High school crush lost her looks.

Rod Ronald Rod Ronald
Thanks to facebook it's easy to find or in some rare cases "Stalk" your old high school chums. This may sound insanely mean, but does anyone else find a twisted enjoyment in seeing the ones you either had a crush on or considered hot have now fallen victim to time and over exposure to heat lamps in tanning beds?
I had my actual High School crush, actually from when I was in 3rd grade till senior year find me on facebook. Her message said something along the lines of, I have no idea who you are but I see that you graduated from my school in the same year and blah blah blah. I couldn't help but feel a little hurt by this. The only comfort I could find is that she had lost her looks. It's mean I know becasue I'm not big on looks seriously, but for some damned reason it made me feel better?
Am I a dick for feeling this way or is it just human nature?
Has anyone else in the EF world come across the same scenario?
10/08/2012
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KyotoAngel KyotoAngel
You felt hurt that she didn't remember you and reached out for some possible thing to make it hurt less...her not being as attractive as you remember might make her less desirable to you and your past self in some way, and make you feel a bit better.

I'd say considering that, you are most certainly not a dick, just a human being.
Our species sometimes tend to say or do stupid and sometimes hurtful things when we're upset or angry.
10/08/2012
Ansley Ansley
I have to agree with KyotoAngel on this one.
10/08/2012
kkizzee05 kkizzee05
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Originally posted by Rod Ronald
Thanks to facebook it's easy to find or in some rare cases "Stalk" your old high school chums. This may sound insanely mean, but does anyone else find a twisted enjoyment in seeing the ones you either had a crush on or considered hot ... More
No, you're not being a dick. That's just karma for those kinds of people lol
10/08/2012
Chilipepper Chilipepper
You'd be a dick if you actually said it to her. Otherwise, it's just human nature reacting to being hurt.

I just can't summon the energy to feel smug or whatnot concerning the people who were teenage twats in high school and how they turned out. They mean so little to me in the long run, I suppose.
10/08/2012
britanny0620 britanny0620
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Originally posted by KyotoAngel
You felt hurt that she didn't remember you and reached out for some possible thing to make it hurt less...her not being as attractive as you remember might make her less desirable to you and your past self in some way, and make you feel a bit ... More
I agree
10/08/2012
britanny0620 britanny0620
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Originally posted by Chilipepper
You'd be a dick if you actually said it to her. Otherwise, it's just human nature reacting to being hurt.

I just can't summon the energy to feel smug or whatnot concerning the people who were teenage twats in high school and how ... More
This is a wonderful response, I enjoy it and feel that it's something I can relate to and hope everyone learns to.
10/08/2012
Zombirella Zombirella
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Originally posted by Chilipepper
You'd be a dick if you actually said it to her. Otherwise, it's just human nature reacting to being hurt.

I just can't summon the energy to feel smug or whatnot concerning the people who were teenage twats in high school and how ... More
I agree. I don't go looking for the B*tches from high school. But it is nice if you do run across one and see that they didn't amount to much.
10/08/2012
Ansley Ansley
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Originally posted by Zombirella
I agree. I don't go looking for the B*tches from high school. But it is nice if you do run across one and see that they didn't amount to much.
Funny thing? I can't remember a single one of their names.
10/09/2012
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