Does your partner know you masturbate when there not around?

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Does your partner know you masturbate when there not around?

Rod Ronald Rod Ronald
I had a great conversation with my partner last night and found out by just playing around that she still masturbates when I'm not around. This doesn't bother me at all, but I was a little shocked that in our sexual relationship she was not comfortable enough to tell me this. So...my question is does your partner know that you still masturbate when they are not around, or is it still your little secret?
Answers (private voting - your screen name will NOT appear in the results):
No, there still in the dark...
4  (8%)
Yes, we share everything
41  (80%)
It's none of there damn buisness!!!
I want to tell him (or her) but I feel to shy...
2  (4%)
What!? You mean I can still masturbate even though I'm with someone!?!?!?! THANK YOU GOD!!!!
4  (8%)
Total votes: 51
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03/27/2012
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Rod Ronald Rod Ronald
By the way, just to be clear I feel that everyone is entitled to masturbate! Viva La Masturbation!!!!!!
03/27/2012
CindyH CindyH
he has no idea
03/27/2012
RonLee RonLee
Of course!
03/27/2012
MamaDivine MamaDivine
Quote:
Originally posted by Rod Ronald
I had a great conversation with my partner last night and found out by just playing around that she still masturbates when I'm not around. This doesn't bother me at all, but I was a little shocked that in our sexual relationship she was not ...
There has been a few times that I have told him, but most of the times that I do it, I don't tell him. sometimes its when he is sleeping in bed next to me lol. But he doesn't know that I do that.....(Well, at least now he will, beings he is on this site too....lol)
03/27/2012
Brenard Brenard
We share the information so we always know what each other is up to.
03/27/2012
js250 js250
Masturbation is actually one of our favorite parts of sex. We do it together, for each other and with the other person in the room or bed.
03/27/2012
Secret Pleasure Secret Pleasure
yup they know and love it
03/28/2012
Rin (aka Nire) Rin (aka Nire)
I'd be surprised if a guy didn't masturbate even if he was with me, so I can't really see myself hiding that I do it.
03/28/2012
Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
It's kind of sad - but after 22+ years we've never discussed it. I have encouraged her to use our toys when I travel - the only time she admitted to doing it was when I told her to experiment with the Pure Wand and teach me how to do it. That worked out great - but never went beyond that.
03/28/2012
Mwar Mwar
I'll let him know when I'm going to if he's around. We know that sometimes one of us is frisky and the other one isn't. We're open about it.
03/28/2012
CollegeFun2014 CollegeFun2014
I don't only know, I really enjoy the fact that she does
04/27/2012
KyotoAngel KyotoAngel
Once in a while he ventures a (correct) guess as to what I spend the nearly non existent private time I get doing, but most of the time he doesn't really ask because he knows I'm too shy still to go into any sort of detail.

We're pretty open with each other...but sex is still something I'm rather private about with him unless we're discussing his likes and dislikes so I can get evil ideas on fun ways to play with him. <w<
04/27/2012
Missmarc Missmarc
Quote:
Originally posted by Rod Ronald
I had a great conversation with my partner last night and found out by just playing around that she still masturbates when I'm not around. This doesn't bother me at all, but I was a little shocked that in our sexual relationship she was not ...
Yes, he knows, and he's ok with it.
04/27/2012
PropertyOfPotter PropertyOfPotter
yup!
04/27/2012
Do emu Do emu
LDR, of course we masturbate. Sometimes he sees, sometimes it's by myself. It's all good. No jealousy or insecurities.
04/28/2012
Clubbinseals Clubbinseals
sure do
04/28/2012
RomanticGoth RomanticGoth
Of course!
04/28/2012
Various Various
Yes, it is kind of obvious when he comes home and there are clean vibrators airing out all over the bathroom counter.
04/28/2012
michael scofield michael scofield
i once told a girl i was dating that i was wacking off. she asked what am i doing when she called and i was honest. she got upset and said that my cock is hers and only she can give me pleasure lol
04/28/2012
Kitten has left the site Kitten has left the site
i get the urge to tell him, but half the time i don't even half to. i tend to leave my toys out XD he knows when he goes into the bedroom
04/28/2012
Ahatmadeofshoes12 Ahatmadeofshoes12
Of course. My partner and I are completely open about sex and we both love to masturbate as well as have sex with each other. When we get the chance to masturbate together we do (or we masturbate separately over voice chat so we can watch porn/hear each other. Masturbation is great and you should be able to do it whether you are in a relationship or not.
04/28/2012
SubmissiveFeminist SubmissiveFeminist
I feel like this should be assumed, no? I would assume it, anyways. If not, I would tell them openly of course. =P
04/28/2012
Undead Undead
Quote:
Originally posted by Rod Ronald
I had a great conversation with my partner last night and found out by just playing around that she still masturbates when I'm not around. This doesn't bother me at all, but I was a little shocked that in our sexual relationship she was not ...
Yes, she knows I have things so it's obvious.
04/29/2012
Total posts: 24
Unique posters: 23