How do you prefer your hair?

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How do you prefer your hair?

Jul!a Jul!a
I'm talking about the hair on your head. Everybody I know has some preference, regardless of how strong it is, for how they like their hair or the hair on their partners, and I'm just curious how the rest of you feel too.
Answers (public voting - your screen name will appear in the results):
I'm a female and..
Jul!a , Sammi , Andromeda , Gigs , MuffysPinguLove , joja , LicentiouslyYours , Miss Cinnamon , Alicia , Tori Rebel , Annemarie , Carrie Ann , Red Vinyl Kitty , NuMe , Hannah Savage , VieuxCarre , Tuesday , Domineight , Splendwhore , ~LaUr3n~ , Rossie , LuLu Love , Valyn , JEM , JPito , her.royal.redness , Dame Saphir , KnK , Anne Ardeur , Taylor , Beaners , PussyGalore , leela , loopyliza , toxie m , BadassFatass , null , VenusianThunder , thatonegirl , ninaspinkturtle , Cream in the Cupcake , Valentinka , closed account , Crystal1 , TheSinDoll , C4ss , sixfootsex , sophie2229 , Pandahb , Miss Madeline , darthkitt3n , Mistress M. , idunshire , Miss B Haven , *Ashley* , chidoll , *HisMrs* , Shellz31 , PersonalAngel , Lady Venus , P'Gell , padmeamidala , liilii080 , DeliciousSurprise , mystepmotherisafish , sexyk515 , PassionQT , Bunnycups , ellejay , MaryExy , Woman China , NaturalWoman , Lady Marmelade , sexygoddess , ~Brittany~ , Inwitari , hjtee , Karakaten , PiratePrincess , Lithaewyn , Ashley:) , Britt&Daniel , BabyL0ve , EJ , ThoughtsAblaze , LikeSunshineDust , emiliaa , clp , Ansley , Ivy Wilde , Dawn (Lilac Distraction) , SexyRayne , wdanas , Beck , PeaceToTheMiddleEast , potstickers , Qozt , Geogeo , TJtheMadHatter , ViVix , XxFallenAngelxX , LavenderSkies , WhoopieDoo , peachmarie , EmuLove
105
I'm a male and..
Passionate Pastor , El-Jaro , Gunsmoke , Sir , Ciao. , ToyTimeTim , Gary , dv8 , Kindred , extrafun , Moein , slynch , married with children , Lummox , angel142stx , Halfthere , Errant Venture , Incendiaire , Allstars316
19
I prefer my own hair nonexistant (bald)
El-Jaro , hjtee
2
I prefer my own hair short
Jul!a , Andromeda , Passionate Pastor , Gunsmoke , Alicia , Hannah Savage , VieuxCarre , Sir , Ciao. , ToyTimeTim , dv8 , Kindred , KnK , extrafun , Anne Ardeur , leela , toxie m , BadassFatass , thatonegirl , sixfootsex , darthkitt3n , slynch , Shellz31 , NaturalWoman , married with children , Lummox , ~Brittany~ , Lithaewyn , Ashley:) , angel142stx , Halfthere , Errant Venture , BabyL0ve , clp , Dawn (Lilac Distraction) , wdanas , Qozt , Allstars316 , TJtheMadHatter , WhoopieDoo , SecondStory
41
I prefer my own hair medium length (about the shoulders, or a little past)
Gigs , MuffysPinguLove , Alicia , Tori Rebel , CaitScott , Sir , Tuesday , Splendwhore , Rossie , Ciao. , JEM , JPito , loopyliza , toxie m , Valentinka , closed account , sophie2229 , Miss Madeline , idunshire , Miss B Haven , *Ashley* , padmeamidala , billybobtoy , liilii080 , mystepmotherisafish , PassionQT , Bunnycups , ellejay , MaryExy , Lady Marmelade , sexygoddess , Karakaten , PiratePrincess , EJ , ThoughtsAblaze , LikeSunshineDust , Llewey , PeaceToTheMiddleEast , Geogeo , TJtheMadHatter , ViVix
