My first time having sex was wonderful! I was with My Man (we later had an Open Relationship, so even though he was my First, he wasn't my only.) He had been with women before, so knew what to do.
I didn't let him give me oral sex. (What was wrong with me?) But the man knows how to use his hands. We had been playing with manual sex for a while, and he certainly knew where a clitoris was. It was lovely. I was not able to have an orgasm (I had just figured out how to do it myself) but just being with him and making love was wonderful. I remember being in the bathroom of his house before hand, putting the spermicide in and just shaking
he put me at ease and it was beautiful. It didn't hurt and I really had a good time. He did, too, obviously.
We had played a lot and he had fingered me for several weeks, so I didn't bleed and had no pain.
A short time later I let him give me oral sex and I had my first orgasm with an other person. Amazing and wonderful, indeed.