Staying home or going out?

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Contributor: Ash1141 Ash1141
Do you prefer staying home and watching movies/reading/cuddlin g with significant other/etc on a weekend or going out to clubs/bars/concerts/et c?
Answers (public voting - your screen name will appear in the results):
I love going out!!
CrystaCat , ThoughtsAblaze , dv8 , Lucky21 , Sinfully
5
I'd rather stay in
Ash1141 , Beck , Jul!a , Clandestine , LennaKieran , Ansley , Rossie , Missmarc , jc123 , amandaco2011 , Squeaky , T&A1987 , slynch , Sir , ily , KrazyKandy , OroNomi , shySEXXaddict , Miss Morphine , BuckeyeGal04 , Howells , quinceykay , romstomp , Gary , Geogeo , corsetsaurus rex , MissBre , MistressDandelion
28
It depends on my mood
Ash1141 , Eliza , Talena , Bluebird88 , Jul!a , padmeamidala , Aberrant , Cookie Monster Mike , chantalgiardina , LennaKieran , Ryuson , Ghost , Rossie , Eva Schwaltz , redstarr681 , ellejay , voenne , NicNat , Mihoshi4301 , True Pleasures , Ms. N , Cherrylane , Sir , Katelyn , Anjulie , ily , Stinkytofu10 , Teacookie , Undead , Breas , Buttercup Green , Modern^Spank^Anthem , BobbiJay , quinceykay , TheSlyFox , northstar , tinadice , llellsee , LAndJ , funluvinmama , Sinfully
41
I like a mixture of both
Eliza , Bluebird88 , Aberrant , PeaceToTheMiddleEast , Cookie Monster Mike , ellejay , Lover of Leather , Moein , Highmaintenancegirl916 , voenne , amandaco2011 , NicNat , Ms. N , Cherrylane , Sir , Undead , wdanas , TheSlyFox , sunkissedJess , corsetsaurus rex , MissBre
21
Other
(k)InkyIvy , EvilHomer , js250
3
Total votes: 98 (75 voters)
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01/13/2012
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Contributor: Ash1141 Ash1141
I don't like the bar scene much but I do like going to a casino occasionally
01/13/2012
Contributor: Eliza Eliza
Totally depends on my mood. If I want to see friends, I'm more likely to go out than invite them over, but if I want a night alone or with just my SO, I would definitely stay home.
01/13/2012
Contributor: (k)InkyIvy (k)InkyIvy
We usually go out every weekend, but not to clubs or bars. We spend one or two evenings every weekend at our friends' apartment. My partner likes to play tabletop rpg's, and I usually just play on my computer or watch tv since the campaign that I'm in isn't run very often.
01/13/2012
Contributor: Beck Beck
I would much rather stay in, expect for dinner, I like to go out. As far as a bar, hell no. It cost way too much to have two drinks at the bar, let alone drinks for two people. We can stay at home with a bottle, pick our own music, get naked on the floor if we wish, smoke, and it is cheaper. Plus not to mention you need a DD or call a cab which will cost you more, No thanks.
01/13/2012
Contributor: Jul!a Jul!a
I mostly prefer to stay in and have friends over since I'm not huge on bars. It's a lot cheaper to drink if I'm gonna do it at home.
01/13/2012
Contributor: Clandestine Clandestine
I am ever edging closer to the hermit lifestyle... But I've always been happier staying home.
Even if I went out a lot, I've never gone to a bar and don't really plan to. Seems too noisy.
01/13/2012
Contributor: CrystaCat CrystaCat
i LOVE GETTING DRESSED UP! I love to get all pirttied up and go out and have a few drinks, go out dancing.... Than when my hubby gets so turned on and can't take it anymore come home and have a ball or two!!!!!!!!!lolololol( pray) please can we go home now!
01/13/2012
Contributor: Cookie Monster Mike Cookie Monster Mike
All depends on my mood, and also where I have been invited to go out. I've never been much of a bar person, not sure why though. Generally for me to enjoy going to bar I prefer to have it not so crowded and music that isn't so loud it's destroying my ear drums. The last bar I went too was nice and easy going, a few people here and there, nothing crowded or too loud, shot some pool and darts etc. Had WAY too much to drink that night though, but that's what I get for drinking Long Island Iced Tea's that have 5+ shots of liquer lol.

