Forget the past programs & benefits. Think of it as an informative retail site that has the benefit of a community area for sharing, learning and making friends. Fuck the politics and complaining...that is an internal issue--not ours as members.
Enjoy what EF offers: Honest reviews on items for a more informed decision prior to buying them, the opportunity to help others make their decisions on items, giving and receiving advice and friendship on the forums. And participation and interaction with others who enjoy a normally 'taboo' topic--sex toys.