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Contributor: spiced spiced
Yesterday, I asked about the best years(s)... so let's look at the other side of things.

The worst year of my life had to be 1989. My super hot girlfriend dumped me for a rich prick, the place I worked went out of business and I got evicted (slept on friends' couches for months), I suffered with undiagnosed major depression and drank heavily in a futile effort to self-medicate, and I packed on a BUNCH of extra weight which took a LONG time to work off. Almost everything about that year SUCKED! But you know what? It passed. When things are bad, I think about 1989 and remember that, as bad as it was, it ENDED and things got better.

How about you? Care to discuss your worst year(s)?
03/03/2013
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Contributor: js250 js250
This year.
--futilely struggling to make a dead relationship work.
--business is in dire straights.
--other business needs to be completed with soon to be ex before I can advertise, etc. to make it successful.
--stress is killing me
--turned down for disability..even though can barely work.
--life just sucks right now........
03/03/2013
Contributor: AmethystQueen AmethystQueen
Actually the last few years have been my worst. Hope things will get better. The stress hubby feels isn't good for he bedroom. He's trying to fix it and reconnect and put the stress in its place so that's a good thing. That's why I'm on here trying to help him out with great outfits and toys!
03/03/2013
Contributor: Chelynn67 Chelynn67
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Originally posted by spiced
Yesterday, I asked about the best years(s)... so let's look at the other side of things.

The worst year of my life had to be 1989. My super hot girlfriend dumped me for a rich prick, the place I worked went out of business and I got ... more
the past year, I lost my ex husband, the father of my daughter in Aug. and just lost my ex partner, we were together over 11 yrs and knew since we were about 12 yrs old, we dated then too. I lost him 2 wks ago today and I miss him so bad. We were exes but he was my best friend.
03/03/2013
Contributor: Chilipepper Chilipepper
2009 - when we had a semi-kick out at one house followed by a full-on eviction from an apartment (due to ex-husband), had to put my life in storage in another state (that I still can't get to), had developed a cough that has stayed with me since (cellular encapsulation of a large foreign particle in my lung), the worst stress ever at my job, I was thoroughly sick of my ex-husband, and I almost jumped off a fucking bridge. Oh, and the car caught fire while moving back cross country after I spent a week in a crisis center.

The only highlight of that year was telling my ex-husband our marriage was over. Yes, that was the highlight.
03/03/2013
Contributor: deltalima deltalima
Quote:
Originally posted by spiced
Yesterday, I asked about the best years(s)... so let's look at the other side of things.

The worst year of my life had to be 1989. My super hot girlfriend dumped me for a rich prick, the place I worked went out of business and I got ... more
The last 4 years have been really bad because of the things in my personal life that have happened.
03/03/2013
Contributor: twelve13 twelve13
14-16. I had an eating disorder and mild depression that almost killed me. That, along with pretty bad anxiety.
03/04/2013
Contributor: Gone (LD29) Gone (LD29)
2005. In chronological order:

I lost my job. I had worked there for 5 years.

My father passed away two days before my 25th birthday. When he was diagnosed with lung cancer 3 months prior, he was told he probably had 3 - 5 years to live.

My boyfriend (who is now my husband) lost his job.

Between the lost jobs and the time my mother took off work to care for my father, my boyfriend and I realized we needed to move back in with my mother to help all three of us make ends meet.

My mother passed away suddenly and unexpectedly a week after her birthday. Four months to the day after my father passed away. She hadn't been sick. She and I had been re-painting my bedroom the night before, getting ready for us to move back into it.

The rest of the year grieving, and moving, and getting settled into a new job, and figuring out where to go next.
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Big hugs to everyone here that's been through nastiness in the past few years.
03/04/2013
Contributor: GONE! GONE!
Literally all my teen years. I was lonely and my parents seemed to be trying to make my life as miserable as possible.
03/04/2013
Contributor: spiced spiced
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Originally posted by js250
This year.
--futilely struggling to make a dead relationship work.
--business is in dire straights.
--other business needs to be completed with soon to be ex before I can advertise, etc. to make it successful.
--stress is killing ... more
It actually hurt to read this. I hope things get better for you soon. You seem like an awesome person and you shouldn't have to endure all this.

I don't imagine it will help much, but this too shall pass.
03/04/2013
Contributor: spiced spiced
Quote:
Originally posted by Chelynn67
the past year, I lost my ex husband, the father of my daughter in Aug. and just lost my ex partner, we were together over 11 yrs and knew since we were about 12 yrs old, we dated then too. I lost him 2 wks ago today and I miss him so bad. We were ... more
My God, you've been through a lot this past year. I hope you can remember the good times you shared with your ex-husband and ex-partner and that things will be good for you again soon.
03/04/2013
Contributor: James Axel James Axel
1997. Lots of people died, my parents lost their jobs, people got sick, my mom ended up in the hospital, etc. Lots of shit happened and that year is responsible for a lot of my anxieties and fears growing up.
03/04/2013
Contributor: Strider Strider
Age 11-13 was hell. Just hell. I got so sick of life that I felt like I had to believe in things that in all honesty I knew weren't real just to keep going.
03/06/2013