I use and enjoy sex toys but I am uncomfortable with a partner using most of them on me. Perhaps I am a control freak but honestly so many of my toys hurt when my b/f (who is very sensitive) prods me with my glass and metal toys. By myself they are awesome as I can feel the exact spot but with a partner my pleasure points are missed (frustration) or I feel uncomfortable and like I am being impaled. I usually end up being the driver My b/f enjoys watching me but I know he wants to be more involved.during this period of play. I also love BDSM but my toy selection for my b/f to pleasure me is then also limited; basic vibes and dils. Any ideas?..