What would you do if you had the hots for a guy..

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What would you do if you had the hots for a guy..

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What would you do if you had the hots for a guy, but he is taken. And ur very attracted to him ?
06/29/2012
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Michele Michele
I'd leave him alone. Too many families are ruined by things like this.
06/29/2012
vanilla&chocolate vanilla&chocolate
I would be friendly to him, but keep my affections to myself.
06/29/2012
The-IT-Guy-And-My-Secretary The-IT-Guy-And-My-Secretary
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Originally posted by jjesssica
What would you do if you had the hots for a guy, but he is taken. And ur very attracted to him ?
Let him know if he is dating the other girl, If he is married let it be. I am a guy and I say this because I know lots of my guy friends just gave up and married the girl they were with because they thought they werent attractive anymore or that girls stopped noticing them. Sometimes guys also have to know that they have options.
06/30/2012
The-IT-Guy-And-My-Secretary The-IT-Guy-And-My-Secretary
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Originally posted by The-IT-Guy-And-My-Secretary
Let him know if he is dating the other girl, If he is married let it be. I am a guy and I say this because I know lots of my guy friends just gave up and married the girl they were with because they thought they werent attractive anymore or that ...
Basically you never know, he might really dig you but think that you would never be into him.
06/30/2012
Rin (aka Nire) Rin (aka Nire)
I'd try to discreetly find out both of them were cool with open relationships. If not, I'd leave him alone. I'm no man-stealer.
06/30/2012
KrissyNovacaine KrissyNovacaine
Leave it alone and move on... You don't need to stress over it.
06/30/2012
KyotoAngel KyotoAngel
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Originally posted by Rin (aka Nire)
I'd try to discreetly find out both of them were cool with open relationships. If not, I'd leave him alone. I'm no man-stealer.
^
This, if I were single. I wouldn't want to be a home wrecker.
06/30/2012
jjesssica jjesssica
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Originally posted by Michele
I'd leave him alone. Too many families are ruined by things like this.
I suppose ):
06/30/2012
jjesssica jjesssica
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Originally posted by vanilla&chocolate
I would be friendly to him, but keep my affections to myself.
Thats what I am doing, I only told his mom im attracted to him lol. but hes 11 years older than me.
06/30/2012
jjesssica jjesssica
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Originally posted by The-IT-Guy-And-My-Secretary
Let him know if he is dating the other girl, If he is married let it be. I am a guy and I say this because I know lots of my guy friends just gave up and married the girl they were with because they thought they werent attractive anymore or that ...
The girl he is dating is not average though, shes pretty & I think he would feel uncomfortable around me if I told him because I am young compared to him ):
06/30/2012
jjesssica jjesssica
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Originally posted by The-IT-Guy-And-My-Secretary
Basically you never know, he might really dig you but think that you would never be into him.
Lol dig me (: hmm =[
06/30/2012
jjesssica jjesssica
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Originally posted by Rin (aka Nire)
I'd try to discreetly find out both of them were cool with open relationships. If not, I'd leave him alone. I'm no man-stealer.
I never hear about open relationships unless the person is gay/lesbian. Well you wouldn't be the one stealing him because its his decision to leave the girl.
06/30/2012
jjesssica jjesssica
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Originally posted by KrissyNovacaine
Leave it alone and move on... You don't need to stress over it.
It is stressful lol.
06/30/2012
Pinkshirt Pinkshirt
Stay away but keep him under the radar in case he becomes available
06/30/2012
Rin (aka Nire) Rin (aka Nire)
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Originally posted by jjesssica
I never hear about open relationships unless the person is gay/lesbian. Well you wouldn't be the one stealing him because its his decision to leave the girl.
Straight people can have open relationships, too. Anybody can participate in "swinging" if they want to.

And it's true that it would be his decision, but if he's leaving her because I approached him, I'd still feel partly responsible. If he was unhappy with his girlfriend, then that's fine, but he should break up with her first before approaching me.
06/30/2012
Sinfully Sinfully
I wouldn't go there. Been there, done that, not a wise idea.
06/30/2012
Noelle Noelle
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Originally posted by jjesssica
What would you do if you had the hots for a guy, but he is taken. And ur very attracted to him ?
I would have to say, let it go...I would feel awful going after another girls man. It's just wrong, and karma can be a real B*$#%!!
06/30/2012
XYCopperheadSly XYCopperheadSly
Leave him be, unless he makes a move and I know his partner is okay with it.
07/01/2012
The-IT-Guy-And-My-Secretary The-IT-Guy-And-My-Secretary
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Originally posted by jjesssica
Lol dig me (: hmm =[
Keep in mind though, I have dated a whole bunch of girls. One of which happened to be a model... (For Sears... BUT HEY SHE WAS STILL A MODEL!!!!) Great girl... However not the best personality. Keep that in mind. She may be absolutely beautiful and he may just be hanging with her because of how she looks. She could end up really being a tool bag on the inside. I cant stand a girl without a personality.
07/01/2012
jjesssica jjesssica
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Originally posted by The-IT-Guy-And-My-Secretary
Keep in mind though, I have dated a whole bunch of girls. One of which happened to be a model... (For Sears... BUT HEY SHE WAS STILL A MODEL!!!!) Great girl... However not the best personality. Keep that in mind. She may be absolutely beautiful and ...
Yea, i have tons of guys who only get at me for my looks and never try getting to know me inside, i believe it is pathetic. I also want to model but im too short so i don't know what will happen :/ And yea, i don't like it when people hide their true personality.
07/01/2012
jjesssica jjesssica
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Originally posted by Sinfully
I wouldn't go there. Been there, done that, not a wise idea.
lol. okay, it does sound like a caution sign for trouble
07/01/2012
jjesssica jjesssica
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Originally posted by Noelle
I would have to say, let it go...I would feel awful going after another girls man. It's just wrong, and karma can be a real B*$#%!!
yea, i should not interfere with someones relationship ):
07/01/2012
jjesssica jjesssica
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Originally posted by Rin (aka Nire)
Straight people can have open relationships, too. Anybody can participate in "swinging" if they want to.

And it's true that it would be his decision, but if he's leaving her because I approached him, I'd still feel ...
Of course they can?

True, many guys these days want to date females before considering breaking up with the one's there in relationships with. I've been through it and its pretty stupid.
07/01/2012
luisss luisss
Ya just sucks when ur in a relationship with someone and they do that behind ur back.. hurts breaks hearts when they are not honest
07/11/2012
luisss luisss
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Originally posted by jjesssica
Thats what I am doing, I only told his mom im attracted to him lol. but hes 11 years older than me.
Od im only 7 years? not meh :l
07/11/2012
Gone (LD29) Gone (LD29)
Private fantasies are a wonderful thing! But, I wouldn't act on it.
07/11/2012
Ashley B Ashley B
I'd leave him alone.. I'm no home-wrecker. Plus, I'd want someone to have the same sort of respect for me.
07/11/2012
Sundae Sparkles Sundae Sparkles
I'd keep it too myself..
07/12/2012
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