How do you let someone know you're interested?

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How do you let someone know you're interested?

chicmichiw chicmichiw
When you first become interested in someone, how do you let them know? Are you direct? Do you try the friend route first? Do you ask to hang out as group thing? Ladies? Guys?
04/29/2013
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Fluke Fluke
Don't go the friend route, I'm sure it works for a few people but most likely you are going to watch your friend date other people.

Going out in a group is an excellent idea. I recommend showing interest as soon as possible, you don't gain anything by waiting. The more active and direct you are, the more likely you are to get what you want.
04/29/2013
Hentialover Hentialover
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Originally posted by chicmichiw
When you first become interested in someone, how do you let them know? Are you direct? Do you try the friend route first? Do you ask to hang out as group thing? Ladies? Guys?
If I'm interested in someone, I just ask them to hang out a lot and often end up spoiling them. Once I know for sure if I'm interested, and i think they might be too. I just ask them out on a actual date, and see what happens.
04/30/2013
GONE! GONE!
I... Write them a note telling them so. Sometimes it works.
04/30/2013
Noelle Noelle
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Originally posted by chicmichiw
When you first become interested in someone, how do you let them know? Are you direct? Do you try the friend route first? Do you ask to hang out as group thing? Ladies? Guys?
Lick their balls...
05/02/2013
SourAppleMartini SourAppleMartini
I don't let them know. In fact, I pretend that I don't care. Most of the guys I am attracted to are way out of my league.
05/02/2013
Love Bites Love Bites
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Originally posted by chicmichiw
When you first become interested in someone, how do you let them know? Are you direct? Do you try the friend route first? Do you ask to hang out as group thing? Ladies? Guys?
When I first met my partner I was with another man. I was shy about my feelings, but eventually I just told him honestly that I liked him. It was scary, I was worried that maybe he would disappear. We've been together for 3+ years now.

Usually though, I'm rather shy, and I probe to see how the other person feels about me before I'll say anything.
05/02/2013
shnsmth6 shnsmth6
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Originally posted by chicmichiw
When you first become interested in someone, how do you let them know? Are you direct? Do you try the friend route first? Do you ask to hang out as group thing? Ladies? Guys?
i make a move
05/02/2013
jr2012 jr2012
well, the one time I decided to be up front about it, I got the man!!! I just told him, I really like you, can I kiss you?

In hindsight, I don't know how I got the balls to do that, but we are 8 years and going strong!
05/02/2013
HoneyBear69 HoneyBear69
wink at them
05/02/2013
kdlt kdlt
I tell them directly or hint at it til they let me know whether or not they're interested! Always works.
05/03/2013
snowminx snowminx
Not do anything because I'd just end up embarrassing myself -.-
05/03/2013
bratcat bratcat
I will flirt, but if it's someone i like and want to date i will be rather direct about that aspect of it. If i don't get a response from flirting i usually wont try and pursue the person, and stay on a friend basis with them.
05/04/2013
Chilipepper Chilipepper
Unconsciously, really. I didn't even know I was showing interest to C when we met again at a friend's party 15 years after last seeing each other, but he recently told me that he knew I was interested because I was leaning over the sofa arm to display my cleavage and moving my face close to his when we spoke. (So, he leaned over and kissed me first.)

Of course I was interested! But I didn't know I was displaying any sign of being "open for business"!
05/06/2013
butts butts
I'm -very- blunt and forward, I've got no shame! I straight up told my partner "damn you're cute" pretty quickly after we started talking, luckily it was mutual
05/06/2013
GirlOnGirl GirlOnGirl
So much depends on the how I meet them. I might flirt, try getting to know them as a friend or take a more direct approach.
05/06/2013
Woman China Woman China
When I know I am interested in them; physically or emotionally, I tell them. I find it is easier and gets rid of all that mis-communication and trying to figure out if they are interested as well.
05/06/2013
MsDrProfKitty MsDrProfKitty
I flirt up a storm, get them alone, and ask them if they would like to go get coffee or ice cream or something I like to do that I think they do too.
05/13/2013
gsfanatic gsfanatic
Flirt and ask them to go out to something light, like ice cream
05/14/2013
KyotoAngel KyotoAngel
Usually I flirt a fair bit, and if they don't get the hint I tend to sort of just...let things be.
But my boyfriend...I was quite bold when I let him know (flat out told him, more like) that I liked him and wanted to be his girlfriend. To be fair, I knew he was single...but I still have no idea what possessed me to be so out of character ballsy.

I'm normally so shy that I could never dream of just telling someone outright that I'm into them, so I'm still wondering whatever came over me. xD
05/18/2013
Marie Hanna Marie Hanna
I let them know straight out. Less time waisted that way.
05/19/2013
JADE76 JADE76
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Originally posted by chicmichiw
When you first become interested in someone, how do you let them know? Are you direct? Do you try the friend route first? Do you ask to hang out as group thing? Ladies? Guys?
i think its always a lock of the eyes when you look at who you are interested in
05/21/2013
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