Sexual role models....

Contributor: js250 js250
What in your opinion makes a person a good sexual role model? What changes that from a role model to a promiscuous/bad role model?
05/07/2013
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Contributor: KinkyKatieJames KinkyKatieJames
The person should be open-minded and non-judgmental, yet responsible.
05/07/2013
Contributor: Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
I struggle with this one. I don't see how I can be a sexual roll model for my children. My wife and I are loving and affectionate - but what does that mean to observers? We could have a great sex life - or not, and in fact both have been a part of our experience. But they know nothing of that.

As far as I can tell - they are on their own, unless they ask questions - which they rarely do.
05/08/2013
Contributor: js250 js250
I agree with Gunsmoke...throughout my daughter's teen years, we would discuss sex in a very generalized way but not in any way specific. I was afraid to be completely open with her since I was just then figuring out my own sexual being. It was too new to me to discuss.

Now after she has grown, gotten married and had her daughter--I am able to talk to her more and open up a small bit about my own experiences. I am afraid it is too late, she already has her guards and narrow boundaries in place. I can only hope that eventually she will do as I did and learn to relax them and be open to experiencing a deeper trust and emotional bond with her partner through their sexual relationship.
05/08/2013