Its more of a mutual thing for me for equal contribution in an association. I usually gravitate toward individuals when I feel positive about them, their confidence, attitude and general opinions but close associations are built more on what I have in common with them.
Both. I choose people that enjoy and respect me and my opinions as much as I do theirs. I realize that it will be uneven as we go through many different experiences in our lives but in the end it eventually evens out and that is what the friendship is all about. Mutual respect and trust.
Sometimes I feel guilted into hanging out with people if I know/ get the feeling they have a crush on me, but that doesn't mean I'll hang out with them 24/7, just more often than I would if I didn't know that/ get that feeling from them, which is to say at all, lol
Only people I actually care about I go out of my way to spend an extreme amount of my time with