Mine was like that every year till I figured it all out. We were a poor family and I was one of six kids. One year i got very sick and was in and out of the hospital. I felt bad because my parents would fight all the time over the fact that my doctor bills were stacking up. So that year I asked for a Fruit cake, no shit. I got it, and one every year after that. It's a tradition that has been going on for nearly 22 years now. Just wanted to share that.