Would you help your SO?

That would be AWKWARD! I wouldn't let my husband go into cam modeling nor would I take PRIVATE photos of him for others viewing pleasure. Does she enjoy cam modeling for the fun of it or for the money? Does she make a lot being a cam model? I'm sorry but you should talk her into quiting and finding a better, more fullfilling job. If it makes you uncomfortable that she is cam modeling then you should express your concerns about it or it will eat away at you and one day you're gonna explode. Something like this should be agreed upon by both partners. less

stripping naked or close to it for anyone other than your spouse is unacceptable in marriage, total disrespect. and i do have kids, 2 of them actually - 3 and 4 years old. i'd never consider that; if i needed a job i'd get a retail type job at mall again. my husband has a good job welding and painting for a company who fixes and builds railroad cars for the railroad. i'm a stay at home mom. less

minimum wage is fine for me for a job because it'd just be $ for me/kids to have spending $. and my parents babysit for free anytime we need them to and when i worked. And i say never because no $ amount is ever worth losing my husband to or throwing my dignity for myself out the window. not saying u did,just my point of view. my husband would say F no and i support that decision 100% because it's my answer too lol.

i do surveys from home for extra $ and get checks for them, on top of commission for being an affiliate on EF - not regular by any means but better than nothing =]

But retail around here hires every May and August or so for the seasons. less

my wife just started with cam modeling again after a three year break. She did it when we met, and a little while afterwards but quit because of the birth of our daughters and she says it makes her uncomfortable to "work" when I am home, even if Im in the other room. She asked me today if I could help her take photos for a photo pack she is putting together and I feel kind of weird to be honest. Im not the jealous type or anything, i just hate that she has to go back into camming and the like. so i was wondering-am I weird for feeling weird about this? Would you feel weird helping out your SO for this type of work? less

When you can earn 4 times as much as a "regular, conventional job" in a quarter of the time and spend the rest of your time with your family, you might disagree that this is unacceptable.

Not all cam models get naked. Not everything is about sex. I have people that pay just to chat with me and have my undivided attention.

There is waaaay more to camming than you think there is. less

I just have to say I feel uncomfortable even answering the original question. Jmex asked a question, a legitimate question. Then, when people answered, some were jumped on for "not supporting" cam modeling. I don't know how anyone could answer Jmex's real dilemma if they are jumped on for agreeing with him. Jmex admitted he's uncomfortable so for whatever reason, is everyone who agrees with him wrong? I think Jmex has a right to HIS opinion about the situation, and more than anyone else on the board, as it's his SO who is involved in this.

This shouldn't be about "is cam modeling OK?" or "Is cam modeling a good job for a 'married woman'?" or "Here are all the benefits and hard work of cam modeling."

I thought the OP's question was "Would you be uncomfortable taking pics of your SO for her Cam Modeling job?" Honestly, yes. I don't do this for a living, but I know my husband would not be comfortable "helping" with this kind of thing at all. I think we should be allowed to be honest without being attacked, but also, we should give our answers in a respectful manner.

I couldn't care less to judge what other people do for a living and it isn't my job to say whether or not it is "OK for married women" or not as I don't live their lives, but yes, I KNOW My Man would not be OK with "helping out."

I'm just answering the OP's question. The rest is simply off topic. less

my wife just started with cam modeling again after a three year break. She did it when we met, and a little while afterwards but quit because of the birth of our daughters and she says it makes her uncomfortable to "work" when I am home, even if Im in the other room. She asked me today if I could help her take photos for a photo pack she is putting together and I feel kind of weird to be honest. Im not the jealous type or anything, i just hate that she has to go back into camming and the like. so i was wondering-am I weird for feeling weird about this? Would you feel weird helping out your SO for this type of work? less

I'm talking about women who don't have the luxury of a man at home. Those who have to solely depend on themselves for money. Your minimum wage job maybe enough for "Extra" spending cash, but it's not enough to pay the bills without have to go to wellfare for food stamps, medical, and maybe section 8. Your lucky to have parents that will babysit for you because most of us don't have that either. There are plenty of us that don't even live within 100miles of our family. Retail jobs that are seasonal are still not going to pay for the bills forever. Camming is something that will. And there might be one day you don't have a husband or a family to help you out. You have to think about how you can do things for yourself. Camming is a wonderful option to have. And as many others have said it's more than sexual things. Some clients don't even want sexual things. less