41
I prefer my own hair long (mid back and longer)
Sammi , LicentiouslyYours , Miss Cinnamon , White Fox , Kim! , Carrie Ann , Red Vinyl Kitty , NuMe , Sir , Domineight , ~LaUr3n~ , Valyn , JPito , her.royal.redness , Dame Saphir , Gary , fatesrelease , Taylor , Beaners , PussyGalore , null , VenusianThunder , ninaspinkturtle , Crystal1 , TheSinDoll , C4ss , Pandahb , Mistress M. , *Ashley* , chidoll , *HisMrs* , PersonalAngel , Lady Venus , P'Gell , DeliciousSurprise , Bunnycups , MaryExy , Woman China , Lady Marmelade , sexygoddess , Inwitari , hjtee , Britt&Daniel , emiliaa , Ansley , Ivy Wilde , SexyRayne , Beck , potstickers , TJtheMadHatter , XxFallenAngelxX , LavenderSkies , peachmarie , EmuLove
54
I prefer my partners with no hair (bald)
LicentiouslyYours , Alicia , TheSinDoll , sixfootsex , XxFallenAngelxX , WhoopieDoo
6
I prefer my partners with short hair
Jul!a , Sammi , Andromeda , Gigs , MuffysPinguLove , Alicia , Hannah Savage , VieuxCarre , Domineight , Splendwhore , LuLu Love , Valyn , JEM , JPito , her.royal.redness , fatesrelease , Anne Ardeur , Taylor , Beaners , leela , loopyliza , toxie m , null , ninaspinkturtle , Cream in the Cupcake , TheSinDoll , C4ss , Pandahb , Miss Madeline , darthkitt3n , Mistress M. , *Ashley* , *HisMrs* , slynch , Shellz31 , padmeamidala , liilii080 , PassionQT , ellejay , MaryExy , hjtee , PiratePrincess , angel142stx , EJ , LikeSunshineDust , Dawn (Lilac Distraction) , Llewey , Beck , potstickers , Qozt , TJtheMadHatter , WhoopieDoo
52
I prefer my partners with medium length hair (about the shoulders, or a little past)
Gunsmoke , White Fox , Tori Rebel , ~LaUr3n~ , Valyn , VenusianThunder , Moein , ninaspinkturtle , Valentinka , Mistress M. , P'Gell , billybobtoy , mystepmotherisafish , NaturalWoman , married with children , Britt&Daniel , Halfthere , Errant Venture , Qozt , WhoopieDoo
20
I prefer my partners with longer hair (mid back or longer)
LicentiouslyYours , Red Vinyl Kitty , dv8 , PussyGalore , thatonegirl , ninaspinkturtle , Lummox , Errant Venture , Ansley , Ivy Wilde , SexyRayne , WhoopieDoo
12
I have no preference on the length of my own hair
Annemarie , LuLu Love , KnK , idunshire
4
I have no preference on the length of my partner's hair
joja , El-Jaro , Annemarie , Carrie Ann , NuMe , CaitScott , Sir , Tuesday , Splendwhore , Ciao. , ToyTimeTim , Gary , Kindred , null , closed account , Miss B Haven , chidoll , DeliciousSurprise , Bunnycups , Woman China , Lady Marmelade , Inwitari , Karakaten , Lithaewyn , Ashley:) , ThoughtsAblaze , emiliaa , clp , wdanas , PeaceToTheMiddleEast , SecondStory , EmuLove
32
And of course, other
El-Jaro , Kim! , CaitScott , Chilipepper , Dame Saphir , extrafun , BadassFatass , null , Lady Venus
9
Total votes: 397 (132 voters)
Poll is closed
06/08/2010
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Jul!a Jul!a
I love and miss my short hair, it was really nice because it was fairly low maintenance. But the nice thing about having longer hair, for me anyway, is that I can easily throw it up in a ponytail to get it out of the way.

