well the other night we were messing around and I was giving him a bj and he started to use his fingers on me. I dont like when he does that cause he will not put his fingers inside me. I want to have fun too so i suggested he use one of my toys he just gave me this dirty look like I was crazy and kept going on with what he was doing. I actually changed position so he could not do it anymore cause he was hurting me the way he was rubbing his fingers. later we were talking and he asked me why I have toys. I told him I had them cause he does not live with me and I like to please myself. Plus I have really bad migraines and sometimes when i get them if i have a lil fun with myself it gets rid of the migraine. then he told me he does not like that I use toys and thinks I should get rid of them. all I said was ok and changed the subject, I am not getting rid of my toys. it is not like I use them all the time. sometimes its only once a month..