What's the Worst Relationship Mistake...

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Wicked Wahine Wicked Wahine
that you wish you could take back?
05/28/2013
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PropertyOfPotter PropertyOfPotter
Being naive and trusting too easily. I was 17 when I met my ex husband and he was 24. He told me everything he knew I wanted to hear. I was amazed at the person he was, amazed that he really got me, understood who I was and what I was looking for. After we got married, the real person came out and it wasn't the same person I thought I was in love with. He openly admitted four months after we were married that nearly everything he told me in the beginning was a lie and he knew that was the only way he could have me. I was young, thought I knew what I was doing, and ended up being a total fool. I wish I wouldn't have trusted him so easily, but then I wouldn't have two of my amazing daughters, so I guess it ended up working out okay.
05/28/2013
js250 js250
I wish that my hubby and I would have waited until we were both divorced from our past partners before we started our relationship together. Unfortunately once the decision to divorce was made--we acted like it was already in force....After being best friends for a few years, the step towards a relationship was a shock. (The reasons for divorcing had nothing to do with us or our relationship but prior issues in the the relationships with our previous partners.)
05/28/2013
RedFreak RedFreak
staying with someone even though you don't love them
05/28/2013
Ansley Ansley
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Originally posted by PropertyOfPotter
Being naive and trusting too easily. I was 17 when I met my ex husband and he was 24. He told me everything he knew I wanted to hear. I was amazed at the person he was, amazed that he really got me, understood who I was and what I was looking ...
Are your parents still married?
05/28/2013
libbyv libbyv
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Originally posted by Wicked Wahine
that you wish you could take back?
too trusting
05/28/2013
nickeyt nickeyt
way to trusting
05/28/2013
PropertyOfPotter PropertyOfPotter
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Originally posted by Ansley
Are your parents still married?
My parents got divorced when I was 16, but never acted like they cared about each other. Why do you ask?
05/28/2013
Pete's Princess Pete's Princess
Marrying my ex. He knew how to manipulate and suck you into guilt. I knew I shouldn't have married him, but went ahead with the wedding because it was only two days before and a lot of money had been spent, all the relatives came from out of town, etc. When you know it is wrong, it is cheaper to get out before you are married. My other mistake was believing things would get better and staying as long as I did.
05/28/2013
Zombirella Zombirella
Lying, which includes cheating.
05/29/2013
ImaGodiva ImaGodiva
I don't regret, because everything that has happened in my life has contributed to the person that I am today.

That said, I would not advise anyone to stay in a loveless/abusive/irrep arable marriage for years because you think it's the right thing to do for the children. It's not (based on my experience).

And, what a tragedy if you miss out on meeting your soulmate because you're in a marriage that will never work and makes you unhappy. Luckily, my soulmate unexpectedly came along a month after I separated from my ex.
05/29/2013
SourAppleMartini SourAppleMartini
I don't regret anything in terms of past relationships. Yes, I probably dated wrong people, but it was necessary for me to get that experience.
05/29/2013
Zombirella Zombirella
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Originally posted by Zombirella
Lying, which includes cheating.
I read that wrong. I've never cheated. I read it as the person doing it to me. The worst I have done is said something really mean just to hurt the other person for hurting me.
05/29/2013
Chilipepper Chilipepper
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Originally posted by Pete's Princess
Marrying my ex. He knew how to manipulate and suck you into guilt. I knew I shouldn't have married him, but went ahead with the wedding because it was only two days before and a lot of money had been spent, all the relatives came from out of ...
I could have written this one. My ex-husband and situation were exactly like that, too.
05/29/2013
edeneve edeneve
not get out sooner w/ me/my life intact.
05/29/2013
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