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Errant Venture Errant Venture
Okay, a few weeks ago I did a blog in which I discussed what the words 'kinky', 'vanilla' and 'neapolitan' meant.

I eventually came to the conclusion that 'kinky' is just about BDSM style sex and swinging(even though I rallied profusely for it to mean so much more than just that, sadly this is its best known definition). Yes, I know you all know this, but it helps to reiterate my point.

'Vanilla' means straight up, 'normal' sex.

And 'neapolitan' is a combination of the two.

I theorised that kinky, by these definitions, are false. Because, as I'm sure is evidenced by you, my fellow members, there's a whole world of sex beyond vanilla, and not quite kinkiness as I've described it here.

Looking through various urban and sex dictionaries, there's not really a word that describes such a person (Yes, I'm aware people don't really like labels, but labels are handy when used as a short-hand), so I wanted to ask you what word you use to describe yourself, if you don't fit into these categories? Or, what word do you feel should be used for this label?
08/09/2011
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Adriana Ravenlust Adriana Ravenlust
I've never heard Neapolitan applied to sex/lifestyle. I'm.. open minded. -shrugs-
12/09/2011
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