At what point do people think that women lose their virginity? Identify what you consider the earliest point to be a definite loss of virginity.
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What do you consider to be losing your virginity? (female version)
12/26/2012
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I have a friend who is VERY religious and she thinks she's still a virgin because she's only had anal sex and refuses to have any vaginal intercourse until marriage. I don't understand that. But it's her choice, I feel bad for her boyfriend.
I say I'm not a virgin because I'd had oral and vaginal sex, but I'm an anal virgin and intend to stay that way.
I say I'm not a virgin because I'd had oral and vaginal sex, but I'm an anal virgin and intend to stay that way.
12/26/2012
I would say only at vaginal penetration, but I do have a girlfriend who has only exclusively had sex with women. I have never grilled her about it, but I believe she still has her hymen, she just hasn't ever broken the darn thing by fingering and doesn't use toys. So... I'd say she's lost her virginity. It really depends how you see it.
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I think that other acts beside penis in vagina intercourse count as sex so I feel like it only makes sense that any of those should also count as loss of virginity. In the end though I think it's up to the individual to decide for themselves what virginity and the loss of it means to them.
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virginity is ridic~
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I think any type of penetration should be considered a loss of virginity even if it doesn't technically lead to the hymen breaking.
12/26/2012
I think having sex with a partner (any sex - vaginal, oral, anal, or otherwise) would be when you lose your virginity.
12/27/2012
vaginal penetration
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Vaginal penetration or anal.
Originally posted by
Livia Drew
At what point do people think that women lose their virginity? Identify what you consider the earliest point to be a definite loss of virginity.
12/27/2012
This is confusing--penetration by what? :/
I think any act involving one person directly stimulating another person's genitalia for an extended period of time, intending to lead to orgasm, is sex. It could be fingering, oral, or actual intercourse, I don't really think any are more or less than the others.
I think hymens, as well as penises, have nothing to do with it. Sex implies that two people are exchanging pleasurable acts in some way. Those people could be of any gender.
I think any act involving one person directly stimulating another person's genitalia for an extended period of time, intending to lead to orgasm, is sex. It could be fingering, oral, or actual intercourse, I don't really think any are more or less than the others.
I think hymens, as well as penises, have nothing to do with it. Sex implies that two people are exchanging pleasurable acts in some way. Those people could be of any gender.
12/27/2012
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any penetration that is vaginal. sadly a lot of young girls are trying to stay virgins so they are having anal sex, alot of it.. and are getting hurt from doing it..
Originally posted by
Livia Drew
At what point do people think that women lose their virginity? Identify what you consider the earliest point to be a definite loss of virginity.
12/27/2012
Penetration, or oral. Depends on the woman's sexual orientation.
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This. If someone consensually gives you an orgasm, you're no virgin.
Originally posted by
emiliaa
This is confusing--penetration by what? :/
I think any act involving one person directly stimulating another person's genitalia for an extended period of time, intending to lead to orgasm, is sex. It could be fingering, oral, or actual ... more
I think any act involving one person directly stimulating another person's genitalia for an extended period of time, intending to lead to orgasm, is sex. It could be fingering, oral, or actual ... more
This is confusing--penetration by what? :/
I think any act involving one person directly stimulating another person's genitalia for an extended period of time, intending to lead to orgasm, is sex. It could be fingering, oral, or actual intercourse, I don't really think any are more or less than the others.
I think hymens, as well as penises, have nothing to do with it. Sex implies that two people are exchanging pleasurable acts in some way. Those people could be of any gender. less
I think any act involving one person directly stimulating another person's genitalia for an extended period of time, intending to lead to orgasm, is sex. It could be fingering, oral, or actual intercourse, I don't really think any are more or less than the others.
I think hymens, as well as penises, have nothing to do with it. Sex implies that two people are exchanging pleasurable acts in some way. Those people could be of any gender. less
12/27/2012
Vaginal penetration by a partner.
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Vaginal penetration by your partner.
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I consider any form of penetration oral, anal or vaginal to be sex. If you've had sex then you are no longer a virgin.
However I subscribe no particular value to virginity. In fact I would never have considered marrying a virgin. Sexuality is to large of a component of a happy marriage to leave it to chance.
However I subscribe no particular value to virginity. In fact I would never have considered marrying a virgin. Sexuality is to large of a component of a happy marriage to leave it to chance.
