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what is fluffy? i have never heard that term before
Fluffy = thick/heavyset/full-fi gured
Size isn't something that affects how I love.
It isn't something I use to determine my attraction to a person.
HOWEVER...I could not have a good relationship with someone who was morbidly obese, by this I mean someone who is so obese to the point that they can barely move from their beds, that they cannot perform simple everyday functions.
I could not be with someone who did not love themselves (Or friends/family) enough to respect their health enough to seek help in managing their health.
I could and would love them, but I could not maintain a healthy relationship with them. I could not support someone who was killing themselves.
If they were actively seeking help in managing their health, I would support them, help them, and I might be able to have a relationship with them.
I feel the same way about a person who would destroy their health with drugs and/or alcohol.