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It happens when we are just too tired.
She isn't interested! Really, I can be dead tired and if I have the chance, I can go at it. Often if I make overtures and she looks at me and says oh you are so tired you will never be able to......
Well that is her making the decision for both of us not to. I think it just an excuse for her not to do it, and what I really don't get is most times she has two or more orgasms, and I MIGHT get one, sometimes not.
What gives with that? Both of us work long hours but have ample time to engage in sex fun, if we are on the same page, seems much less often these days.
I don't push it because I don't feel like begging for sex, like I had to in my first marriage, maybe got it once a month, if that then, getting close to that these days again.