How Did You Meet Your Lover, Wife, Husband, Significant Other?

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How Did You Meet Your Lover, Wife, Husband, Significant Other?

LusciousLollypop LusciousLollypop
I know in this time and age there are a million ways to meet people. I know that I met the love of my life online, on a very kinky, and bad website. I took a chance, and it panned out to be the best move that I had ever made.

We all come from walks of life.

I would love to know your story on how you met the person that made it all happen for you. How did you know they were just.. meant for you?
Answers (public voting - your screen name will appear in the results):
I met them.. Let me tell you!
Airen Wolf , ChuChii , Sundae Sparkles , amazon , darthkitt3n , solitudinarian , Dixiemomma , NaughtyButterfly , Lucifer the Cat , unfulfilled , LusciousLollypop , digit88 , Calla , Kitka , pirata , SneakersAndPearls , edenguy , TheirPet , Big&Bald , Feisty , The Kitty , SecretKinksters , Beck , junipersgame , shySEXXaddict , Rawr4483 , leanright69 , pizzahut , LAndJ , YvetteJeannine , SMichelle , Ansley , CaliGirl , kitty91 , squire , MistressDandelion , G&L , married with children , dv8 , LoveYouLikeThat , Stinkytofu10 , RedKyuubi , BlooJay , Ex-prude , Gluesnffr , neil i. , lovesexandmarriage
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I knew they were meant for me when.. Let me tell you!
gsfanatic , Zombirella , ChuChii , Alyona , amazon , pirata , Ansley , brevado
8
I haven't met them yet.. but I know I will by.. Let me tell you!
jryder3891 , HostileUmbrella
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I've been hurt before and don't want to share.
collifornia , tortilla
2
Other -- Please Explain!
*Camoprincess* , PassionateLover2 , HostileUmbrella
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Total votes: 62 (57 voters)
Poll is closed
08/21/2012
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spookycutie spookycutie
He prank called me!

Long story short, I met him through my ex boyfriend when we were still speaking. The two of them became friends at college, and wanting to annoy my ex's new girlfriend, he prank called me. He liked how I reacted, and thought I was cute, so he friended me on Facebook and it turned out we'd gone to the same high school a few years apart, but I had been in classes with his younger brother so he wasn't a total stranger or anything really.

Going on 3 1/2 years!
08/21/2012
gsfanatic gsfanatic
I met her through a close friend. We were hanging out at my place watching movies, and when she went crazy about my bookshelf I knew she was the one
08/21/2012
Zombirella Zombirella
I met him on Myspace. I was thinking of actually shutting my account down a few days before I met him. It was odd. We had mutual friends and I saw him commenting on her page and I know this isn't very nice of me, but I was thinking "gosh, he is so cute, why is he asking her if she has a bf, why can't someone like that be interested in ME?!". I looked at his pictures and thought he was so handsome. Then two days later I get a notification that someone wanted to add me, I log in and it was him!! He saw my profile in the "people you may know" and said he thought I was beautiful and he had to try to add me. I played stupid and messaged him asking if I knew him just to get a conversation started. A day later I went over to his house to meet him and we stayed up til 7am talking, laughing and watching stupid videos on youtube. I just had a feeling there was something different about this one, and there was! We just clicked.
08/22/2012
Airen Wolf Airen Wolf
Quote:
Originally posted by LusciousLollypop
I know in this time and age there are a million ways to meet people. I know that I met the love of my life online, on a very kinky, and bad website. I took a chance, and it panned out to be the best move that I had ever made.

We all come from ...
I met Sigel in 10th grade French 2 class. I met Arch in the MMORPG Lineage. So one in school and the other online.
08/22/2012
*Camoprincess* *Camoprincess*
Mine is well I am not sure the guy I am talking to we met when I was working for the same company as him We did dedicated routes for a popular store chain, I went inside to get the load information while my trainer stayed in the truck I come walking out to hearing "Oh damn switch me students, I want her on my truck!!" I declined since well I was with someone at the time an with the trainer I had I was able to go home on the weekends. Well after I left the company to come home on leave, me and this guy started talking nonstop he informed me I still would have been able to come home on the weekends being on his truck. Such as life right, he was very interested in me helped me through my relationship problems and was there through my breakup. I have a feeling he is the right one, I have never felt this way about anyone at all. We are on a take it one day at a time thing so we shall see what happens.
08/22/2012
ChuChii ChuChii
I met my fiance Socrates through an ex bestfriend of mine,
She called me and told me that she found someone for me and that i should talk to him, so i did, his accent drove me crazy it was cute (well still is)
and we would talk on the phone everynight, and he would text me cute things. MEANWHILE i havent even seen him, just a picture.
So finally Socrates and his friend decides to go out and pick me and my friend up. As soon as i seen him, i fell in love, I knew he was for me... so we go to a bar, listen to music and got kicked out because i wasnt 21 but i was drinking. That same day we started going out .