12/27/2012
I vote for what the girl believes to be sex, which doesn't necessarily involve penetration at all.
12/27/2012
Vaginal penetration
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Seems to me that everyone defines it the way they want. A recent survey showed high school girls were engaging in oral and anal sex to "avoid losing their virginity", so obviously in their minds, that was not the action...only "vaginal penetration" was. Of course, in the grand scheme of things..does any of this really matter? Having sex...any kind, is a mature act with consequences. Virginity, in most of the Western world, does not mean a lot in 2012.
Originally posted by
Livia Drew
At what point do people think that women lose their virginity? Identify what you consider the earliest point to be a definite loss of virginity.
12/27/2012
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Funny. I have heard that sentiment far, far more, from men and woman, then the old "I want to marry a virgin" statement.
Originally posted by
Gunsmoke
I consider any form of penetration oral, anal or vaginal to be sex. If you've had sex then you are no longer a virgin.
However I subscribe no particular value to virginity. In fact I would never have considered marrying a virgin. Sexuality ... more
However I subscribe no particular value to virginity. In fact I would never have considered marrying a virgin. Sexuality ... more
I consider any form of penetration oral, anal or vaginal to be sex. If you've had sex then you are no longer a virgin.
However I subscribe no particular value to virginity. In fact I would never have considered marrying a virgin. Sexuality is to large of a component of a happy marriage to leave it to chance. less
However I subscribe no particular value to virginity. In fact I would never have considered marrying a virgin. Sexuality is to large of a component of a happy marriage to leave it to chance. less
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Interesting. So even external clit play would qualify by your definition?
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GONE!
This. If someone consensually gives you an orgasm, you're no virgin.
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Well said.
Originally posted by
GirlOnGirl
I think that other acts beside penis in vagina intercourse count as sex so I feel like it only makes sense that any of those should also count as loss of virginity. In the end though I think it's up to the individual to decide for themselves
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I think that other acts beside penis in vagina intercourse count as sex so I feel like it only makes sense that any of those should also count as loss of virginity. In the end though I think it's up to the individual to decide for themselves what virginity and the loss of it means to them.
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Mr Bignuf dated a girl in college. Same exact thing. She was "saving it" for her hubby some day. However, she was an anal and oral maniac. Just no vaginal sex and she considered herself "pure as snow", since only with "real sex" could you conceive a child..her religious definition of "sex".
Originally posted by
Bleu
I have a friend who is VERY religious and she thinks she's still a virgin because she's only had anal sex and refuses to have any vaginal intercourse until marriage. I don't understand that. But it's her choice, I feel bad for her
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I have a friend who is VERY religious and she thinks she's still a virgin because she's only had anal sex and refuses to have any vaginal intercourse until marriage. I don't understand that. But it's her choice, I feel bad for her boyfriend.
I say I'm not a virgin because I'd had oral and vaginal sex, but I'm an anal virgin and intend to stay that way. less
I say I'm not a virgin because I'd had oral and vaginal sex, but I'm an anal virgin and intend to stay that way. less
12/27/2012
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That is an interesting question. I wonder what she thinks?
Originally posted by
Bethy Cassatt
I would say only at vaginal penetration, but I do have a girlfriend who has only exclusively had sex with women. I have never grilled her about it, but I believe she still has her hymen, she just hasn't ever broken the darn thing by fingering and
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I would say only at vaginal penetration, but I do have a girlfriend who has only exclusively had sex with women. I have never grilled her about it, but I believe she still has her hymen, she just hasn't ever broken the darn thing by fingering and doesn't use toys. So... I'd say she's lost her virginity. It really depends how you see it.
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12/27/2012
It's a very odd and interesting subject.
12/27/2012
vaginal penetration.
12/27/2012
As a lesbian, virginity is a little more complicated than vaginal or anal penetration. Any fun touching of yours or your partner's lady parts would have to count, I think.
12/27/2012
Vaginal penetration, doesn't matter if it was toy or penis, if you break that hymen or it's your first CONSENTUAL one then that's what I believe.
The earliest point for me, that I consider is age 15. I was raped twice before that so I will not count that as losing my virginity.
The earliest point for me, that I consider is age 15. I was raped twice before that so I will not count that as losing my virginity.
12/27/2012
vaginal penetration with a man.
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