I miss having shorter hair, but I keep it short for a few months, then grow it back out to donate it.
06/08/2010
Sammi Sammi
I trim mine on occasion, but it's long and I love it that way. I like when my husband keeps his short - just long enough to be able to grab it, but not to his shoulders.
06/08/2010
Andromeda Andromeda
I just cut most of my hair off. I loooooooove short hair, and so does my bf lol. We both agree that long hair just gets in the way :p
06/08/2010
Gigs Gigs
I am patiently waiting for my hair to grow back out from a ghastly short cut I received last time I went in and said "just trim it up a little"

It is finally almost long enough that all of it will stay back in a ponytail...very important to me!
06/08/2010
Jul!a Jul!a
Quote:
Originally posted by Andromeda
I just cut most of my hair off. I loooooooove short hair, and so does my bf lol. We both agree that long hair just gets in the way :p
The biggest problem I'm having right now is that it's just long enough that he wont realize he's laying on it until I go to move. Or if I've got my head laying on his chest, it sometimes gets caught under his arm when he lays it behind his head, then he'll go to roll and start taking my hair with him, lol
06/08/2010
Jul!a Jul!a
Quote:
Originally posted by Gigs
I am patiently waiting for my hair to grow back out from a ghastly short cut I received last time I went in and said "just trim it up a little"

It is finally almost long enough that all of it will stay back in a ponytail...very important to me!
I remember how excited I was last summer when I could finally get mine up into a ponytail. It was so hot out and having this hair on the back of my neck all day sucked so bad!
06/08/2010
joja joja
My boyfriend and I both used to have very long hair... mine was below my waist, his about a foot shorter. A few months before we began dating, I convinced him to come get a buzzcut with me (I had already cut my hair short, but wanted it shorter). I figured I'd never get the guts to do it later in life, so I better do it now.

I didn't really like the way I looked until it grew out a couple inches, but I'll never have hair that long again. Long hair is beautiful, but so is short hair, and it's just too convenient to pass up. No 40 minute detangling sessions, no exhaustingly long showers, and I can drive with the windows down without a care.
06/08/2010
El-Jaro El-Jaro
My hair was on its way out years ago. I've given up on keeping a style and just trim it with a set of clippers (sans guard). I shaved it for awhile, but realized I could save time with just trimming it.

I would love for Cyn to get more purple in her hair, but she hasn't done it...yet. Her hair is pretty long. I like it (except for in the shower).
06/08/2010
LicentiouslyYours LicentiouslyYours
I have always liked one or the other extreme–bald or shaved and long hair on men. In between is certainly fine too, but those two extremes are what I'm most attracted to.
06/09/2010
Miss Cinnamon Miss Cinnamon
Quote:
Originally posted by El-Jaro
My hair was on its way out years ago. I've given up on keeping a style and just trim it with a set of clippers (sans guard). I shaved it for awhile, but realized I could save time with just trimming it.

I would love for Cyn to get more ...
Dyeing hair in dorms = not the easiest feat ever. I also have these nightmares of getting orange hair like my friend did when she tried to dye hers purple.
06/09/2010
White Fox White Fox
Woops forgot to select Male when I voted. I'm a guy and I have about mid-back or longer hair (not that I can just turn my head and look ;p). I've been enjoying it a lot and I think I'm just going to keep it this way, keeping it cleaned up and usually pony-tailed. I think it's gonna look great loose once I get my kilt in and a jacobite shirt.
06/09/2010
Annemarie Annemarie
Currently, my hair is medium (shoulder length). I'm growing it back out from it being shaved a year and a couple of months ago.

I donate my hair every opportunity I can get. Like, literally, I grow my hair to 13-14 inches, cut it off, and start the process all over again. Lately, I've been getting my head shaved with St. Baldrick's Foundation every two years (or so I suspect, since I've only done it once).

So, basically, I don't really care about the length of my hair.

