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At what point do people think that men lose their virginity? Identify what you consider the earliest point to be a definite loss of virginity.
In my opinion the word "sex" means penis-in-vagina. Not anal sex, not oral sex, not jacking off. There is a word for all of those activities. For example, oral
sex. Oral sex is oral sex, not sex. Sex, like I said to me, is PIV. I just call them by their actual names, and consider losing one's virginity to be only PIV type of sex.
And no, I do not believe that you actually have to have an orgasm (with PIV sex) in order for it to be considered sex. If your penis has ever gone inside a vagina (one slip, one stroke, doesn't matter) then your virginity is no longer in existence. This is my opinion. Sex is not sex only when you've orgasmed. That would be called an orgasm! Sex is when you've had intercourse. Coming during sex is when you've had 1. intercourse which 2. leads to the orgasm.