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Contributor: Sephymuffins Sephymuffins
My former boyfriend had an extreme "water sport" fetish. Basically, he liked urine. I'll just put it like that. I was just fine with it and it usually made me giggle, because if I needed to use the restroom in his presence he'd be trailing behind me wanting to. . . yeah. Haha!

I was never into anything like that, but I accepted it and since it gave him pleasure (plus it wasn't disgusting or degrading to me), I let him do things to me and I did things for him.

Has anyone else been in this same boat? Has anyone else been with a partner who had an intense sexual fetish that wasn't the norm?
(Norm meaning, kinky-ness, extreme hardcore, bondage, etc.)
How did you feel about it? Were YOU the one in the relationship who had the fetish, but your partner didn't? How did you or your partner react?
01/13/2010
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Contributor: Miss Jane Miss Jane
Nope, I've always been the weird one in my relationships. Lol.

My partner reacts about the same way you did - he'll go along with what I'm wanting to do, because we mutually do things for each other... as long as it's not something he's uncomfortable with.
01/13/2010
Contributor: El-Jaro El-Jaro
I've usually been the "odd" one in the relationship. I can only think of a couple times when my partner did something that blew my mind.

I've liked getting pegged from the first time. I was worried that it'd freak out my current gf before I brought it up to her. I've talked about it with 3 partners over the years and really NONE of them were against it. It made me wonder how many girls would want to strap one on and shag their boyfriend.

I don't do the golden showers, not my thing. It really grosses me out actually.
01/13/2010
Contributor: Miss Jane Miss Jane
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Originally posted by El-Jaro
I've usually been the "odd" one in the relationship. I can only think of a couple times when my partner did something that blew my mind.

I've liked getting pegged from the first time. I was worried that it'd freak out my ... more
I think that maybe most girls are inherently curious about what it would be like to be on the other end... like guys wonder what it would be like to have boobs. I would love to have a penis for a day. But then I'd give it back because I like my vagina
01/13/2010
Contributor: Jill Ingoff Jill Ingoff
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Originally posted by Sephymuffins
My former boyfriend had an extreme "water sport" fetish. Basically, he liked urine. I'll just put it like that. I was just fine with it and it usually made me giggle, because if I needed to use the restroom in his presence he'd be ... more
Usually I'm the one with the weird fetishes in the relationship. My partners are into the s&m/rough sex thing at first but then get bored with it so then I get bored with them because I can tell that they're not into it so the sex suffers and we break up.
01/14/2010
Contributor: Sephymuffins Sephymuffins
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Originally posted by Jill Ingoff
Usually I'm the one with the weird fetishes in the relationship. My partners are into the s&m/rough sex thing at first but then get bored with it so then I get bored with them because I can tell that they're not into it so the sex suffers ... more
Yeah, I know what that's like.

I couldn't ever be with someone sexually if they weren't kinky. And I don't mean just handcuffs and small things like that. It just wouldn't work, because in all honesty, I like sex on the rough side and if it's all soft and...boring, well I don't think I'd stick around for long at all.
01/14/2010
Contributor: Twist Shimmy Twist Shimmy
I have been 100% for everything my sexual partners have ever thrown at me (though not everything has been thrown at me yet!) except for one thing: eye licking.

I had a boyfriend who used to literally beg me to let him lick my eye as he was coming. Not the lids, or the eye area, but the actual surface of my eye. Since I have a rather severe phobia of anything being near my eye that is not under my direct control, the answer was always "no!"

We didn't last long. I started dreading having sex with him, because every time he was close, I knew we'd have to go through it all over again.
01/14/2010
Contributor: deceased deceased
I don't really have any strange fetishes. I like to get and receive pain, but I don't think that's a fetish. I have drunk blood, during sex, but I had my partner tested. Its a very risky practice.

I worked with a guy in Philly who liked fat women. He was a feeder and he had a gainer or a feedee at home. He liked to feed his women till they were incapacitated. Like over 600 pounds.