dont judge me for this.. about 4 days later .. we had sex and that same day we shared a secret, and i really fell for him, same way he fell for me.
And we have been together as a strong united couple almost for 1 year and 6 months, We plan to get married sometime next year.
08/22/2012
sexfairy sexfairy
I met my ex while traveling (spent 3 years together). And my other men before him through music jamming (spent 6 years together).
08/22/2012
Sundae Sparkles Sundae Sparkles
I was "seeing" this guy... who made music he gave me his latest cd to listen too... I listen to it and there was this guy in a few songs and I was super impressed by his voice and his flow... so the next time I spoke to this guy I was "seeing" I was all like who is this other guy... and He was all like oh that is so and so he lives in Tenn. and I was all like wow he is great.. and the guy was all like blah blah blah...
So I looked the guy with the great flow up and myspace... we spoke on and off for 2 year and met at a Kotton Mouth King show... then I moved 4 months later...
bahhhhh people think its stupid but I'm in love even though he drives me INSANE
08/22/2012
darthkitt3n darthkitt3n
I met my fiance at work after I got moved to work in the same area as him.
08/22/2012
solitudinarian solitudinarian
We were both unemployed and attended the same job agency. We were sent to a course and met there - I hadn't noticed him at the agency before. Our first conversation involved him asking me for a pen. He said that my pen was cute. I liked his appreciation of cute mushroom covered pens. We got talking more over the next couple of weeks. I felt a connection and worked up the guts to ask him out. 19 months later...
08/22/2012
Jaimes Jaimes
We met as romantic leads in Shakespeare's Twelfth Night. It was a tricky spot. I was graduating highschool in 4 months, and he was 12 years my senior. But we realized that there was something special and took a chance on amazing.

8 years last February, and married 5 years this Halloween. Sometimes risks pay off.
08/22/2012
Dixiemomma Dixiemomma
I met my guy on a chat site... i wasnt even looking for anyone i had kinda gave up on meeting a guy around here and was just on there out of boredom and we started talking, he flew down and spent a week with me and it was just perfect, total love, we're working on getting things set up for me to move up there with him now... hoping by next summer
08/22/2012
NaughtyButterfly NaughtyButterfly
I met my husband at a party my friend drug me to on Christmas Day. We stayed up all night talking & then in the early morning he drive me to the beach & we sat and talked some more we have been together ever since
08/22/2012
Lucifer the Cat Lucifer the Cat
OkCupid ;p
08/22/2012
unfulfilled unfulfilled
From highschool!
08/22/2012
unfulfilled unfulfilled
Quote:
Originally posted by NaughtyButterfly
I met my husband at a party my friend drug me to on Christmas Day. We stayed up all night talking & then in the early morning he drive me to the beach & we sat and talked some more we have been together ever since
I bet Christmas time is a good time for you then to remind you of meeting your S.O.
08/22/2012
LusciousLollypop LusciousLollypop
Those are all and incredibly touching stories. Thank you for sharing them with me.

In August of last year, I had just got out of a really bad relationship. I had been with him for six years and couldn't take not being number one in his life, he was a cheater and I put up with it for a very long time. I swore off men in August. He also wasn't into my specific.. kinks. We just weren't matched correctly, even though I was madly in love with him. First love's and all.. high school, the works.

In December, right before I went on vacation to California to see my family, I made an account on fetlife. It is a kink-related website for people seeking kink-related people. I made my profile. It was very long and detailed. I didn't think that I would get any type of attention. I posted a few pictures that weren't as classy as I think that I am, and posted an Ad on their "classifieds" group section. It went something like.. "I'm looking for my one. Can I find him here? - Read my profile, there is much to tell but that is a start". Before the night was up, I had got over 100 messages. I didn't answer most of them, maybe two or three.

