Why be fake on a date?

pixxie87 pixxie87
i have heard that on first dates girls order salads when they actually feel like eating something more filling like a burger. Why be fake around someone you hardly know? If you like him then just do what ever makes you happy. Girls are crazy.
05/27/2012
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Chilipepper Chilipepper
Many are under the impression that guys want to see them maintain their figure, and they have the discipline to do so. I think it's only catering to the fat-phobes who only date girls of a certain size. Sadness, really ... we perpetuate lies because of insecurity. Must be hell to maintain a relationship with the sort who only pays attention to the packaging.
05/27/2012
Petite Valentine Petite Valentine
Quote:
Originally posted by pixxie87
i have heard that on first dates girls order salads when they actually feel like eating something more filling like a burger. Why be fake around someone you hardly know? If you like him then just do what ever makes you happy. Girls are crazy.
People are very concerned about first impressions. I think women do this because they are often judged (harshly) about their weight and appearance.

Personally, on my first date with my husband I had a burger and fries, and then I took the tomato, lettuce and pickle from his plate. I'm all about keepin' it real.
05/27/2012
gypsymama gypsymama
I am a total foodie, so eating a lettuce salad on a date would be a no go for me, lol!!
05/27/2012
Zombirella Zombirella
I don't. I'm picky about food. I don't really like salads. Everyone eats and if the guy is interested in me he obviously likes the way I look NOW so why do I need to change anything unless I WANT to? If someone is taking me out to eat I'm going to get something that I LIKE and fills me up.
05/27/2012
Kitka Kitka
I have never done that, if I want something I'll just order it and eat it.
05/27/2012
breebree breebree
i'll eat whatever I'm craving. I never care what people think. And if a guy doesn't like it then he can leave
05/27/2012
PassionateLover2 PassionateLover2
Quote:
Originally posted by Petite Valentine
People are very concerned about first impressions. I think women do this because they are often judged (harshly) about their weight and appearance.

Personally, on my first date with my husband I had a burger and fries, and then I took the ... More
This may be true. I sometime do a movie and then go get a Pizza. Girls like pizzas!!
05/27/2012
PassionateLover2 PassionateLover2
I think that a guy has to just let things be real; make the girl feel comfortable! If a guy expects otherwise, he is being fake!!
05/27/2012
js250 js250
I always ate whatever I felt like on the first date. My personal feeling was that if a guy liked me enough to ask then he likes me as the person I am--not someone neither one of us knows.
05/27/2012
Elnoa Elnoa
I've ordered salads on dates with guys... but usually because I'm a vegetarian and the only acceptable item I found was a salad, or because i wasn't too hungry. Just eat what you want.

But, anyway, women tend to be under a lot of pressure to never be seen eating, especially "larger" women like myself.
05/27/2012
nanamondoute nanamondoute
I was always under the impression that a guy likes to see that a woman has a healthy appetite...I usually eat whatever I want on a date.
05/28/2012
Allison.Wilder Allison.Wilder
I think girls can just be nervous and want to make a decent impression and not look like they eat a lot or something. I wouldn't order a lot, but I would definitely order something that I wanted like a chicken wrap or fries. That's what I would order normally and he'd realize it sooner or later anyways.
05/29/2012
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