As for my partner.. that's up to them. I do rather like having something to hold on to.
06/09/2010
Kim! Kim!
By "short" for guy's hair I think like not able to run my fingers through it short. I am not a fan of that. I want something to grab onto at least. But it doesn't have to be shoulder length or anything quite long.
06/10/2010
CaitScott CaitScott
My hubby has short hair, with none on top, and I love it the way he has it, but I also love longer, 70's rock ind of hair! so im open to all on my partners!
As for me, I prefer my hair shoulder length, or just a little below.
06/10/2010
Hannah Savage Hannah Savage
I like my hair short (think a-line bob) and the general consensus seems to as well. However, on male partners I like short hair and on females I like long hair.
06/15/2010
VieuxCarre VieuxCarre
I just got 6 inches hacked off of my hair and I love it. I live in southeastern Louisiana and it's summer. Plus, it's easier for me to maintain and I look like crap with longer hair. I used to look good with it when I was younger, but age doesn't like my longer hair.

On a guy I like it short. I'm just...not a fan of the long hair thing. I dated a few guys with long hair and it just...bothered me.
06/15/2010
Jul!a Jul!a
Quote:
Originally posted by VieuxCarre
I just got 6 inches hacked off of my hair and I love it. I live in southeastern Louisiana and it's summer. Plus, it's easier for me to maintain and I look like crap with longer hair. I used to look good with it when I was younger, but age ...
I've always had an issue with guys having longer hair than me, it was just weird to me. I mean, to each their own, but I just didn't think I could date anybody with hair longer than mine, although the upside is he could probably style my hair fantasically. Or at leat know how to braid it, lol.
06/15/2010
Sir Sir
I prefer my hair short, but I also like it long and medium length. I loved looking like I came from a Victorian scene, I looked very proper and attractive with medium length hair. I also had long hair for a time, I enjoyed it. I would put it back into a pony tail, it looked extremely attractive, especially when I didn't shave.

But as for partners? I have no preference, it's just the type of person that I am..though I am vain and somewhat hard on myself to be attractive, I do not have a preference in partners. She could be bald, have hair down to the floor, so long as she's good inside.
06/15/2010
Naughty Student Naughty Student
I have long hair, my hair takes a lot of time to grow and now that it is long I have a hrd time going to get them cut. I used to be a hairdresser so caring for my hair is not much of an issue, I love playing with it. BUT it does get in the way sometimes during sex but long hair so just so sexy to me. Sometimes change is good.

My partner used to hae mid length hair and now I cut keep it at an overall 1-2 inch length. He has wonderful "Michealangelo angel's" curled hair, I could never cut them short short short. His curls are so grogeous, I love to play with his hair.
06/16/2010
~LaUr3n~ ~LaUr3n~
Long for me, the longer the better. The guys I've talked to find long hair super hot. My partner think girls with short hair look like boys. I disagree in some cases, but I find long hair inherently feminine. On my guys, I like it shaggy. I think the spiked hair look reminds me of junior high and I hate when guys have hair that is too long and still spike it or grease it back. Sexy shag is the way to go. I have donated my hair since I was 16 and I grow it so long that it is never shorter than my shoulders when I cut it. I can't stand short hair on me which is awesome because I've never dated a guy who preferred it. Not that I would ever cut it for a guy anyways lol.
06/16/2010
~LaUr3n~ ~LaUr3n~
Quote:
Originally posted by LicentiouslyYours
I have always liked one or the other extreme–bald or shaved and long hair on men. In between is certainly fine too, but those two extremes are what I'm most attracted to.
Very interesting!
06/16/2010
Rossie Rossie
I prefer medium length hair because it's easier to take care. But, I usually keep it 5 or 6 inches pass my shoulder or else my hubby will have a fit!
06/16/2010
Ciao. Ciao.
I had longish hair for a good while (to the shoulders at least), a few months ago for the first time in a long time I got it cut much shorter than that and found to my surprise that I like that well too. So for me, it's not a huge deal, but I probably won't sport a buzz cut anytime soon. Might try shaving my head once just to see what it is like, but no plans anytime soon.