Its kind of like the movie Boxing Helena. Interesting and disturbinng movie with Julian Sand playing a surgeon obsessed by the perfect woman. She wants nothing to do with him. So he lures her into his mansion, drugs her, removes her limbs. Now she is dependant on him to be dressed, groomed (like a doll), bathed and fed, and in the end when the police come to rescue her she does not want to leave because what is the alternative? She was made into a freak, and here was someone who would love her and take care of her.
01/14/2010
Contributor: El-Jaro El-Jaro
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Originally posted by deceased
I don't really have any strange fetishes. I like to get and receive pain, but I don't think that's a fetish. I have drunk blood, during sex, but I had my partner tested. Its a very risky practice.

I worked with a guy in Philly who ... more
that's what that movie was called!
01/14/2010
Contributor: Sammi Sammi
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Originally posted by deceased
I don't really have any strange fetishes. I like to get and receive pain, but I don't think that's a fetish. I have drunk blood, during sex, but I had my partner tested. Its a very risky practice.

I worked with a guy in Philly who ... more
There's a horror movie called "Feed" that's about that very thing. Well, with a nasty twist or two, of course.
01/15/2010
Contributor: Sir Sir
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Originally posted by Sammi
There's a horror movie called "Feed" that's about that very thing. Well, with a nasty twist or two, of course.
I would love to see that film.
01/15/2010
Contributor: deceased deceased
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01/15/2010
Contributor: deceased deceased
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another trailer
01/15/2010
Contributor: deceased deceased
Yeah, TLA still has it....



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01/15/2010
Contributor: Sephymuffins Sephymuffins
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Originally posted by deceased
Yeah, TLA still has it....



link
That looks a like a crazy ass movie.
01/15/2010
Contributor: Sir Sir
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Originally posted by Sephymuffins
That looks a like a crazy ass movie.
Doesn't it? I really would love to see it now. Thank you, Misha, really appreciate the links.
01/15/2010
Contributor: Sammi Sammi
Netflix has it too, if you rent
01/15/2010
Contributor: Kynky Kytty Kynky Kytty
Ever since I really developped my sexuality, I could say that I was with men who did not deviate from the norm.

My last boyfriend was more vanilla than I ever thought was possible. I could not even lick my fingers after masturbating, because he would find it disgusting.He did not even open my sex box once to play with them with me. How would I bring up even anal sex if he did not tolerate fart? Not even accidental onesé And then, don't even think about bringing up pegging, which I would really want to try.

Just mentioning those things frustrates me all over again and it's been a year. I really do not want to go through that again.
01/15/2010
Contributor: Luscious Lily Luscious Lily
We're pretty tame, honestly. The one "crazy" thing is that he occasionally goes for is "suffocating" under my boobs while we're having sex. Though I'm a small girl, they're quite large, which makes it easier.

We have very hard rules about it. No more than 20 seconds at a time, ever. Always at least a minute of recuperating between. No more than five times in a session. Never when he's got a cold or there's anything that impairs his breathing or our judgment. He must stop me the instant anything doesn't feel right, no matter how much fun he's having. He always has complete control of when we stop, within those limits.

These limits may be a little over the top, but they've kept us safe and happy. Done safely and carefully, it's a hell of a lot of fun for both of us.
01/15/2010
Contributor: Chilipepper Chilipepper
My boyfriend tells me he does, and I have not asked him to elaborate. He's waiting for me to be more comfortable with regular sex before he mentions anything else. I'm curious, a little afraid (EVERYBODY has different definitions of 'fetish'), but open-minded enough when I'm ready. I suppose I'm vanilla, but my ex-husband thought I was a weirdo for wanting to wear costumes and having him talk dirty to me (he never did).
01/16/2010
Contributor: Kimmie1980ca Kimmie1980ca
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Originally posted by Sephymuffins
My former boyfriend had an extreme "water sport" fetish. Basically, he liked urine. I'll just put it like that. I was just fine with it and it usually made me giggle, because if I needed to use the restroom in his presence he'd be ... more
Never been in a relationship with that type of fetish. I have a fetish of my bf wearing my panties, or me painting his nails. Hmmm... I would love to put make up on him if only he'd let me!
09/02/2010
Contributor: Sundae Sparkles Sundae Sparkles
I dated a guy who liked being slapped in the face during sex and also liked being degraded in role playing situations I wasn't much into it
09/24/2012