Soft bondage vs. Hard bondage

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Soft bondage vs. Hard bondage

klyte klyte 12/19/2011

Which do you prefer?

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klyte klyte
I like a mixture of some harder stuff and then sometimes, it's just nice to be softer with it. You know, like spanking or lighter play with BDSM. Which do you participate in with your partner more?
Answers (private voting - your screen name will NOT appear in the results):
Light BDSM
17  (39%)
Harder BDSM
5  (11%)
Depends on the mood, or both.
19  (43%)
I don't participate in BDSM.
3  (7%)
Other
Total votes: 44
Poll is closed
12/19/2011
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Chirple Chirple
My partner isn't interested, so I haven't pressed the matter.

When it comes to writing, I love coming up with new ideas and I guess they'd be "hard". I think. Guess it depends where you'd draw the line.
12/20/2011
The Mother of a SiNner The Mother of a SiNner
Quote:
Originally posted by klyte
I like a mixture of some harder stuff and then sometimes, it's just nice to be softer with it. You know, like spanking or lighter play with BDSM. Which do you participate in with your partner more?
really depends on how we feel
12/20/2011
Bignuf Bignuf
Quote:
Originally posted by klyte
I like a mixture of some harder stuff and then sometimes, it's just nice to be softer with it. You know, like spanking or lighter play with BDSM. Which do you participate in with your partner more?
No "Bondage"... ..FREEEEEEEEEDOOOOOMMM MMMMMMMM!!!!!!
12/20/2011
Vanille Vanille
Depends on my mood, but I'm at a happy medium.
12/20/2011
AndroAngel AndroAngel
It really depends on where you draw the line between soft and hard. We do everything from sensation play to knife play, so I guess it's a mix for us.
12/20/2011
EdenJP EdenJP
Quote:
Originally posted by klyte
I like a mixture of some harder stuff and then sometimes, it's just nice to be softer with it. You know, like spanking or lighter play with BDSM. Which do you participate in with your partner more?
depends on mood
12/20/2011
Ash1141 Ash1141
If I had to pick it would be light but it really depends on the mood.
12/21/2011
klyte klyte
I'd say I'm a happy medium, too.
12/21/2011
AmberM AmberM
It all depends!
12/21/2011
Pink Jewel Pink Jewel
None.
12/21/2011
unfulfilled unfulfilled
Light. I don't mind to be restrained or cuffed, but if you spank me hard it's on. I don't mind a smack but dont swing with all your might.
12/22/2011
Missmarc Missmarc
Quote:
Originally posted by klyte
I like a mixture of some harder stuff and then sometimes, it's just nice to be softer with it. You know, like spanking or lighter play with BDSM. Which do you participate in with your partner more?
Generally light BDSM
12/22/2011
K101 K101
Light. We aren't into leaving marks or actually causing real pain to one another. Not very nice.
12/30/2011
Princess-Kayla ♥ Princess-Kayla ♥
We mostly just mess around with light BDSM, but sometimes it gets a little heavier, and we include my flogger, and a little face slapping. Yum.
12/30/2011
Total posts: 15
Unique posters: 14