How do u feel about relationships were u break up every week!

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How do u feel about relationships were u break up every week!

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Personally i think its pointless to breakup in the first place
07/12/2012
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Airen Wolf Airen Wolf
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Originally posted by luisss
Personally i think its pointless to breakup in the first place
It's not pointless to break up but attempting to have a relationship with someone you are clearly not suited to be with is a bit pointless. Sometimes FWB is the best answer.
07/12/2012
K101 K101
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Originally posted by luisss
Personally i think its pointless to breakup in the first place
You probably don't want to know how I feel about them. Lol.

If I can, I will just put it bluntly? I honestly feel that relationships where the people break up THAT often are... not as mature as they might need to be. I think it's really immature & careless to treat your relationship like it isn't worth staying together. I don't mean everybody should stay together no matter what, but in this particular instance--break up/makeup. I think you're either in or your out. You love them or you don't. If the relationship has potential and you're feelings are strong or you love them, you shouldn't be so quick to break up. It should be taken more seriously, with more care. I don't even like threats of breaking up. I mean if you're going to threaten to leave me every time I piss you off, why the hell are you even with me? You know?


I think when people break up and make up over and over, the relationship is already suffering and damaged. There's probably lack of trust due to so many break ups. It's just all around damaging to a realtionship. If you care, why not make an effort to hold your relationship together? If you need an out each time you're upset, how do you expect it to last? What reasons to break up in the first place? Cheating? If I'm going to break up with my partner it's going to be over something totally destroying to our relationship, and in that case, I wouldn't need or want to go back into that relationship.

People should not leave over petty things. Know what you have. Don't take those things for granted. I'm not directing these thoughts toward you, although I say "you..." I am just talking in general. That's my opinion.
07/12/2012
- Kira - - Kira -
Never been in one of these, but I've had friends that have been. I generally think that there's a reason you're breaking up and most of the time it's a good one. If it's happening weekly, that's a BIG red flag. It's unhealthy to say the very least.

Pretty much everything else Kendra said. You don't just leave when there's a problem. If you're leaving - leave and be done with it.
07/12/2012
Cookie Monster Mike Cookie Monster Mike
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Originally posted by luisss
Personally i think its pointless to breakup in the first place
It's funny you mention this, I just had an employee at work quit last week and she was like this. Always coming into work upset because her bf and her broke up for the 100th time. For 4 years they have been trying to make it work.

They are both 26 or 27 yrs old but act like they are still in high school. That's pretty much how I feel about those types of relationships, they are immature and for high school teens.
07/12/2012
Mwar Mwar
Uh... can't stand it.

For me, when it's done, it's done. You broke up for a reason. I could see trying a second (and LAST) time if you broke up because of certain circumstances (long distance, different life paths, etc.) or because a lot of time has passed and you want to try one more time.

Other than that, a good rule: an Ex is an Ex for a reason.
07/12/2012
Ansley Ansley
I don't understand the mentality behind it. It's manipulative at best. I met my husband years ago and we both did extremely wicked things to each other, but did I ever truly want to be apart from him? No. I just wanted the behavior to stop.

I think a lot of people who go through that stage of emotional immaturity have bad examples of relationships in their lives - mom & dad are divorced, or they've always been given everything they want, they have poor coping skills...it could be any number of things, really. It just spells trouble and I've had enough of the high school drama.
07/12/2012
Vaginas Vaginas
I don't break up unless it really needs to happen and I don't ever go back out with people that I break up with
07/12/2012
luisss luisss
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Originally posted by K101
You probably don't want to know how I feel about them. Lol.

If I can, I will just put it bluntly? I honestly feel that relationships where the people break up THAT often are... not as mature as they might need to be. I think it's ...
TY i think the problem we have is "immature & careless to treat your relationship" as u said... it definitely is hard when your the one who takes care of the relationship more than the person your with.
07/13/2012
shySEXXaddict shySEXXaddict
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Originally posted by luisss
Personally i think its pointless to breakup in the first place
use to be in one dont ever want to be again.It was stressful...he never would actually leave
07/13/2012
Claire-Bear Claire-Bear
If you breakup every week, you're immature and can't handle the ups and downs of a relationship. Or you're really not suited for each other and need to let it go for your sanity.
07/13/2012
luisss luisss
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Originally posted by shySEXXaddict
use to be in one dont ever want to be again.It was stressful...he never would actually leave
=\ dang mines dont go longer than a day or a hour really
07/14/2012
HippieFeet HippieFeet
I think people in relationships like that need to realize that if they are getting back together and breaking up that often that there is obviously something driving them away in the first place and they should start working on fixing that before getting back together.
07/14/2012
luisss luisss
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Originally posted by HippieFeet
I think people in relationships like that need to realize that if they are getting back together and breaking up that often that there is obviously something driving them away in the first place and they should start working on fixing that before ...
agreed ty it seems to be working
07/15/2012
GONE! GONE!
It's no fun at all, and really immature. I had an ex who always tried to drag me into this.
07/15/2012
luisss luisss
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Originally posted by GONE!
It's no fun at all, and really immature. I had an ex who always tried to drag me into this.
awww it never is fun at all.. makes you think about unnecessary things
07/16/2012
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