6 top reasons for NOT having sex (community poll)

PropertyOfPotter PropertyOfPotter
If we don't, it's because my husband is too tired, I rarely turn down sex.
05/10/2013
Gdom Gdom
Probably either being tired or (if it counts) just not being physically proximate to my SO.
05/10/2013
Woman China Woman China
Family/house guests in the next room.
05/10/2013
purpleflower1972 purpleflower1972
Illness definitely
05/10/2013
sweisb4100 sweisb4100
I suffer from low libido...
05/10/2013
oneeyedoctopus oneeyedoctopus
We don't have sex when I'm on my period.
05/11/2013
Adnerbmw Adnerbmw
My husband has a really low libedo so we never have sex anymore
05/31/2013
Hallmar82 Hallmar82
Feeling sick is the main reason for me but my wife is usually too tired.
05/31/2013
SydneyScreams SydneyScreams
Usually being tired or headachey will do the trick for me.
06/03/2013
snowminx snowminx
Too tired, sick, not in the mood, stress
06/03/2013
marshmallow marshmallow
too tired or sick
06/09/2013
No-nita No-nita
Quote:
Originally posted by Gary
I was just reading an article and saw the result of a survey called 6 top reasons for not having sex. I was wondering how our community compares to these averages.

So for those of you that live with your partners, what is the most common ... More
Sometimes I just don't want to, and that's all the reason anyone should ever need.
06/10/2013
KitKat16 KitKat16
If I'm too tired, I'm liable to give up halfway through...lol. Should never force it, I would rather have great sex than half-hearted sex where one person seems to give up part of the way through...that is just no good!
07/10/2013
SoloJoe SoloJoe
too tired
07/23/2013
cummingcouple cummingcouple
That time of the month is when T is high so I get a sexdrive boost... but of course, if there are no condoms, it doesn't happen. Apparently getting menses in the male urethra is not fun. So the time of the month is the biggest damper.
08/13/2013
Gr8pumpkin Gr8pumpkin
Quote:
Originally posted by Stagger13
It happens when we are just too tired.
She isn't interested! Really, I can be dead tired and if I have the chance, I can go at it. Often if I make overtures and she looks at me and says oh you are so tired you will never be able to......
Well that is her making the decision for both of us not to. I think it just an excuse for her not to do it, and what I really don't get is most times she has two or more orgasms, and I MIGHT get one, sometimes not.
What gives with that? Both of us work long hours but have ample time to engage in sex fun, if we are on the same page, seems much less often these days.
I don't push it because I don't feel like begging for sex, like I had to in my first marriage, maybe got it once a month, if that then, getting close to that these days again.
08/14/2013
Lioncub Lioncub
When I'm cycling or either of us just being exhausted. Doesn't happen often though.
08/22/2013
Edeneve Edeneveef Edeneve Edeneveef
no protection or with someone I'm not feeling sexual with are my some reasons I won't have sex.
08/22/2013
Genderfree Genderfree
The 'not in the mood' one doesn't work for me, because I'm easy to get riled up. Otherwise, tired or sick, usually.
08/22/2013
Cinnyree Cinnyree
i would go with either our son is awake longer than I want to be or my boyfriend was a jerk all day and I have no want in touching him.
08/22/2013
LAndJ LAndJ
For sure the tiredness for me.
08/23/2013
31stdate 31stdate
Quote:
Originally posted by charmedtomeetyou
Sometimes it's because we're too tired....but sometimes we can be super tired and still get it on...

I think energy level is still the most used reason to not get naked.
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08/25/2013
31stdate 31stdate
Quote:
Originally posted by Gary
I was just reading an article and saw the result of a survey called 6 top reasons for not having sex. I was wondering how our community compares to these averages.

So for those of you that live with your partners, what is the most common ... More
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08/25/2013
31stdate 31stdate
Quote:
Originally posted by charmedtomeetyou
Sometimes it's because we're too tired....but sometimes we can be super tired and still get it on...

I think energy level is still the most used reason to not get naked.
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08/25/2013
HannahPanda HannahPanda
A lot of the time I'm too sore.
09/14/2013
Subska Subska
My libido is not nearly as high as his so I am ofen not in the mood
09/14/2013
pirata pirata
Quote:
Originally posted by bog
Sometimes foreplay just doesn't "work" - it's so frustrating!
OMG, I though I was the only one O.o And it's especially frustrating when you really want to be into it and your body is like meh and your brain is like what's that song called? ><
09/14/2013
RonLee RonLee
I don't think that I've ever declined my partner's offer of sex.
10/11/2013
Castielskitten Castielskitten
Usually for us it's if one or the other isn't feeling that great we wont' do anything.
10/12/2013
Oriental husband and wife Oriental husband and wife
For us it's usually if one of us falls asleep before the other. He used to play rac ball for hrs on Thursday nites. I'll wait up because he always seemed to be "Strong" afterwards. Think it was the adrenaline pumping.
10/12/2013
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Unique posters: 59