should it matter what you wear at your wedding?

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should it matter what you wear at your wedding?

GravyCakes GravyCakes
i watch say yes to the dress all the time, it's my fav show. i was watching it w/ an old roomie once last yr, & she made this comment to me when we saw a bride trying on a very sexy dress. "i think see through corsets are trashy & inappropriate for a wedding. why would someone wear them for that?" i saw a woman on the show who bought a knee length dress w/ a corset w/ a see through torso. she was having a rock-n-roll wedding & it seemed appropriate for the theme & her personality. she wanted something edgy & sexy, & it fit the bill perfectly (not to mention it looked great on her insane body). i told my roomie that, too. it seemed rather judgmental to me. no, i wouldn't wear that for my wedding, personally, but that doesn't mean i think it's trashy. if it's your day, you should be allowed to wear what you want. do you think this was a rather judgmental & slightly harsh thing to say?
12/09/2011
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*HisMrs* *HisMrs*
I think you should wear whatever you want to wear to your wedding. After all it is your wedding.
12/09/2011
allinonekid allinonekid
Nope. In fact I know a certain male who wore a dress at his wedding
12/09/2011
UnknownGirl UnknownGirl
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Originally posted by *HisMrs*
I think you should wear whatever you want to wear to your wedding. After all it is your wedding.
Pretty much this. It's your day, do what you want.
12/09/2011
Stinkytofu10 Stinkytofu10
I think anyone can wear anything they want to any wedding.
12/10/2011
jedent jedent
yep, anything you want. anyone who doesn't like it can kick rocks!
12/10/2011
GONE! GONE!
People should wear what they want but it could be awkward for guests to see the bride wear something see-through I suppose.
12/10/2011
GravyCakes GravyCakes
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Originally posted by GONE!
People should wear what they want but it could be awkward for guests to see the bride wear something see-through I suppose.
i can understand that, but only the waist was see through.
12/10/2011
Chilipepper Chilipepper
Bonus points if the dress fits the theme of the wedding! Good for her!
12/10/2011
darkkitty darkkitty
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Originally posted by GravyCakes
i watch say yes to the dress all the time, it's my fav show. i was watching it w/ an old roomie once last yr, & she made this comment to me when we saw a bride trying on a very sexy dress. "i think see through corsets are trashy & ...
Screw what others think and do what makes you happy! So many people are quick to judge others, usually because of insecurities of there own.
12/10/2011
badk1tty badk1tty
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Originally posted by GravyCakes
i watch say yes to the dress all the time, it's my fav show. i was watching it w/ an old roomie once last yr, & she made this comment to me when we saw a bride trying on a very sexy dress. "i think see through corsets are trashy & ...
Your wedding is YOUR wedding, so I say do whatever the F you want. But keep in mind, that your wedding isn't so much for you as it is the people you're inviting (even though that statement contradicts yourself). All the food, the cake, the DJ, etc, it's not for just you and yours, it's also for those you care about. So, while it is harsh and it is judgmental, if you chose to surround yourself with people who are going to JUDGE you poorly, I would say it's probably better to re-evaluate who you're inviting.
12/10/2011
Ryuson Ryuson
If they don't like your style and fashion, they shouldn't be at your wedding anyways!
12/10/2011
wetone123 wetone123
This is what I'm wearing to my next wedding!

12/10/2011
cheetahpita cheetahpita
It's your wedding, wear what you want!
12/10/2011
switzerland switzerland
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Originally posted by wetone123
This is what I'm wearing to my next wedding!

omg this is amazing!
12/10/2011
Mellifer Mellifer
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Originally posted by wetone123
This is what I'm wearing to my next wedding!

Lol.
12/10/2011
Rossie Rossie
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Originally posted by wetone123
This is what I'm wearing to my next wedding!

Ha, I dare you - unless you're not inviting guests!
12/10/2011
ss143 ss143
The pic above is amazing lol personally I think its the couples day they should wear whatever or nothing if they want to
12/10/2011
(k)InkyIvy (k)InkyIvy
I understand that some people are more traditional, and believe that a modest white dress should be worn... But, in all honesty, times have changed. People are more individual, unique. Not everyone WANTS to wear a white dress. Some people want to wear something that matches their personality better, or is more comfortable. Or, like the woman with the transparent corset dress (I saw that episode, and I cringed a bit too), wear what makes them feel special, happy, the focus of the event.
12/11/2011
mandaj mandaj
Its your day u should wear what ya want to! If u have a wild personality and dont want the traditional white gown....dnt wear one. I think I know what esp u are talkin bout and it did fit the girl to a tee with her cool rock n roll personality
12/11/2011
Jul!a Jul!a
I really think it should come down to what the bride wants to wear. If somebody wants to wear something modest and traditional at their wedding, good on them. If somebody wants to wear something edgier and "sexier" then good on them too.
12/12/2011
LaLaLouise LaLaLouise
I agree that the focus should be on the bride and groom and what they want. That being said, when I get married, I will probably wear ivory or something close. And it will be in a style that is form-fitting enough to make my husband-to-be look forward to that night, but still classy. I think that it's ok to consider your families and what will make them comfortable, but not to the point that you're betraying yourself.
12/12/2011
AmberM AmberM
Its your wedding, wear whatever you please.
12/12/2011
PeachieClean PeachieClean
While I agree that you should wear what makes you happy, I think you should also take into account the people who are going to be there. I'm pretty sure that your parental figures aren't going to want to see you in one of those bride-themed lingerie sets.
12/12/2011
PersonalAngel PersonalAngel
I believe you should wear what you want.
12/12/2011
indiglo indiglo
You can wear whatever you want on a daily basis, a wedding is no different. Marry whoever you want, and wear whatever you want while you do it!
12/12/2011
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