As for partners, I don't really care either. My partner has mid to long hair and I like that look on her. More than anything else I enjoy some variation, so if she's had it longer for a while a shorter cut is always kind of neat and a good bit of variety.
06/16/2010
Jul!a Jul!a
Quote:
Originally posted by Rossie
I prefer medium length hair because it's easier to take care. But, I usually keep it 5 or 6 inches pass my shoulder or else my hubby will have a fit!
My ex used to try and control the length of my hair, he always wanted it to be really long and he wanted me to wear it down all the time. Well I was only growing my hair out to donate it, wearing it down drove me crazy, and being told how I should wear my hair made me want to do the exact opposite. So one day I went out, chopped it all off, and dyed it 3 different colors. He wasn't amused, but I was, lol

I like having short hair because if I don't have time to shower in the morning and my hair needs to be cleaned, I can always wash it in the sink and shower later. But what's nice about longer hair is in the same situation, I can put it up in a bun and shower later. Saves me some time, lol
06/16/2010
Chilipepper Chilipepper
My hair is usually about down to my shoulders, but I keep it up most of time because it's too hot in Florida to have long hair.

I did grow it down to just past my waist in my mid-twenties. My ex-husband LOVED it when it was so long. Trouble was that he kept laying on it when we were in bed. I kept surprising myself every time I took it down out of the clip ... 'When did it get this long???' (In fact, my avatar here was what I looked like back in those days - one-length, long, and red.) The day I cut most of it off (for a jaw-length bob), he cried and wouldn't speak to me for three days.

I'm divided between wanting it to be a chin-length bob (which I look good in) or growing it long enough to do a Pre-Raphaelite style. My bangs are growing out at the moment, and it's driving me crazy. I don't know if I want to continue growing them out or not.

For men, I cannot stand the shaved head thing. I want hair to rake my fingers through and grab onto, dammit! My ex-husband's hair was disgusting and seemed to always be greasy - never cared to play with his hair. Mulder always had beautiful hair back in school ... it was that warm Italian black color and was so damn thick and he usually wore it down to his chin. Back then I told him he had romance novel hero hair. When we got back together he kept it short so it sort of had a bottle brush stiffness. I was still able to grab onto it, though, so I was okay with it. (Another thing I miss about him since he left me.)

I totally love hair as long as it's clean.
06/16/2010
VieuxCarre VieuxCarre
Quote:
Originally posted by Jul!a
I've always had an issue with guys having longer hair than me, it was just weird to me. I mean, to each their own, but I just didn't think I could date anybody with hair longer than mine, although the upside is he could probably style my ...
The guy I dated with long hair did not keep it up nicely. He let it get all greasy and it was just GROSS. I convinced him to cut it and he hated me for it. Oh well. One of the many reasons we are NOT together anymore. Not over the hair. His bitchiness over it caused problems LOL.
06/17/2010
Jul!a Jul!a
Quote:
Originally posted by VieuxCarre
The guy I dated with long hair did not keep it up nicely. He let it get all greasy and it was just GROSS. I convinced him to cut it and he hated me for it. Oh well. One of the many reasons we are NOT together anymore. Not over the hair. His ...
That sucks. I hate it when the men get bitchier than I ever do at any point during the month, lol
06/17/2010
Annemarie Annemarie
Quote:
Originally posted by Jul!a
That sucks. I hate it when the men get bitchier than I ever do at any point during the month, lol
I know, right?! It's like their excuse is "well, you get bitchy when you're PMSing, so I get to be bitchy whenever the hell I want!"

It makes me want to throw something.
06/17/2010
Jul!a Jul!a
Quote:
Originally posted by Annemarie
I know, right?! It's like their excuse is "well, you get bitchy when you're PMSing, so I get to be bitchy whenever the hell I want!"

It makes me want to throw something.
But the thing is I really only get bitchy in response to them being bitchy!! lol
06/18/2010
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