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You or your significant other? How long before you, or they "caught on" to the fact you (or they) were really "loved"? We don't think that in many cases "lightning" feelings hit both people at once...or are we wrong?
Sigel says he knew pretty much from the first date that he wanted me to be around forever....and that must mean that he loved me.
It took me quite a while to fall in love with either of my guys. I knew I liked Sigel for nearly a year until we fought the first time and it hit me how badly it would hurt if we broke up, that's when I realized that I loved him. It took me longer to commit because I have horrible trust issues and abandonment issues that interfered with my ability to truly bond.
Now I talked to Arch for about 3 years before we even exchanged photos. I knew I loved him cerebrally and then when I met him...WHAM it hit me like a freight train.
The slow building and slow burn of the love I feel for Sigel has warmed me for over 25 years and now I have 5 years of another slow burning love for Arch.