Who fell in love first....?

Bignuf Bignuf
You or your significant other? How long before you, or they "caught on" to the fact you (or they) were really "loved"? We don't think that in many cases "lightning" feelings hit both people at once...or are we wrong?
03/05/2013
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Chilipepper Chilipepper
I think we had an idea by the third week together that we found the person that we want to spend the rest of our lives with, although it took me another two months to believe it was love. It was a month after my realization when we finally admitted it out loud ... when we had to take a "break" to work out the one huge issue that is preventing us from having a future together.

When you finally say "I love you", it shouldn't be while you're breaking up. :-/
03/05/2013
kadelette kadelette
My significant other fell first, I think!
03/05/2013
Ryuson Ryuson
Well I'm a very passionate person, and have trouble telling the difference between being 'in love' and just really loving someone. I almost feel like I'm in love with many of my friends, just don't want to be in a romantic relationship with them, if that makes sense?

If that's the case I for sure did.
03/05/2013
gsfanatic gsfanatic
Think it was a close tie, but it took her longer to admit it
03/05/2013
deltalima deltalima
Quote:
Originally posted by Bignuf
You or your significant other? How long before you, or they "caught on" to the fact you (or they) were really "loved"? We don't think that in many cases "lightning" feelings hit both people at once...or are we wrong?
Probably me.
03/05/2013
LexiKitten LexiKitten
I feel as if it was close, but we both were nervous to say it due to the fact of not wanting to freak one another out. Then one day it just happened.
03/05/2013
Airen Wolf Airen Wolf
Quote:
Originally posted by Bignuf
You or your significant other? How long before you, or they "caught on" to the fact you (or they) were really "loved"? We don't think that in many cases "lightning" feelings hit both people at once...or are we wrong?
Sigel says he knew pretty much from the first date that he wanted me to be around forever....and that must mean that he loved me. It took me quite a while to fall in love with either of my guys. I knew I liked Sigel for nearly a year until we fought the first time and it hit me how badly it would hurt if we broke up, that's when I realized that I loved him. It took me longer to commit because I have horrible trust issues and abandonment issues that interfered with my ability to truly bond.

Now I talked to Arch for about 3 years before we even exchanged photos. I knew I loved him cerebrally and then when I met him...WHAM it hit me like a freight train.

The slow building and slow burn of the love I feel for Sigel has warmed me for over 25 years and now I have 5 years of another slow burning love for Arch.
03/05/2013
laflauta laflauta
I'm single now, but when I was with my ex-boyfriend, he fell in love first. He is pretty bad at expressing emotion, so I didn't know until he told me.
03/06/2013
Martiniman Martiniman
My wife fell first and then showed me the light.
03/06/2013
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