So far in most of my relationships they were somewhat open to toys but had issues of being worried I would only use my toys and not them especially my "ex husband". My current partner is all about what I order, since he is an OTR driver it could be a week or several weeks before we can see each other. We were talking to other day an he asked what I was doing I said I was on Eden, he asked what I was ordering and what new toys I ordered. He was disappointed when I stated I had been buying bath and body stuff and lip glosses. He loves that I am on here, he enjoys using my toys on me as well
If your partner isn't into toys I am not sure what to say on that, other then try introducing small things here and there. If they are shy have them create an account and get things they wish to use. Maybe they don't know how to express what they want to try in fear you may disapprove?! If they have their own account they could maybe introduce things they want into the bedroom similarly to the way you could with what you want to try.