If I'm too tired, I'm liable to give up halfway through...lol. Should never force it, I would rather have great sex than half-hearted sex where one person seems to give up part of the way through...that is just no good!
That time of the month is when T is high so I get a sexdrive boost... but of course, if there are no condoms, it doesn't happen. Apparently getting menses in the male urethra is not fun. So the time of the month is the biggest damper.
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It happens when we are just too tired.
She isn't interested! Really, I can be dead tired and if I have the chance, I can go at it. Often if I make overtures and she looks at me and says oh you are so tired you will never be able to......
Well that is her making the decision for both of us not to. I think it just an excuse for her not to do it, and what I really don't get is most times she has two or more orgasms, and I MIGHT get one, sometimes not.
What gives with that? Both of us work long hours but have ample time to engage in sex fun, if we are on the same page, seems much less often these days.
I don't push it because I don't feel like begging for sex, like I had to in my first marriage, maybe got it once a month, if that then, getting close to that these days again.
For us it's usually if one of us falls asleep before the other. He used to play rac ball for hrs on Thursday nites. I'll wait up because he always seemed to be "Strong" afterwards. Think it was the adrenaline pumping.