If in a relationship..whos the dominate one?

shySEXXaddict shySEXXaddict
Usually theres the one person that "wears the pants" as they say in a relationship.Who would that be? And do you prefer it that way?
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I wear the pants in this relationship!!
11
my partner is the more dominate one
10
actually we are equal
24
i prefer to be the dominate one
4
I wish my partner would take charge once in awhile
11
I prefer to be the more submissive one in our relationship
12
My partner takes complete control over me whether I like it or not..and I DONT like it!
1
I prefer equal...and thats how it is!
5
Total votes: 78 (49 voters)
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08/08/2012
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bedorerc bedorerc
When my husband is home he is in charge a bit more. However, he works all the time so I ened up in charge of what goes on most of the time. It works out to us being pretty equal.
08/08/2012
- Kira - - Kira -
My husband is dominant. He does ask my opinion on things, but he makes final decisions.
08/08/2012
SilverMinxxx SilverMinxxx
We are equal, but I prefer my partner to be a little more dominant.
08/08/2012
Geogeo Geogeo
Im usually more dominant in most relationships, except in the bedroom.
08/08/2012
Hallmar82 Hallmar82
My wife always prefers that I take charge in almost every way (except shopping).
08/08/2012
ejrbrndps ejrbrndps
we are kinda equal right now
08/08/2012
freshbananas freshbananas
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Originally posted by shySEXXaddict
Usually theres the one person that "wears the pants" as they say in a relationship.Who would that be? And do you prefer it that way?
We are equal but he always gets last say. I think it is important he makes the choices for the both of us. I know if I am really concerned he will listen. If I need to, I can step up to plate. He makes me feel safe and it works out for us.
08/08/2012
Rossie Rossie
We're pretty equal, but he calls me the 'queen' of the house.
08/08/2012
Airen Wolf Airen Wolf
Quote:
Originally posted by shySEXXaddict
Usually theres the one person that "wears the pants" as they say in a relationship.Who would that be? And do you prefer it that way?
I need the "other" category! In my relationship with Sigel we are pretty equal and trade power often and the same is often true of my relationship with Arch but Arch can sometimes desire complete power exchange so I end up being dominant.
08/08/2012
Pururin Pururin
Sometimes I'm the dominate one unintentionally lol. We're about equal though, but sometimes I wish he'd be more dominant in the bedroom.
08/08/2012
LAndJ LAndJ
We are relatively equal, but I prefer to be more submissive.
08/08/2012
Master DarkWolf Master DarkWolf
I am the Master, my Baby is my slave, and I love and respect her as an equal spirit, caring for her and cherishing her from the bottom of my heart.
08/08/2012
Tangles Tangles
We're equal. In the bedroom I like being "dominated" but I also like dominating once in a while.
08/08/2012
shySEXXaddict shySEXXaddict
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Originally posted by Master DarkWolf
I am the Master, my Baby is my slave, and I love and respect her as an equal spirit, caring for her and cherishing her from the bottom of my heart.
alink darkwolf thats a sweet response!!!!!
08/08/2012
DreamWolf DreamWolf
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Originally posted by Master DarkWolf
I am the Master, my Baby is my slave, and I love and respect her as an equal spirit, caring for her and cherishing her from the bottom of my heart.
I couldn't find the right words to express how unbelievably happy I am by being ruled, lead, dominated by my OnlyMaster, having Him teach me everything I can learn in life, showing me by example how to be a good, matured, harmonic human being, soul, knowing and feeling that He sees and watches me, knows me, knows how much I need and want His Control and Help on my path - being a mighty spirited, dominant and stubborn one myself, feeling and seeing that He respects and nurtures the "warrior" in me, while He cherishes, honors and uses my humble, incredibly submissive soul, and lets me love Him the way I love loving Him: obediently, always eager to please, and also fighting for what I believe in, encouraging me to go for anything I feel in my heart, even when it means that I am in a total tantrum until I get what I want from Him! ~lol ^^

I could never imagine any other ways of life, only that I am His humble, loving, gentle slave, and the warrior spirit He nurtures with His Tender Love and Firm but Gentle Hand...! Oooooooooooooooooooooo oooohhhhhhhhhhh, nyuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuu uuuuuuuuuuuuuu!!!!!!!! !!!!!!!! ~pants out of her mind with a pounding heart!!! ^^ ( my Only WolfLord!!!!!!!!!!!!!! !!!!!!!!!! ~whimpers loudly and happy as hell)
08/08/2012
G&L G&L
In public I tend to be more dominate, while in private he tends to be. Overall I'd say we're equal.
08/08/2012
shySEXXaddict shySEXXaddict
Quote:
Originally posted by shySEXXaddict
Usually theres the one person that "wears the pants" as they say in a relationship.Who would that be? And do you prefer it that way?
well let me answer my own question..my bf is the more dominant one in the bedroom and out and i like it that way! He does take my opinion and go with my choices but usually in the end I make him make the final decision.The bedroom I like him controlling me..as in my everyday life that he isnt involved in, like my children and my bills etc. Im in charge.I think thats why I accept him taking control when we are together..because it feels good to not have to be sometimes.
08/08/2012
Michele Michele
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Originally posted by bedorerc
When my husband is home he is in charge a bit more. However, he works all the time so I ened up in charge of what goes on most of the time. It works out to us being pretty equal.
That is pretty much how it is in my house. He is more dom. in the relationship when he is home. Though, we still make most of the decisions together.
08/08/2012
gsfanatic gsfanatic
I tend to be more in charge, but that's just because I can make decisions faster.
08/09/2012
Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
We are equal in a different way. We divide responsibilities and rule in our respective areas. Simple things like were to go for dinner are just based on whoever has a preference - the other will go along.
08/09/2012
Zombirella Zombirella
I don't think there is either, we are equal and I like it to be that way. Of course we each get our own way one time or another .
08/09/2012
married with children married with children
I wear the pants. My wife wants to and gets mad when I make the decisions, but then she wont make a decision so it comes back to me making it.
08/10/2012
CountryPrincess CountryPrincess
You should have an other option LOL... if you ask me I say I wear the pants but if you ask my man hell tell you he does LOL... When it comes to the bedroom though for whatever reason I'm rather shy and I like him to take control and be somewhat rather dominate over me, but occasionally I suck it up and am the dominant one in bed lol
08/10/2012
clockwork451 clockwork451
I'm the dominant one in every relationship, but sexually, I actually prefer to be submissive---sometimes .
08/10/2012
TWE112 TWE112
neither is really dominant.
08/10/2012
michael scofield michael scofield
i would like her to dominate me and i will obey all her commands
08/12/2012
anonkitty anonkitty
I am. I usually prefer not to be though.
08/12/2012
indiglo indiglo
We prefer a more equal balance of power.
08/12/2012
Rey Rey
we are equal, but i like to think i wear the pants ;P
08/12/2012
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