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days, weeks, months, years, hours? Further, how long would you consider, for yourself, to be too long?
I get a lot of flack for how I handled my relationships...
As a firm believer that sex is an integral part of a healthy relationship, I don't believe on wasting my time on someone that I inevitably can't stay with because we aren't sexually compatible.
This is why I would have sex with someone I was interested in by the second date. Protection was always used and I kept myself tested. I don't think it makes sense to spend months or even weeks with a wo/man only to discover that I can't stand sex with her/him.
That being said, I have been living with my current (and hopefully last) boyfriend for over a year and we are expecting our first child together! So I guess I didn't screw myself up too bad lol