What do you think of many of the "Adults" of nowadays?

Contributor: P'Gell P'Gell
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Originally posted by PussyGalore
Every generation has it's issues. With the boomers it was free love, drugs and rebellion against the man. In the 80's it was terrible fashion and hair styles and cocaine. In the 90's it was cool to not take a bath and wear the same ... more
Once someone is over the age of 18 or so, parenting has little to do with it. I don't see how "parenting" has anything to do with how a 26 year old uses his or her phone. (There is a lot more out of one's control that one realizes, once one has kids in their teens and beyond, there are hella more influences than "parents.") I don't "parent" my eldest daughter (who is in her 20s) unless she is being intentionally disrespectful. My Man might say (he WILL say) "Turn that fucking phone off while we're eating." But, the actual use of electronic devices has little to do with parenting. With younger kids, of course, what is allowed (example, not allowing the phone to be messed with during a Family Discussion or meals) is one thing, but what they do on their own time really isn't subject to parenting.

Just my view after a couple of decades of being a parent, to a whole mess of kids.
12/07/2010
Contributor: El-Jaro El-Jaro
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Originally posted by P'Gell
I was once "shushed" and given an "I'm on the phone." look, in a store standing in line by a woman who was on her cell phone. Excuse me, I'm in PUBLIC, if you need privacy and silence for your oh-so-important phone ... more
Oh, I wish someone would do this me!
12/07/2010
Contributor: ToyGeek ToyGeek
"Our youth now love luxury. They have bad manners, contempt for authority; they show disrespect for their elders and love chatter in place of exercise; they no longer rise when elders enter the room; they contradict their parents, chatter before company; gobble up their food and tyrannize their teachers." -- Socrates
12/07/2010
Contributor: Envy Envy
I like to think my generation is the hippies with guns sort of thing. They never want to do anything and if you try to make them they lash out.

While I like video games, at least they don't govern my life. I know to do my chores first, to go to work, to be on time, dress appropriately, etc. Others, sadly, do not.

Also seems there is more of a lack of respect going on as well. I feel people my age just don't give a rat's patootie anymore.
12/07/2010
Contributor: Emma (Girl With Fire) Emma (Girl With Fire)
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Originally posted by P'Gell
I don't think anyone can judge an entire population or age group as all having one personality.

It takes a long time to become an "Adult" in our society, we have a culture of extended adolescence, so things related to technology, ... more
I agree the girl I was referring to is 27. I also HAD a friend who is 29 now and would call me up to 15 times a day from about 6:59am to 2:30am. I would tell her I would be having company in the afternoon or that I would be out and she would call anyway. In fact if I didn't take her calls she would continue to call over and over again up to 8 times between the cell and the home phone. I recently told her off and no longer speak with her.
12/07/2010
Contributor: Not here Not here
I'm 23, and act nothing like this. I don't take offense to your post at all, because a lot of "young adults" do act this way. But, a lot don't. At the age of 20 I was renting a house with roommates, working full time, cooking, cleaning and paying the bills. I didn't have the luxury of being able to go to college because my parents couldn't afford to send me and I needed to work in order to support myself. I try to surround myself with mature people, but there are times, in group situations, where I'd rather just go home than deal with people's immature shenanigans. But, as many have said, age has nothing to do with it. I've met 50 year olds that are less mature than some 18 year olds I've met. It all depends!
12/07/2010
Contributor: BBW Talks Toys BBW Talks Toys
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Originally posted by mariah
a kid at 19? that doesnt sound mature that sounds like a mistake... and you just had to marry her becuase you had to,
This was an incredibly immature statement to make. My Mister married me when he was 19 and I was 22. We were not pregnant, and actually didn't get pregnant until we had been married for 2+ years, and we planned it... AND... we are still married 8+ years later! We've made it through some pretty tough stuff and I know we'll go the distance. Some people are just more ready for big responsibility at a young age.

As for the topic is concerned, it really depends on the person individually. Just a few months ago, my sister (19) was very immature and only thought about herself and wanted nothing more than to party and have fun. Now, she's a lot more mature. Yes, she still has a tendency to be selfish and immature, but don't we all? Then, there is a person I know who is 21 and they act like they are still in high school... by complaining about their "evil, unfair" parents, gossiping, not "liking" someone because they are closer to a mutual friend than they are... totally immature.

