not supporting your SO--all she did was answer the phone. You grabbed the ... More
Oh I know. I just don't know what I'm going to do. Now he's texted and said that he need to speak with me, but I think it's his tone in the texts that are making her so up set. I'm not sure. but I know I've got to do somthing and I don't wanna get into a fight with him because I will be the one to get kicked out. Since he has a child and he uses that to his advantage noone wants to lose their ability to see her... I just don't know....
08/01/2012
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