Which personality do you prefer?

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Which personality do you prefer?

Rossie Rossie
I've listed out two personalities, which one do you prefer? I like friends who are honest and speak their minds, not fakes who pretend to be kind and friendly, and their words are always music to my ears.
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I like friends who are honest, and speak their mind.
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I like friends with forever smiley faces, and say things that I like to hear.
In Between Soliloquies
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Others.....
Taylor , Moein
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Total votes: 50 (49 voters)
Poll is closed
12/21/2011
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- Kira - - Kira -
I am honest to a fault and I prefer that my friends are the same. I don't like lying, even if it is done with good intentions.
12/21/2011
Rossie Rossie
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Originally posted by - Kira -
I am honest to a fault and I prefer that my friends are the same. I don't like lying, even if it is done with good intentions.
Me too, I can't stand fakes, but seems like quite a lot of people are blinded by that kind of personality.
12/21/2011
Mike Honcho Mike Honcho
Honesty! Smiles are nice, but true friends are honest, even if it hurts.
12/21/2011
Subbi Subbi
Id pick someone who was honest over anything.
12/21/2011
klyte klyte
Speak their mind!
12/21/2011
AmberM AmberM
Honesty, I'd rather have friends who told me the truth then lied to me and who hid it with smiles. You can have smiles, and honesty, though.
12/21/2011
AmberM AmberM
Honesty, I'd rather have friends who told me the truth then lied to me and who hid it with smiles. You can have smiles, and honesty, though.
12/21/2011
philly philly
honesty goes long way, this day and age more then ever before
12/21/2011
PiratePrincess PiratePrincess
I always pick honesty over fake friends.
12/21/2011
Pink Jewel Pink Jewel
Honesty
12/21/2011
Sinfully Sinfully
kinda a silly question but like everyone else said so far i like someone who is honest and speaks their mind.
12/21/2011
her angelness her angelness
i never understood how people can stand being around fake people. honest people are much easier to deal with.
12/22/2011
Love Perpetua Love Perpetua
I think tactful honesty is best, I really don't like when people say one thing to my face and another behind my back.
12/22/2011
Dirminxia Dirminxia
If the people you surround yourself are not honest to you, then what are friends really for?
12/22/2011
K101 K101
Really, I prefer an in between. I do NOT like fake people and it's one thing I tend to get a small amount of hurt feelings over. I work very hard to be honest and it can be hard when it's a situation where they may not love what you have to say, but it's best. I had a friend who prided herself on being "100% honest and BLUNT" Thing was, she wasn't honest and blunt, but down right rude and hateful. She was a wonderful friend to me througout high school, but those little "truths" she loved telling served no other purpose besides to hurt. For years she wasn't like that toward me and later I too was a "friend" she treated that way. There's a difference (a huge one) in being honest and helpful and being a hateful douche-bag. Lol.

The honest friend I had would say things like "you're the biggest dumbass." About EVERYTHING! That gets old and it's belittling, not honest. She also liked saying things like "You don't need to wear that because people will think badly of you" or "you shouldn't wear this because people will think you're ugly." another common "truth" was "you look fat, your toes look fat, etc" Everything looked "fat." There are nicer ways to say things and really when someone DOESN'T look fat, why tell them they do?

This was constantly things she would say. If I have a camel-toe, be a nice friend and pull me aside and DO tell me. That's an honest, helpful friend.

Then I've had one or two friends that did care enough to be honest with me, but wouldn't ever be plain hateful or belittle me. After a few years of my very "honest" friend, I ditched her.

It can be very hard to be honest with people. Say someone has something about them that really drives you insane, but it's not something that would be nice to say to them. If it isn't hurting them or the friendship, things like that can be left alone. Small things. Like maybe someone spits when they talk or sways side to side when they talk. Those little quirks can be left silent. If one of my sisters or girlfriends ask if they have too much makeup, or if a pimple is showing or if their hair's greasy, I will be honest, but nicely. There IS ALWAYS a way of saying it nicely. I am a strong believer in that.
12/22/2011
Rossie Rossie
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Originally posted by K101
Really, I prefer an in between. I do NOT like fake people and it's one thing I tend to get a small amount of hurt feelings over. I work very hard to be honest and it can be hard when it's a situation where they may not love what you have to ...
True, real friends should speak their minds honestly and sincerely, but not in a hurtful way. Look at it at a different angle, maybe your high school friend didn't realize the words that came out of her mouth were actually hurtful to the receiving end. It might have done her good, if you've expressed your thoughts to her back then.
12/22/2011
unfulfilled unfulfilled
Honesty. I do not like lying at all; its a big pet peeve of mine. If you can't tell me the truth no matter how much it hurts then we don't have trust and trust is important to me.
12/22/2011
Taylor Taylor
Generally I like someone who is honest, but there definitely are times when I would choose tactful and kind over honesty so I think it's good to have balance. For example when I threw a party a couple years ago and it ended up being a disaster, I got really upset and I appreciated the people who said they had a good time, even though I knew they probably didn't. If they had just told me that they didn't have a good time and my party was horrible it would have just made me feel worse without actually helping me in any way. It's an important skill to be able to read people and know when they need to hear honesty (even if it hurts) or if they just need some kind words (even if they aren't true).
12/22/2011
Kallisto Kallisto
That's a no brainer for me! The first obviously.
12/22/2011
loveme10402 loveme10402
I'd rather have someone that completely speaks there honest opinion, not over baring or rude.
12/22/2011
PassionateLover2 PassionateLover2
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Originally posted by Kallisto
That's a no brainer for me! The first obviously.
Honesty is the best policy!! But, I do like to tease alot; keeps it interesting without being hurtful!
12/22/2011
Cherry21 Cherry21
Quote:
Originally posted by Rossie
I've listed out two personalities, which one do you prefer? I like friends who are honest and speak their minds, not fakes who pretend to be kind and friendly, and their words are always music to my ears.
I chose the top one, but I really should have gone with Other. I like friends that are honest, but sometimes i just want someone to smile and act happy for me!
12/22/2011
js250 js250
I want honest, sincere and tactful friends. The ones you can count on 24/7 and know they will have your back. That is the kind of person I am and I expect the same.
12/22/2011
lalapetitee lalapetitee
I'm very blunt. If you ask you shall receive my honest and respectful opinion. I expect my friends to be the same.
12/22/2011
MrWishyWashy MrWishyWashy
I have found that honesty is the best answer for anything...
12/25/2011
Errant Venture Errant Venture
I prefer friends who are open and honest, and not ones that put up a facade. Though, that said, I don't like people who say 'I'm just being honest' as an excuse for being rude.
12/27/2011
Moein Moein
I like a calm and sensitive person who care about my feelings. Those people are a very good friends if you can deal with them. Just keep smile to them and share their sympathy.
12/27/2011
Rod Martini Rod Martini
Good friends tell you when you have a boog hangin out. That's my kind of friend.
12/27/2011
In Between Soliloquies In Between Soliloquies
I selected both because I think having a mix of friends can't hurt. As long as I know which ones are the plastic-smile ones, I don't mind. What's more important to me is that they're loyal and are willing to get down and dirty if need be to help out a friend. If I need an honest opinion, I'd know not to ask certain people.
12/27/2011
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