Would/have you ever? Abortion. Private poll.

Contributor: hyacinthgirl hyacinthgirl
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Originally posted by HippieFeet
I hate that some people want to control women's choices on this
On the general level, most pro-lifers aren't against women having reproductive choices. It's called "pro-life" because supporters believe that the baby is a separate being with rights of it's own, including the right to live.
07/01/2012
Contributor: Stinkytofu10 Stinkytofu10
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Originally posted by Morganna
Have you ever had or would you ever get an abortion?
I am a guy, and I don't have any say in this. I think it's completely up to the woman in the relationship.
07/01/2012
Contributor: silverdragonfly9 silverdragonfly9
I wouldn't have one but I believe its the woman's choice
07/01/2012
Contributor: SneakersAndPearls SneakersAndPearls
I'm what you may call a practical pro-lifer. Not militant, not crazy, but do have definite feelings on this. I absolutely do not believe in abortion as a form of birth control (as in, oops, I didn't mean to get preggers). However, I don't consider it morally wrong if it is a situation such as ectopic pregnancy, where it most likely won't result in a viable baby (meaning it won't ever grow large enough to survive on it's own), and would likely kill the mother. I always believe in adoption as an option. If it is a money issue, many adopting families will pay for prenatal care. Add to that the horror stories of the babies that actually survive abortion and are left to die (I hope those are just stories!), and you have a perfect storm of nuh-uh for me.

Do I believe a woman has the right to birth control? Yeppers. Absolutely. Hands down, no question. What she does with her body is her business. But my feelings on this remain that an abortion is not only about a woman's body, but the child's as well.

However, none of that means that I hate people that are pro-choice. I have friends that are. Generally, we just agree to disagree and respect each other's opinions on the matter.
07/01/2012
Contributor: lana.banana lana.banana
I believe in the power of choice but I not really likely to fact this choice.
07/01/2012
Contributor: Anne Anne
I believe that if any woman wants to get an abortion, they should have a right to. However, what I don't believe in is useless sacrifice. Thousands of lives can be saved through harvesting aborted fetuses through stem cells... and if you are a somewhat of a religious person you may think that this is playing God. Or if you are a little bit more open, you can think of it as that fetus's organs are living on through another body.

I'd like to think that we can improve the quality of our health if we let this happen. It doesn't mean that we should all go out and get pregnant just to make donations, but we already have such a high poverty rate as it is. A lot of women do get pregnant because that's their ticket to wellfare, using the government through the life of a child, which is cruel! We are already overpopulated as it is.

Some people, I'd hate to say it, will ruin their lives having a baby early in their lives. They are not ready, emotionally, financially... that itself is cruel. I personally would want to wait until I could give the most to my children.
07/02/2012
Contributor: lulz lulz
I haven't but it might depend on the situation
07/02/2012
Contributor: (k)InkyIvy (k)InkyIvy
I've never had an abortion (or a pregnancy, for that matter), but I would get an abortion if it was necessary (threat to my life or something).
08/01/2012
Contributor: richsam richsam
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Originally posted by Morganna
Have you ever had or would you ever get an abortion?
no i think in some cases i would say its ok like if u was rapped or if theres a chance it would kill u or the baby but to have a abortion just because u r not being safe is just wrong
08/01/2012
Contributor: crazycouple7281 crazycouple7281
It's wrong for me personally. I wouldn't want my gf to get one.
08/24/2012
Contributor: noway noway
I think it's nobody else's business. What other people do has nothing to do with me, and what I do has nothing to do with anyone else. It's between a woman and her doc, that's it.
01/22/2013
Contributor: atryonix atryonix
i have not and would not
01/22/2013
Contributor: bog bog
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Originally posted by Morganna
Have you ever had or would you ever get an abortion?
Luckily, I've never been pregnant.
01/22/2013
Contributor: EmuLove EmuLove
I would only get an abortion if it was from an unwanted sexual encounter...
01/22/2013
Contributor: Lildrummrgurl7 Lildrummrgurl7
I haven't had one but I don't think I could get one myself unless the fetus was a product of rape or life threatening to me.

But I don't think that it's wrong for women to seek abortions at all.
01/22/2013
Contributor: ViVix ViVix
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Originally posted by Morganna
Have you ever had or would you ever get an abortion?
Sometimes it's the best option. You never know until you walk in someone else's shoes!
01/22/2013
Contributor: souviet souviet
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Originally posted by Morganna
Have you ever had or would you ever get an abortion?
Never done it, make no plans to (obviously, because lesbian), but I support the rights of women to get them.
01/22/2013
Contributor: fizzygato fizzygato
I might consider it.

I feel like it might make me dysphoric, in terms of trans* ness.

I also feel like I might start fetishizing myself, though, and like it. It depends. If I had a supportive partner or friends, maybe I could like myself that way and actually like it and become a feedee. But I'm not sure.