Anyways, I do enjoy going out for dinner, the movies etc. All good n fun with the right people.
01/13/2012
Contributor: chantalgiardina chantalgiardina
i like to stay in sometimes but sometimes i like to just get out and ride around
01/13/2012
Contributor: EvilHomer EvilHomer
I generally like staying in, but occasionally I like going out, but not the club/bar/concert routine, more like the hiking/boating/theater /dinner/scenic train routine.
01/13/2012
Contributor: Ansley Ansley
I like staying in on most nights. Last night we out for the first time in a long time. Caught a movie, bowled a couple of games and then spent the rest of the night enjoying our own particular brand of fun. It was fun, but I kind of couldn't wait to get home.
01/13/2012
Contributor: js250 js250
We like to go for drives, visit friends and relax. We don't go to bars at all, rarely ever to a casino and do love to stay home and have fun as well. Just depends on our moods.
01/13/2012
Contributor: Eva Schwaltz Eva Schwaltz
Depends on my mood, but I tend to stay at home more during the winter.
01/13/2012
Contributor: redstarr681 redstarr681
Depends on my mood... In the winter it's too cold where I live to be going out, so we stay at home a watch lots of movies...
01/13/2012
Contributor: ellejay ellejay
I usually like to stay in, but I need to go out every once is a while.
01/13/2012
Contributor: Moein Moein
I and my wife like to go shopping at weakend night and return early. Then we enjoy the evening watching movies on DVD or TV. Later we start our nise time.
01/13/2012
Contributor: Missmarc Missmarc
Quote:
Originally posted by Ash1141
Do you prefer staying home and watching movies/reading/cuddlin g with significant other/etc on a weekend or going out to clubs/bars/concerts/et c?
right now, staying in. Too cold to go anywhere
01/13/2012
Contributor: Highmaintenancegirl916 Highmaintenancegirl916
Like A Mix.
01/13/2012
Contributor: voenne voenne
It depends! I like both, but it has to be in equal measures because of my introverted-ness and health, I need a lot of rest!
01/13/2012
Contributor: amandaco2011 amandaco2011
We aren't party people. We normally see each other in the evening after long days so our idea of a good time is to lay in bed cuddle and watch CNN. Everyone jokes that we act like we are 40.
01/13/2012
Contributor: NicNat NicNat
Quote:
Originally posted by Ash1141
Do you prefer staying home and watching movies/reading/cuddlin g with significant other/etc on a weekend or going out to clubs/bars/concerts/et c?
It really just depends on when were off, how many days were off. If we ae off for 2 days then go out, but if we only one day off, or not off at all Cuddel.(:
01/13/2012
Contributor: ThoughtsAblaze ThoughtsAblaze
I love going out with my man when he's in town because we do all the things my friends aren't available to do, can afford to do, etc. We don't go to bars or do anything crazy, but we do go to dinner at nicer places, plays, movies, walks around this gorgeous park in my city, etc. When we're together, we're almost always in contact, so it's kinda like going out and cuddling at the same time.
01/13/2012
Contributor: kz916 kz916
mix love being in and going out
01/13/2012
Contributor: Mihoshi4301 Mihoshi4301
I mostly like staying in but sometime I get a little angsty and just want to go out.
01/13/2012
Contributor: True Pleasures True Pleasures
It mostly depends on my mood and if I have to go somewhere I don't want. I get cabin fever pretty easily.
01/13/2012
Contributor: T&A1987 T&A1987
I like some going out activities like movies, shopping, the beach, hiking, walking and others. I detest most live entertainment though. It goes on too long, for music, it's loud, people I don't know, the cost, the effort, stuff I could be doing at home. Mostly a stay-in person.
01/13/2012
Contributor: Cherrylane Cherrylane
He's a stay in person.

I am a mix of both. Shows (small concerts) and movies... I like eating at a nice restaurant every now and then, as I'm a wee bit of a foodie.

Beyond that, I don't really do much other than outdoorsy activities like horseback riding which I do a few times a week if I'm lucky, and hiking, which I never do because now I live at the beach and it's flat and sandy here and there's nowhere decent to hike.

But I don't really do that stuff super often. Definitely not one of those people always going out and about. It's more like a couple times a month (for all of them total) if I'm lucky and I'm usually totally content to just hole up in my apartment and read and do class stuff watch tv clean cook do ef cuddle chill what have you
01/13/2012
Contributor: Anjulie Anjulie
Quote:
Originally posted by Eliza
Totally depends on my mood. If I want to see friends, I'm more likely to go out than invite them over, but if I want a night alone or with just my SO, I would definitely stay home.
Same here!
01/19/2012
Contributor: KrazyKandy KrazyKandy
My crazy party years were in high school. Now even though Im super young I dont wanna go out and party anymore. I rather stay home and watch tv.
01/21/2012