What size women do you prefer?

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What size women do you prefer?

deadpoet deadpoet
I am a pretty big girl and have been rejected for it my whole life. I have found someone who loves me for me, but I have always wanted to know what size of a women, do most men and women prefer?
Answers (private voting - your screen name will NOT appear in the results):
average
31
athletic
12
fluffy
10
petite
15
model
7
other (sorry, if I missed any)-
20
Total votes: 95 (57 voters)
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08/23/2010
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Passionate Pastor Passionate Pastor
I voted other because my perfect size woman is not a size but a woman. Whatever size my wife happens to be is the perfect size for me.
08/23/2010
deadpoet deadpoet
Quote:
Originally posted by Passionate Pastor
I voted other because my perfect size woman is not a size but a woman. Whatever size my wife happens to be is the perfect size for me.
I was so hoping someone would say that. I wish all men thought the way you do.
08/23/2010
Illusional Illusional
Quote:
Originally posted by Passionate Pastor
I voted other because my perfect size woman is not a size but a woman. Whatever size my wife happens to be is the perfect size for me.
How sweet.
08/23/2010
Darling Jen Darling Jen
Quote:
Originally posted by Passionate Pastor
I voted other because my perfect size woman is not a size but a woman. Whatever size my wife happens to be is the perfect size for me.
That's so great to read. The world needs more people like you.

I understand how you feel, @deadpoet. I'm a full-figured woman too and I'm super, intensely insecure over it. But my partner seems to love me anyway.
08/23/2010
ToyTimeTim ToyTimeTim
Quote:
Originally posted by Passionate Pastor
I voted other because my perfect size woman is not a size but a woman. Whatever size my wife happens to be is the perfect size for me.
I could not agree more! My wife is perfect because she is mine.
08/24/2010
Sir Sir
All and anywhere in between. It's not the exterior that matters, it's what's inside.
08/24/2010
deadpoet deadpoet
Quote:
Originally posted by deadpoet
I am a pretty big girl and have been rejected for it my whole life. I have found someone who loves me for me, but I have always wanted to know what size of a women, do most men and women prefer?
This post wasn't meant to offensive to anyone. This is just something I have always wanted to ask. I never do it in person, because some people lay to make others happy
08/24/2010
Jenn (aka kissmykitty) Jenn (aka kissmykitty)
I'm a straight woman, but I just want to say that there ARE men out there who are open to the idea of, attracted to and turned on by other women. Sadly, it seems like they're few and far between, but trust me, they're there. <3
08/24/2010
Red Vinyl Kitty Red Vinyl Kitty
While it is true that the outside is not important, I cannot deny that I do have a body type which turns me on the most. I love women who are bigger than average or who border on "big". I've been with women who are small and they are wonderful to, but this is just my personal preference.
08/24/2010
Avant-garde Avant-garde
I picked average simply because I prefer a girl to be within a healthy weight range.
08/24/2010
Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
My wife is a combination of buxom and athletic - and as many have said what makes her sexy is that I love & adore her!

In an related story; I just read a story that claims a study found that women athletes have higher levels of clitoral blood flow - which is linked to increased arousal and orgasmic potential!

Staying in shape is relative - we can't all be a Venus or Adonis - but everything we do to improve ourselves pays of by improving out current status.
08/24/2010
Airen Wolf Airen Wolf
I prefer a slender girl but both my guys like a full figured woman. I am fuller figured as well but I've never rejected a woman for being large and lovely.
08/25/2010
TheSexista TheSexista
Quote:
Originally posted by Passionate Pastor
I voted other because my perfect size woman is not a size but a woman. Whatever size my wife happens to be is the perfect size for me.
Thats awesome! She is lucky to have a guy like you!
08/25/2010
TheSexista TheSexista
I too am not a barbie, While I am not super large, I do have some meat on my body! my hubby perfers the ladies with some curves. The very skinny girls dont seem to turn him on as much as a thick behind!
08/25/2010
lamira lamira
It's a good thing my partner likes girls with meat, but I am definitely thick and curvy. We started dating when I was at my skinniest, and I have obviously gained weight since then, and he still loves me. Thankfully I have a keeper. But he has always liked curvier girls. His last partner before me was a big-bootied latina.
10/22/2010
lamira lamira
It's a good thing my partner likes girls with meat, but I am definitely thick and curvy. We started dating when I was at my skinniest, and I have obviously gained weight since then, and he still loves me. Thankfully I have a keeper. But he has always liked curvier girls. His last partner before me was a big-bootied latina.
10/22/2010
Tart Tart
I like my women plump, curvy, full-figured. Whatever you call it, if you got it, I want it.
10/24/2010
Kayla Kayla
I like plus-size bodies for the most part. I voted "other" because I easily can be attracted to slender women as well though I tend to go towards plus-size bodies. I really am equal opportunity though - my only requirement is a good personality.
10/24/2010
CheerfulLoner CheerfulLoner
I find the question to be a little loaded - as most of the people here I can say that I would like a woman to just be herself, regardless of size; I like women with some fire in their bellies - whether they are itty bitty things or lovely curvy ladies makes no real matter to me, just so long as they are proud and tough.

