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Do you find that your F and his T balance each other out a bit? Or does one of you tend to dominate the decision-making?
Decision making? LOL!!! Nooooooooooo we're *really* bad at coming to any sort of decision about anything. Literally. Sometimes we don't eat until 10 pm or later because neither one of us can figure out what to have for dinner, and we keep shooting down each other's suggestions... That's how all decision-making goes in our house. It's depressing!
My husband is VERY 'T' and I'm VERY 'F'. I guess if I had to say anything about how we finally come to any decision, it's usually because I get exasperated (and hungry) and decide to do my own thing. THEN my husband miraculously arrives at some sort of decision. We're pretty sad!
My husband is definitely the more passive person, and I'm the passionate one... so I suppose that my intensity usually does win out... but we're both pretty apathetic (which is sort of a contradiction, I know, but trust me, passion and apathy CAN happen simultaneously, about different things... if you're me...), so I wouldn't call it 'dominating' as much just my hubby accepting that his decision-making process is incompatible with accomplishing anything... lol.