Which is more intimate?

I believe kissing is for intimate. It's more passionate and tender. Oral sex is just munching or sucking away.

Kissing is VERY intimate. Its something my husband and I only share together...we share other things, but lets not get into that.

From a writer's perspective, the description of a kiss can be much more revealing than the inclusion of any particular sex act.

I think it depends. For my husband and I oral sex is incredibly intimate. Especially when done in a 69 fashion, because we're focusing on giving each other intense pleasure at the same time and it just makes us feel incredibly close to each other. But at the same time, oral sex can also be not that intimate, and I've experienced that with past partners as well. So, it depends.

I definitely think that kissing is almost always intimate, but again it depends on the feelings behind it how intimate it actually is.

So, it could really go either way. Kissing could be more, oral could be more, or they could be the same.

I am voting for The Love of My Life; she says kissing is the most intimate act. After becoming the happy recipient of her wonderful kisses, I have to agree.

I think oral is, although they are both very intimate.

I say kissing is, but if done right (atleast for me) then they are both intimate. But Kissing will always be more so then oral.

I view intimacy as being passionate with someone therefore that is why I chose kissing.

But I believe that kissing & oral can be both viewed as being intimate, everyone has a different perspective!

For me oral is so much more intimate.

Kissing without a doubt.

I think either can be, depending on the person and the circumstances. If you give a one night stand a blow job, I don't really think of that as "intimate", but just kissing someone you have a connection with can be incredibly intimate, even though it's less physical.

I think either can be more intimate depending upon the person you're doing it with, where you're doing it, and the situation in general.

Theyre both intimate for me.

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I don't know. I hate to say it, but honestly oral sex is millions times more intimate for me. I've kissed a lot of men and most of them I didn't give a crap about, but wanted them to shut up and leave me alone so a kiss is enough. Right? Usually it wasn't ever enough though. Lol Anyways, while I've kissed many, I've only recieved oral sex from one. My current partner. I just always felt it was too, I guess intimate is the word I'm looking for. I wuoldn't let just anyone do that, especially given how special I see sex and oral sex and how serious it is to give it up. I have had to demand that an ex stop trying because he kept trying to give me oral sex and I wasn't ready for that. I'm very modest and it took me finding the person I plan to spend the rest of my life with to let do that. I have to admit, I've given it to more people than I've recieved from which I'm glad I never let people do it to me. I only did it for most of the ex's so they would leave me alone about having actual sex. I'd resort to giving up my mouth if I had to, but my cooter was always something I took seriously. I wanted it to be special and I still do. My partner and I go to great lengths to make sure we keep things intimate with only each other.

Kissing can be intimate too. I've heard many guys say "I'd rather you F another man than kiss him!" I just can't feel the same way. If I am going to give up my cooter, you must be one hell of a special dude!

I guess it really depends on the situation and mood, but overall, for me, kissing.

Sometimes sex is not intimate. Sometimes you are just down to be dirty and nasty, and give some effing amazing head. It's the flat out 100% truth that I am not afraid to tell.

Then, other times, oral sex is intimate, slow, and extremely pleasurable to both the body, mind and soul. Sometimes you and your partner are having this out-of-this-world connection that is unexplainable.

So, it depends...

I definitely think that kissing is much more intimate. I personally have kissed very few people because for me it's an expression of love, someones breath on your face, the closeness involved in your lips meeting etc

I find any sex act more intimate than a kiss. In fact I don't find kissing very intimate at all. The only time it is for us when it's part of foreplay. Don't get me me wrong we kiss all the time - but they are just little 're-connect' moments throughout the day.

Kissing. I love giving my man oral (and getting it in return), but when we kiss is when the sparks really fly.

kissing

To me kissing is much more intimate.

Kissing is more intimate.

Intimate kissing is by far more, regular kissing isnt much but true pasionate kissing is special

I think kissing is more intimate.

I'd say they're equally intimate.

I said kissing. A good ole' fashioned make-out session feels much more intimate to me, than oral.

Oral sex. I have kissed a lot of frogs but not many of them have been in my mouth. And few have tasted me. I find that incredibly intimate.