However, to boil it down to pure physical attraction without any other factors I will honestly say that my eyes tend to linger longer on athletic girls more, particularly if they are short and have smaller than average breasts. Being a great big bastard myself, I suppose I tend to covet bodies that are different than mine own.
10/24/2010
Beth D Beth D
I'm less interested in what a person looks like and more interested in who they are. That being said, I've been physically attracted to petite women, busty women, full figured women. I consider many different body structures appealing. I'm on the chunky side myself (though I've recently lost ten pounds and frown trying to figure out where it came from; I don't see a difference... ) and I've always been perfectly alright with what I look like but there certainly aren't people lining up for me. Their loss, though

One thing I do like in women is when they're shorter than me. It doesn't even have to be by a lot, just a little. I'm 5'11" so it's not exactly hard for a woman to be shorter, lol. And I find men being taller than me attractive. I'm not saying I wouldn't fall for someone whose height isn't attractive to me, though, because there are about a bajillion different factors in attraction and height is just one.
10/24/2010
BBW Talks Toys BBW Talks Toys
My hubby says the same as the Pastor does, "You are my type." But, it's no secret that he likes a chunkier girl. As I venture into this world of eating healthy and exercise (despite that first few days that TOM comes to visit and all commitments to health go down the drain), I sometimes struggle and worry that I won't be attractive to him. He always reassures me that no matter what size I am (except the anorexic size... no offense to anyone who's struggled), he will be attracted to me.

On my part though, while I am straight, the women I always find most attractive are the wispy, slender girls who are slightly boyish. I'm not a huge fan of big boobs. Those girls who never seem to have to make an effort into their beauty, they just are. But like CheerfulLoner said, it's probably a covetous thing.

For those of you who watched The L Word, girls that are like the character Shay, or even that are more feminine that her, but that body type.
10/25/2010
sasweetheart89 sasweetheart89
what is fluffy? i have never heard that term before
10/25/2010
BadassFatass BadassFatass
When it comes to pure physical attraction I prefer curvy women...but personality really does a lot for me so I have been known to go for other body types.
02/20/2011
Eorwyn Eorwyn
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Originally posted by deadpoet
I was so hoping someone would say that. I wish all men thought the way you do.
A lot of them do. I'm pretty petite and thin, but gaining weight on my BC pill and my husband doesn't mind at all. As long as you find a guy who loves you for you, and not just your body, he will always love your body no matter what you look like.
02/20/2011
BeautiFullFigured BeautiFullFigured
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Originally posted by sasweetheart89
what is fluffy? i have never heard that term before
Fluffy = thick/heavyset/full-fi gured

Size isn't something that affects how I love.
It isn't something I use to determine my attraction to a person.

HOWEVER...I could not have a good relationship with someone who was morbidly obese, by this I mean someone who is so obese to the point that they can barely move from their beds, that they cannot perform simple everyday functions.

I could not be with someone who did not love themselves (Or friends/family) enough to respect their health enough to seek help in managing their health.

I could and would love them, but I could not maintain a healthy relationship with them. I could not support someone who was killing themselves.

If they were actively seeking help in managing their health, I would support them, help them, and I might be able to have a relationship with them.

I feel the same way about a person who would destroy their health with drugs and/or alcohol.
02/20/2011
That Guy That Guy
Quote:
Originally posted by Passionate Pastor
I voted other because my perfect size woman is not a size but a woman. Whatever size my wife happens to be is the perfect size for me.
Wow, now I feel like a jerk for what I was thinking. Which, I suppose, I have to relate now.

All I could think was "There's no one perfect size. I want a woman of every size. In fact, I want several of each. Monogamy is the only reason I'd even have to pick one over the others. Yeah, that's right, those idiots who came up with monogamy are the only reason people have body issues. Wait a minute: I'm in a monogamous relationship. I'm a reason people have body issues. I'm an awful person. Ah well. My girlfriend looks great. Take that, world!"

So I guess what I'm saying is, in a roundabout way I've come to the same conclusion. Now, if you'll all excuse me, I'm going to go work on being a better person.
02/20/2011
Taylor Von Taylor Von
Quote:
Originally posted by Passionate Pastor
I voted other because my perfect size woman is not a size but a woman. Whatever size my wife happens to be is the perfect size for me.
This is what my man really thinks about me. We started together I wore size 7 pants, I went up to a 16 and back down to a 12 almost 10 now. His love and sex has never changed no matter what size I was.

So glad to see other good hearted men out there.
02/20/2011
married with children married with children
I would love my wife no matter what size she was. But at the same time, I would have a problem if she was not taking care of herself. Either over weight from eating wrong and not being active, or under weight from just not eating. This world has everyone thinking that we look at someone with weight issues, and have anything but a positive view; then we are being jerks, assholes, ect.. Well I think that once again this world is wrong. I am not going to love someone less because they have a weight problem. I have many members of my family with weight issues. Some don't care, and continue to have medical problems because of it. Others battle it every day with their diet and activity.
I am sorry, but I have had to watch too many people die with heath issues that they were too young to have. I want to do everything I can to live a long and happy life with my wife and kids. I want to see my grandkids grow up.
02/20/2011
BBW Talks Toys BBW Talks Toys
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Originally posted by BBW Talks Toys
My hubby says the same as the Pastor does, "You are my type." But, it's no secret that he likes a chunkier girl. As I venture into this world of eating healthy and exercise (despite that first few days that TOM comes to visit and all ...
*gigglesnort* I was so closeted when I wrote this. And it's Shane, not Shay (damn my bad memory)

That said, while I am more attracted to more slender, androgynous girls on sight, I'm much more attracted to personality and am highly attracted to people who are intelligent, witty, clever, funny, and confident, regardless of body type.
06/19/2011
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