Is your attraction to others influenced by their personal style ? I find I even become drawn to just friends through subtle appearance cues. If we can read each other as queer through our outfits, for example.
I find it odd that when I'm attracted to someone its based on uniqueness. For example there is this girl that goes to my gym. She has tattoos and has the alt style. She is beautiful, same with personality as well. I like someone that's them self not acting like everyone else.