I feel like my relationship with me actually being pregnant is so complicated and something I'd rather not worry about at the moment. I feel like I couldn't even support myself right now, and don't want to have to deal with abortion, adoption, etc. so I would just do things to keep myself from ever getting in that situation unless I knew I could handle all of my complicated emotions that might arise
01/23/2013
Contributor: Living Doll Living Doll
My boyfriend and I are very careful but if I somehow got pregnant, I'd get an abortion in a hot second and feel just fine about it. We don't want children.
01/23/2013
Contributor: Geogeo Geogeo
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Originally posted by Morganna
Have you ever had or would you ever get an abortion?
I haven't had one and personally think I'd feel too guilty too under most circumstances, but I totally support people who do.
01/23/2013
Contributor: VioletMoonstone VioletMoonstone
I'm really sensitive about this subject. Reading through all the comments is difficult. I've had an abortion. I wasn't being careless, I wasn't sleeping around, I was on birth control. I've been with my boyfriend for many years. I'm a perfect pill taker and it failed me. I was taking my pill every single day up to the day when I found out. I was being extremely responsible and it still happened. I don't like babies and don't want one, never have. I have absolutely no desire to have children in my life. In my personal opinion, the entire process of being pregnant and giving birth is disgusting. I hate what it does to the female body and I just find it nightmarish. It gave me intense depression and paranoia to the point of starving myself and considering suicide which is one of the many reasons I chose to terminate as quickly as possible. My mental health was declining. I want to live a child free life until the day I die. Let me have the choice to live the life I want to live. Having a choice is a beautiful thing.... so is peace and quiet and the freedom to do what I want when I want. It's my life and my body.

Until that moment when you seriously think you're pregnant or just find out you're pregnant... you'll never really understand what emotions you'll personally go through.
01/23/2013
Contributor: gwenevieve gwenevieve
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Originally posted by Morganna
Have you ever had or would you ever get an abortion?
I have honestly had two abortions and they have both done me a world of good.

I would never/could never regret a decision that weighed so heavily on me, especially when all along the right choice was clear all along.

Sometimes it's just not/will never be the right time.
01/23/2013
Contributor: rosythorn rosythorn
For a medical emergency or rape then I would do it, but not for any other reason. I don't want to get pregnant right now, but if I did I would probably still keep the baby.

For other ppl, I am fine for a person having an abortion for any reason during the first 3 months. Afterwards I am a little iffy about.
01/23/2013
Contributor: RavenInChains RavenInChains
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Originally posted by Morganna
Have you ever had or would you ever get an abortion?
I've never had one but if I needed one I wouldn't hesitate. If my health was at risk or I suffered a sexual assault I definitely would. If I had other reasons for believing I couldn't care of a child I would consider all the possibilities but in the end if I couldn't care for the child I wouldn't feel guilty about getting an abortion.
01/23/2013
Contributor: Raymaker Raymaker
I never have in my life, mostly because I'd hate to have no choice but to do it at all, but if I was still in school and got pregnant I'd have an abortion without a second thought. I'm an independant human being and my livelihood matters more than a cluster of cells that haven't even developed a nervous system to register pain.
01/23/2013
Contributor: captainsgirl captainsgirl
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Originally posted by Morganna
Have you ever had or would you ever get an abortion?
Does anyone realize, that when you have an abortion you are ending your childs life??
What about adoption??
01/23/2013
Contributor: ginnyluvspotter ginnyluvspotter
Never had one but I did think about it once and I'm glad I didn't do it.
01/23/2013
Contributor: VioletMoonstone VioletMoonstone
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Originally posted by captainsgirl
Does anyone realize, that when you have an abortion you are ending your childs life??
What about adoption??
It's my body and I chose not to go through with pregnancy and birth. It's difficult to explain to someone else. I was deathly afraid of what it would do to my body and I was extremely depressed to a dangerous state of mind. I wanted my body back. I felt like I had lost all control over my body and my life. I felt like my life was over. I felt that I was going to lose my mind and end up losing the love of my life and my mom in the process. I was scared to death of getting larger and larger, stretching out my insides, and all the blood, gore, and pain involved. Also I had some health risks both physically and mentally. I chose not to go through with it and I don't regret it at all. Pregnancy isn't all cupcakes and rainbows.

There's so many children that need to be adopted at this very moment. I chose not to add to that number when there's already so many in need as it is. When people say, "just put it up for adoption" I wonder if they've ever adopted a child and if not how can they make such a personal suggestion for me?
01/24/2013
Contributor: Kirill1171 Kirill1171
No, it's wrong
01/24/2013
Contributor: Voir Voir
Never had one but if something messed up and I found myself pregnant (although why I would skip the morning after option if something messed up i don't know) but let's say something did, and I skipped or forgot 'plan b' or whatever it's called... if I didn't feel I could properly handle a child - and I don't want children anyway regardless of the situation - then yes I would have an abortion.

Accidents happen - nothing is fool-proof and just because something slipped by condom / birth control or whatever precautions are taken doesn't mean I should give up my life and goals and direction to succumb to the accident. In the long run it would cause more problems for the accidental parent and the child than it would be worth to go through 9 months just to bring one more mouth to feed into this world.
01/24/2013