If you could know exactly what people think of you...

bayosgirl bayosgirl
Would you? I admit I, myself, am not sure of my answer to this question. I often feel insecure and wonder if people who seem to like me really don't, and maybe are just nice because they are good people or feel sorry for me for some reason. Sometimes I would like to know what they really think of me..but then I'm afraid if I did, and it were negative, it would crush me.
Answers (public voting - your screen name will appear in the results):
Yes, I would totally want to know
GONE! , gwenevieve , earthmama , CS2012 , sunflower , spiced
6  (15%)
Heck no!!!!
eri86 , Lildrummrgurl7 , The Vixen , rosythorn , js250 , Real or memorex , Airen Wolf , PeaceToTheMiddleEast , LoveX , gsfanatic , FlashFuchsia , joolie , peachmarie , sweetpea12
14  (35%)
Maybe/depends on the person
bayosgirl , Castielskitten , KinkyKatieJames , bratcat , Martiniman , bog , mpfm , KrissyNovacaine , Silverwinds , Kitka , Sammi , AliMc , Chastity Darling , evie.amor
14  (35%)
Something else?
married with children , Cosmonaut , U3H , SecretKinksters , Gunsmoke , Sbmsvschoolgirl
6  (15%)
Total votes: 40
Poll is closed
04/28/2013
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eri86 eri86
Why? You already know you don't always like everything about other people, and there are times you don't like them at as much. But that doesn't mean you don't like them at all?

So why introduce yourself to that same sort of grief?
04/28/2013
married with children married with children
the thing about me is, I dont really care what people think about me. I am who I am. If they dont like it, too bad.
04/28/2013
Castielskitten Castielskitten
I would only care what my mother thinks, since she's lied so much to me, I rather know what she's really thinking, though normally what she says, she think's opposite.
04/28/2013
Martiniman Martiniman
It totally depends on who the person is.
04/28/2013
bog bog
Quote:
Originally posted by bayosgirl
Would you? I admit I, myself, am not sure of my answer to this question. I often feel insecure and wonder if people who seem to like me really don't, and maybe are just nice because they are good people or feel sorry for me for some reason. ... More
It'd only work if it was selective, so you could turn off knowing on an emotional day.
04/28/2013
rosythorn rosythorn
heck no! never, I think bad things about people I love all the time, so i would never want them to know about it! plus I can usually tell what people think of me anyway.
04/28/2013
Cosmonaut Cosmonaut
I used to care what people thought of me. Now, I really could not care less. What matters is what you think of yourself...if you don't like what you see, change it.
04/28/2013
SecretKinksters SecretKinksters
Don't really care what people think of me...
04/28/2013
Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
Getting accurate feedback from people is hard. I'd try to use honest knowledge about what people think to assess my strengths and weaknesses.

Not everything you would find out would be negative. By and large I would like to know.
04/28/2013
KrissyNovacaine KrissyNovacaine
It's a big maybe. When I am insecure it's more yes, but most of the time I am pretty secure which then it is a no.
04/28/2013
gwenevieve gwenevieve
Quote:
Originally posted by bayosgirl
Would you? I admit I, myself, am not sure of my answer to this question. I often feel insecure and wonder if people who seem to like me really don't, and maybe are just nice because they are good people or feel sorry for me for some reason. ... More
i would but i wouldnt care. it would be nice to ease my anxiety and to know for sure how people feel
04/28/2013
Silverwinds Silverwinds
Maybe... idk. I'd hate to find out someone close to me thinks of me as 'that bitch' even though I kinda am sometimes.
04/28/2013
Kitka Kitka
I don't know if it'd be a great idea to know about that but it might just depend on the person.
04/28/2013
js250 js250
No--I would rather keep my illusions.....
04/28/2013
Sammi Sammi
Maybe. If I actually cared what they thought, I'd probably want to know, but otherwise it wouldn't really matter to me.
04/28/2013
Real or memorex Real or memorex
Nope. I'm in favor of people enjoying privacy in their thoughts. Everyone has had angry or hurt thoughts about loved ones that we work through and get over. It's natural but likely to be damaging to a friendship if exposed in its raw form.
04/28/2013
Chastity Darling Chastity Darling
We all say things in our heads that we may not mean, so I think this would be a negative experience... However there are times I wish I could read minds just so I wouldn't have to play 20 questions all the time.
04/28/2013
PeaceToTheMiddleEast PeaceToTheMiddleEast
I could care less what someone thinks of me either you like me or you don't I used to be this way long time ago but I got over it.
04/28/2013
earthmama earthmama
I would want to know just because I am curious.
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Sbmsvschoolgirl Sbmsvschoolgirl
Some things are better left unknown. That would take all of e mystery out of it! Lol
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CS2012 CS2012
I would want to know because I am very insecure.
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LoveX LoveX
No, I wouldn't want to know. I know some of the less than nice things I think sometimes, and I wouldn't want to know what others really think about me on occasion too.
04/28/2013
gsfanatic gsfanatic
No thanks, since I tend to think petty stuff about people until I get over it, so I'd rather not hear others petty stuff about me
04/28/2013
sunflower sunflower
I have a fear of being that one friend that everyone keeps around but talks shit about behind their back. I'd like to hear it anonymously I think. It would keep my ego in check anyway.
04/28/2013
spiced spiced
I don't CARE — but I'd still like to know, because it could be useful. There may be better ways to say some of the things I say, for instance, which would make me more effective at reaching my goals. I would love that.
04/28/2013
evie.amor evie.amor
Quote:
Originally posted by married with children
the thing about me is, I dont really care what people think about me. I am who I am. If they dont like it, too bad.
That's a good attitude to have. Sometimes I find myself caring about what someone may think about me, but I try to just be me and not give a darn.
04/29/2013
FlashFuchsia FlashFuchsia
A very wise person once said, "What other people think of me is none of my business". I think it's very true.
04/29/2013
peachmarie peachmarie
Everyone has bad thoughts about people once in awhile. I wouldn't want to know what i do that would piss people off.
04/29/2013
sweetpea12 sweetpea12
Quote:
Originally posted by bayosgirl
Would you? I admit I, myself, am not sure of my answer to this question. I often feel insecure and wonder if people who seem to like me really don't, and maybe are just nice because they are good people or feel sorry for me for some reason. ... More
No I wouldn't want to know.
04/29/2013
Total posts: 30
Unique posters: 30