I also work with a bunch of high school kids at a retail store... some of them are more responsible and mature than some of the college kids. I think it has to do with how they are raised. I think a lot of what is wrong with this generation (AS A GENERATION... speaking generally, not specifically) that we are speaking of is that their parents thought it best to give them everything they want and really let them feel entitled to anything and everything. If you teach your kids about the value of hard work, earning your way through life, the value of a dollar, and respect for others, then they will grow to be much more mature at an earlier age.
12/07/2010
Contributor: Owl Identified Owl Identified
I would just like to point out that while Mariah's comment was completely uncalled for and very offensive, it does seem like Muddog is attempting to antagonize her and others in her age group. Before I even got through the first few sentences of this post I had the sense that this might be a post in response to her presence on the forums, particularly in this thread. I would also like to emphasize that his rude comments do not in any way excuse her comments, but for any administrators watching this, they may wish to know that bit of the tale if they don't already.
12/07/2010
Contributor: BBW Talks Toys BBW Talks Toys
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Originally posted by ToyGeek
"Our youth now love luxury. They have bad manners, contempt for authority; they show disrespect for their elders and love chatter in place of exercise; they no longer rise when elders enter the room; they contradict their parents, chatter before ... more
Am I the only one who realized that this quote is centuries old? That's funny TG! LOVE it and LOVE YOU!!!
12/07/2010
Contributor: BBW Talks Toys BBW Talks Toys
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Originally posted by Owl Identified
I would just like to point out that while Mariah's comment was completely uncalled for and very offensive, it does seem like Muddog is attempting to antagonize her and others in her age group. Before I even got through the first few sentences of ... more
Yes, please take your issues with one another to private messaging instead of open attacks on the forums... or just (oh, I don't know, maybe this is the adult in me) let it go... Be the bigger person, or turn the other cheek... whatever other euphemism or slogan about maturity you want to insert.
12/07/2010
Contributor: Throwingawaysoon Throwingawaysoon
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Originally posted by Owl Identified
I would just like to point out that while Mariah's comment was completely uncalled for and very offensive, it does seem like Muddog is attempting to antagonize her and others in her age group. Before I even got through the first few sentences of ... more
It was not for her, or directed to her. I was actually typing it up way before I even started talking to her. I get bored of typing one thing for a certain amount of time, so I'll hop around in the forums a bit. It was coincidence that she wound up popping up at the same time I was still in the middle of typing this. As I also said before, this isn't the only social site I am on, and it, again, was not directed towards her in any way. There are plenty of other people in the world that are worth the time.
12/07/2010
Contributor: Naughty Student Naughty Student
I am 25 and my sister is 22 years younger. About two or three years ago she was like that. She would constantly be on her cell phone texting and talking, etc. We used to get invited to family dinners and she had her phone with her like it was a life source. She would always talk on the phone or text and not realize how insulting it is for the family. One time we were relaxing in the spa and she was talking not stop on her cell in the spa instead of enjoying the momment of being with the family.

It's not as bad anymore but she does relapse sometimes. Something I find sort of annoying is that she often takes a call when she obviously is busy doing something. I call her up and she often interupts me to talk to her boyfriend or her friends. She apologizes, but I would rather she just call me back when she has time to actually talk to me instead of constantly cutting me off.

The whole cell phone thing and video games will not exist in my childrens life. I don't want my kids to have video games or cell phones bcs I don't want them to be like the kids are today. I get the whole security thing....but we didn't have cell phones when we were 13 and we survived! I guess I would be ok with it if they had a cell phone if they were of the drinking age (18 in quebec) and needed me to come pick them up somewhere.
12/07/2010
Contributor: Naughty Student Naughty Student
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Originally posted by ToyGeek
"Our youth now love luxury. They have bad manners, contempt for authority; they show disrespect for their elders and love chatter in place of exercise; they no longer rise when elders enter the room; they contradict their parents, chatter before ... more
Which dialogue was this in!?!?!?!? I want to read
12/07/2010
Contributor: Jessica Elizabeth Jessica Elizabeth
Yes, many young adults can act childish and annoying. But truth be told there are many adults older than me (I'm just about 29) who are offensive, pretentious and live life with a serious case of "holier than thou" syndrome which in my opinion is worse than simply being childish and annoying.

One of my best and closest friends is old enough to be my mother, just as another close friend of mine is 21. And neither of them fall into the above categories.