I was about to go to bed, and I got another message. I was going to delete it just like the rest because people on "those" sites aren't the best people sometimes. I was sifting through a lot of bad apples. This last message.. It wasn't anything spectacular and he wasn't even living in my state. I felt the intense urge to message him back. After that, it was history. We talked a lot more, texted, skyped, phoned, everything. He drove four hours to meet me and we got our kink on. I moved in two months later. Dropped everything and just moved in. I took a risk talking to him and meeting him once, why not take another risk and move in?

He has seen me at my best, and at my worst. He wants me if I'm into my kink or if I'm not and past that. (If you are kink and have fetishes.. these just don't go away. It sometimes has some bumps, but it comes back.. with a vengeance). He tells me every single day that he loves me, kisses me like it is the end of the world, and makes me feel like I'm the only one in his universe that makes sense. Besides the fact that his family and mine want us to get married, we talk about it. I'm serious about getting married, he is too.. it is just the timing.

That is my story.
08/22/2012
Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
An old fashioned fix-up. She was moving to CA right out of college and a friend of the family (her family) asked me to 'look after her'. We didn't start dating right away - I actually tried to fix her up with some of my younger friends (because I'm 11 years older). But fate had other ideas and things progressed quickly. That was 25 years ago and we're celebrating our 23rd anniversary next month.
08/22/2012
LusciousLollypop LusciousLollypop
Quote:
Originally posted by Jaimes
We met as romantic leads in Shakespeare's Twelfth Night. It was a tricky spot. I was graduating highschool in 4 months, and he was 12 years my senior. But we realized that there was something special and took a chance on amazing.

8 years ...
Risks definitely pay off in our cases. Most cases.. you just have to let yourself jump and see what happens.
08/22/2012
digit88 digit88
Quote:
Originally posted by LusciousLollypop
I know in this time and age there are a million ways to meet people. I know that I met the love of my life online, on a very kinky, and bad website. I took a chance, and it panned out to be the best move that I had ever made.

We all come from ...
work
08/22/2012
jryder3891 jryder3891
Quote:
Originally posted by LusciousLollypop
I know in this time and age there are a million ways to meet people. I know that I met the love of my life online, on a very kinky, and bad website. I took a chance, and it panned out to be the best move that I had ever made.

We all come from ...
I am very picky. I want someone that fits my perfect dream girl
08/22/2012
PassionateLover2 PassionateLover2
Quote:
Originally posted by LusciousLollypop
I know in this time and age there are a million ways to meet people. I know that I met the love of my life online, on a very kinky, and bad website. I took a chance, and it panned out to be the best move that I had ever made.

We all come from ...
I started an exact thread asking the same question. My answer is posted at the following link, How did I meet my now 'Significant Other'?
08/22/2012
LusciousLollypop LusciousLollypop
Quote:
Originally posted by PassionateLover2
I started an exact thread asking the same question. My answer is posted at the following link, How did I meet my now 'Significant Other'?
sorry, much? i just asked a question. thanks for the link though.
08/22/2012
Kitka Kitka
I met my husband in an MSN chatroom in 1996 I think it was. We've been together ever since
08/22/2012
pirata pirata
I met him in high school. I started talking to him a lot, thinking just about being friends with him. Then I started liking him and told him at some point on a whim. He said he just wanted to be friends and we JUST KEPT ON TALKING. I was like, "Even if he never likes me, I have to stay friends with him forever because this wasn't even awkward." Then he did like me and now it's two years later
08/22/2012
LusciousLollypop LusciousLollypop
These stories are extremely cute. Thank you for sharing them with me.
08/22/2012
SneakersAndPearls SneakersAndPearls
I met him in high school. I wasn't that interested him at first, then I was smitten by his geeky hotness. But he wasn't interested in me. The night I decided to give up trying to gain his attention is the night he asked me out. We've been together ever since (with a very brief break up during a tumultuous time). Married for 8 years, together for almost 14.
08/22/2012
edenguy edenguy
Jazz club. Started dating a few months after
08/22/2012
TheirPet TheirPet
I met my partner online, they were a friend of a friend.
08/22/2012
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Unique posters: 54