When Love Is In Trouble...

LoveBug721 LoveBug721
Do you try to work things out if your feelings have changed and your un sure how you feel?
04/25/2013
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LoveBug721 LoveBug721
Not sure.
04/25/2013
js250 js250
It depends on the situation....with my husband I am trying to work things out, but it is still up in the air.
04/25/2013
KrissyNovacaine KrissyNovacaine
For me, love ebbs and flows. If the relationship is worth it I sit down with my partner to figure out what's going wrong and fix it.
04/25/2013
peachmarie peachmarie
I like the quote that says " The key to staying together is to never fall out of love at the same time" Basically if you are in a serious long term relationship there are going to be times where you question why you are together, if only a little bit. You can be really into someone and they can be less in love with you, you can both be super in love or they can be into you more than you are. That's just kind of how relationships are, talk it out and figure out your issues. My boyfriend and i just recently had a discussion like that that was very emotionally damaging to me, my friend helped me work it out and see things level and not over react. I feel like we have a better understanding of each other and it has helped a lot. That's just how adult relationships go when your an adult, everything not sunshine and rainbows unfortunately all the time.
04/25/2013
Martiniman Martiniman
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Originally posted by peachmarie
I like the quote that says " The key to staying together is to never fall out of love at the same time" Basically if you are in a serious long term relationship there are going to be times where you question why you are together, if only a ... More
Extremely well stated!

However, love can be in trouble for various reasons, but if your feelings have changed and you're not just having issues...that might be a subconscious clue that you're ready to move on.
I've been with my wife for over 20 years now, and I've been upset and disappointed with her and our relationship from time to time, but I've never wavered in my feelings of love for her.
04/26/2013
Airen Wolf Airen Wolf
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Originally posted by LoveBug721
Do you try to work things out if your feelings have changed and your un sure how you feel?
I did yes and it seems to be working out better than I ever imagined it could be with the husband but with my family I finally had to just walk away and cut my losses.
04/26/2013
Hummingbird Hummingbird
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Originally posted by peachmarie
I like the quote that says " The key to staying together is to never fall out of love at the same time" Basically if you are in a serious long term relationship there are going to be times where you question why you are together, if only a ... More
Well put but what if you're not sure what love is anymore? Talking is great but what if every day conversations are irritating. We've been trying to talk things through but sometimes I feel like I'm banging my head against a wall. I get what I want out of my system calmly and careful of his feelings and things change for a couple of weeks then go back to where they were.

It'll be 27 years we've been together this year, what do you do when the magic is no longer there and the spontaneity is gone?
04/26/2013
Mr. John Mr. John
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Originally posted by LoveBug721
Do you try to work things out if your feelings have changed and your un sure how you feel?
"When Love Is In Trouble", is a perfect title for a country western song.

Love should never be taken for granted, and always worked on. So, when that moment happens to me, and it does. I inevitably go into my cave for awhile to sulk, of which I eventually come out and get through the issues. This pattern of mine has gone on for many years, but I'd still say we are happily married. Its not really the answer you want, but its the answer I have. I just happen to think trouble is normal, and needs constant attention.
04/26/2013
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