He stumbled across EF on my computer (because I don't delete cookies since my kids have their own computer) and asked about all my "porn." I was quick to let him know I hate porn and he must be mistaken. He pulled up EF (I pointed out it wasn't porn, it was a toy store). This was last year while I was sick in the hospital.
He was taking care of my girls and decided to clean my house and he found my stash (not that it's well hidden...only the BDSM stuff is locked up). He texted a picture to my aunt because he was shocked. Her reaction? She said "well no shit...[her husband] is deployed all the time. What would you suggest she do?" I was shocked! She then called me and asked for my advice on a new vibe. Ummm...wow.
When he told my mom about the toys she already knew. She told him I reviewed them. I guess he was upset because no one ever told him.
That being said, this year I decided my sisters were getting EF gifts. One loves lingerie, so I got her a cute piece she can sleep in and some bath stuff. The other sister just got the bath collection (because I already have a gift for her). I am trying to convince them to get that stuff here because it's all in one spot. I year ago I was a bit concerned about who knew what I was doing...now? Not so much. Well, except for J's work...they can't know.