Beck I have family that lives close by and they don't even have time to babysit. I just now got my daughter into daycare a couple days of week and for four hours. I called around to centers and they wanted $200 a pop a week and on days even if I did not send her there. I can't afford almost 600 bucks a month for daycare. The lady I have now is a in home daycare and she is charging me $50 bucks a week for 4 hours for three days out the week. I am so happy about that one. I live in a good neighborhood in a apartment community my rent alone is $593.00 bucks month and I am not on section 8 and don't have low income. I rather it stay that way. I have lived in the ghetto and in low income and I will not go back to it ever again. I do everthing to make sure this does not happen. I don't have my partner here with me to help out and even if he was here I still would not have him be the sole person to just do it. I would have him pay half. Or have him take care of bills or something and I take care of the rent and other things.

I for one don't get undressed for everyone as I have said plenty of times I do the Friends and Romance side of it and a little example in two weeks I sure make about $300-400 bucks per pay period. Sometimes even more then that depending on how long I am on and if I am not getting side track and taking days off. All for not getting undressed. Also I spend most of my time on there because I don't really like being on the adult sides even though I know you can make more money being on that side I do it when I want too or when a member really wants me too. Otherwise my time is spent on the Friends part.

You don't have to get naked to be sexy you can be flirty or playful. My members love my smile and the way my character is and that I keep it straight with them and don't bull shit and have never lied to them before.

I have people who said they would never do it, who also have contacted me in months saying how can they get started. So don't never say you won't do something because you never know where you will be down the line. less

Beck I have family that lives close by and they don't even have time to babysit. I just now got my daughter into daycare a couple days of week and for four hours. I called around to centers and they wanted $200 a pop a week and on days even if I did not send her there. I can't afford almost 600 bucks a month for daycare. The lady I have now is a in home daycare and she is charging me $50 bucks a week for 4 hours for three days out the week. I am so happy about that one. I live in a good neighborhood in a apartment community my rent alone is $593.00 bucks month and I am not on section 8 and don't have low income. I rather it stay that way. I have lived in the ghetto and in low income and I will not go back to it ever again. I do everthing to make sure this does not happen. I don't have my partner here with me to help out and even if he was here I still would not have him be the sole person to just do it. I would have him pay half. Or have him take care of bills or something and I take care of the rent and other things.

I for one don't get undressed for everyone as I have said plenty of times I do the Friends and Romance side of it and a little example in two weeks I sure make about $300-400 bucks per pay period. Sometimes even more then that depending on how long I am on and if I am not getting side track and taking days off. All for not getting undressed. Also I spend most of my time on there because I don't really like being on the adult sides even though I know you can make more money being on that side I do it when I want too or when a member really wants me too. Otherwise my time is spent on the Friends part.

You don't have to get naked to be sexy you can be flirty or playful. My members love my smile and the way my character is and that I keep it straight with them and don't bull shit and have never lied to them before.

I have people who said they would never do it, who also have contacted me in months saying how can they get started. So don't never say you won't do something because you never know where you will be down the line. less

I totally agree with what you said. I kinda didn't reply after my first post because everyone was being so quick to attack those who did not agree with them. I think certain people on this site think their opinions are above everyone else's which is total bs. We all have a right to our own opinions. We all should have remained on topic with how we would feel if we were in this situation.

I kinda think Jmex shouldn't have even brought this topic up on a public forum knowing his wife frequents this site also. Could start problems and drama. less

I cam occasionally and my husband enjoys watching. If it is an agreed upon part of your relationship it can be fun and fulfilling. He takes all the pics for me to place where I choose. For Jmex and Mamadivine--do what you are comfortable with, don't let the criticism sway you. You are doing what needs to be done for the family. At least there is a legitimate stay at home job that pays the bills!! Good luck, work through the issue and keep strong for each other!! less