One cannot just lump a group of people together based on age. There are millions of people who fit into any age category you can pick. By assuming that they're going to act a certain way just by their age really is akin to assuming how a person will act based upon their skin color.
12/07/2010
Contributor: Chilipepper Chilipepper
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Originally posted by Naughty Student
Which dialogue was this in!?!?!?!? I want to read
Ancient Greek philosopher complaining about the spoiled youth of Athens in the 400's BC. Socrates lived just before the decline of Greek civilization.

I'd be interested to know which dialogues, too.
12/07/2010
Contributor: Viktor Vysheslav Malkin Viktor Vysheslav Malkin
I think this goes with a number of factors. Education, family, and friends. Now you can have a well educated person from a great family, with some great friends still talk or type like this. It may also be about fitting in also.


As for someone being offended, you guys really flagged said post quite a lot. Kristi is going to have her box filled up. Maybe if someone has already flagged it, you shouldn't? Just saying, cause Kristi has to email you all now. Plus Kristi will investigate no matter how many flags, so I just do not see the point.

I think, the best thing to do is just flag (Not now because it has already been flagged), or messaged Kristi. I think if we talk back, argue, or rebut the offensive post we are just adding fuel to a potential fire. I just think that the best way is to let an admin deal with it. Admins have the true power, a comment from me about how I found what someone said as offensive and that they were WRONG just adds to drama and potential to blow it out.
12/07/2010
Contributor: Illusional Illusional
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Originally posted by mariah
a kid at 19? that doesnt sound mature that sounds like a mistake... and you just had to marry her becuase you had to,
Wow, a bit critical.
12/07/2010
Contributor: Illusional Illusional
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Originally posted by Not here
I'm 23, and act nothing like this. I don't take offense to your post at all, because a lot of "young adults" do act this way. But, a lot don't. At the age of 20 I was renting a house with roommates, working full time, cooking, ... more
Ditto, I'm 23 and I've always been more mature than others. I do like Facebook, but I don't tweet and text.
12/07/2010
Contributor: Illusional Illusional
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Originally posted by Viktor Vysheslav Malkin
I think this goes with a number of factors. Education, family, and friends. Now you can have a well educated person from a great family, with some great friends still talk or type like this. It may also be about fitting in also.


As ... more
I agree. I was raised in a very.... educational family. I had more books and different dictionaries before I had dolls and was playing mommy.

I wasn't really allowed to watch much t.v.
I got my first job at 14, and I've been working since.

My family was always a bit poor, so I've learned how to work hard for things I want.
12/07/2010
Contributor: J's Alley J's Alley
I don't think it has to do with the way you're raised...unless all the siblings are the same way. My sister is out of control, but the rest of us aren't. It wasn't her upbringing, just her personality and the people she meets and chooses to associate with.
12/07/2010
Contributor: Viktor Vysheslav Malkin Viktor Vysheslav Malkin
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Originally posted by J's Alley
I don't think it has to do with the way you're raised...unless all the siblings are the same way. My sister is out of control, but the rest of us aren't. It wasn't her upbringing, just her personality and the people she meets and ... more
I noticed something similar with another family. Although it may not be the same, and the situation may be different.

Very Parents family, always generous and kind, but their children were into drugs and alcohol.
12/07/2010
Contributor: gone77 gone77
Hello!

I'm just stepping in to let everyone know that the matter of the flags has been dealt with and no further flags are necessary.

Thanks!
12/07/2010
Contributor: Bunnycups Bunnycups
People put so much effort into these social networking sites that they ignore people in real life! I love playing video games, but I know what you mean and where you're coming from.
12/07/2010
Contributor: That Man from Mars That Man from Mars
I was never into any of that stuff when I was that age, admittedly.
06/04/2011
Contributor: ichigostrawberry ichigostrawberry
It really depends on the person. Some people have experiences that force or suggest for them to mature at a younger age, it is unfair to group an entire demographic to one phrase.

That being said, I am at college age and I do find it sad that some people lack those said experiences, but I've also met various people within my age group that support themselves nicely and learn to deal with their mistakes.

I do think this post is very poorly worded and offensive. This community is 18+ so inevitably there are people that age here, and this will certainly not make them feel comfortable or welcome.
06/07/2011
Contributor: RonLee RonLee
My son is 18. He's a good kid but...
06/07/2011