Revealing one's sexual self

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Revealing one's sexual self

misterazor misterazor
how long did it take for you to be comfortable enough with a partner to reveal the entire truth of who you are in the bedroom? or do you still hold some things back?
12/27/2012
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ViVix ViVix
Quote:
Originally posted by misterazor
how long did it take for you to be comfortable enough with a partner to reveal the entire truth of who you are in the bedroom? or do you still hold some things back?
I haven't been with anyone for more than 3 years, and honestly it wasn't regular enough for me to reveal everything.
12/27/2012
Rod Ronald Rod Ronald
It takes me awhile. Some stuff may come off as wierd at first. So I wait till I know the moments right.
12/27/2012
Chilipepper Chilipepper
My basic stuff he accepted, although he's convinced there's more to me than what I've mentioned. Thing is, he doesn't have it in him to be a Dom, so he doesn't know exactly how much of a sub I am - hence, there's a part of my sexual identity that he'll never experience.
12/27/2012
deltalima deltalima
Quote:
Originally posted by misterazor
how long did it take for you to be comfortable enough with a partner to reveal the entire truth of who you are in the bedroom? or do you still hold some things back?
I still hold back because it would freak him out.
12/27/2012
misterazor misterazor
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Originally posted by ViVix
I haven't been with anyone for more than 3 years, and honestly it wasn't regular enough for me to reveal everything.
then perhaps someone someday will get a wonderful surprise. thanks for the post.
12/28/2012
misterazor misterazor
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Originally posted by Rod Ronald
It takes me awhile. Some stuff may come off as wierd at first. So I wait till I know the moments right.
we all have 'em. that's what i was getting at. thanks for the post.
12/28/2012
misterazor misterazor
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Originally posted by Chilipepper
My basic stuff he accepted, although he's convinced there's more to me than what I've mentioned. Thing is, he doesn't have it in him to be a Dom, so he doesn't know exactly how much of a sub I am - hence, there's a part of my ...
maybe. maybe not. have you dropped hints? maybe he's worried that he would like it, and wouldn't know how to process that. or maybe he doesn't have it in him.
12/28/2012
misterazor misterazor
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Originally posted by deltalima
I still hold back because it would freak him out.
are you sure? it would take more than i can imagine for my wife to freak me out. not that all men think alike, but sometimes we feel we need to tone it down so that we don't scare our partner. just a thought. thanks for the post.
12/28/2012
CollegeFun2014 CollegeFun2014
It took me a few years to entirely open up
12/28/2012
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