I dont care how bad the bedroom is, I dont care if we dont even a bedroom. As far as ime concerned Ime not going to go with any other guy.
Between are realtionship weve both had a few military deployments. I can guarntee you with two years and not having him in bed I didnt think about another guy. I cant stand watching porn because Its not him and It just doesnt feel right to me.
I have "lent a finger" and vise versa to a friend we had threesomes with before we were deployed and he knows that I done/do that. Hes actually pretty cool with it. I wouldnt call that cheating because he knows, and before we did it he said its cool.
Same with him and her, I didnt really care if he had oral/anal with her and she knew the same. Shes single so it acutally works out well...and when I was oversees and he was here they fooled around. The only thing I had a problem with is if they were to have vaginal sex, so they didnt. I know they had anal/oral but I cant really blame him cause I said ok watever if you want go for it with her and she um lets say helped me get off when he was gone.
Now other then that like if he comes back and even touches her(sexually of course) ide make sure he pays for it. But as far as when were gone and somehow usally comes up and were like ok waever just dont do vag without me there.
So if its cheating I dont think so because we both know wa there doin.