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Kdlips Kdlips
what would u do if your lover ask 4 a threesome
05/20/2011
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NarcissisticLust NarcissisticLust
Quote:
Originally posted by Kdlips
what would u do if your lover ask 4 a threesome
When we were still dating, I asked an ex what his biggest fantasy was and he said a threesome. We discussed it, set some boundaries and made it happen. It really depends on what you want.
05/27/2011
salaciousrex salaciousrex
Him and I have, and I'm bisexual and I think I want it more than he does lol. We have discussed it and what would be allowed or not allowed. So far we haven't found somebody to make it happen with, but we are still trying
05/27/2011
Dusk Dusk
Quote:
Originally posted by Kdlips
what would u do if your lover ask 4 a threesome
I think I would be up for trying it if we set boundaries, made sure our 3rd party was STD-free, and organized proper aftercare and things.
05/27/2011
ac0313 ac0313
LOL, she or I would jump at the opportunity...in fact, we have already! We would like to have another FMF with a certain female we have spotted. We have not had a MFM yet, but that will probably happen before the end of this year!
05/28/2011
brittany8612 brittany8612
My boyfriend did ask recently, and I said yes, and he asked one of my friends and she agreed. So pretty much as soon as he gets leave long enough for a threesome, it's probably guna happen, we're both pretty excited about it
06/03/2011
Top to Bottom Top to Bottom
He would never want to, but I'd be all over it.
06/07/2011
GravyCakes GravyCakes
i'd tell him no. i don't like the idea of him touching some other woman the way he touches me, & i sure as hell could not stand seeing another woman touching him. but to each their own. i personally could never do it, though.
06/09/2011
SiNn SiNn
Quote:
Originally posted by Kdlips
what would u do if your lover ask 4 a threesome
I have and do
06/14/2011
Janis Janis
We've spoken about it and are both willing, but there's so much more that goes into it, such as the possibility of disease from another person, possible jealousy, finding another person... It seems like it might be more trouble than it's worth.
06/26/2011
G.L. Morrison G.L. Morrison
I think if one of my lovers asked for a threesome, I'd have to ask which of my other partners was not allowed to play.

Seriously though, I do often negotiate "multies" between partners and friends... or women they point out to me at a club, sex party or event. Sometimes it takes careful choreography to be certain no one is overlooked. Three can be a dangerous number since if two people are "lost" in each other it is easy to miss how the other (and often the primary!) partner is feeling.

If you're trying a threesome, be sure to put one partner in the middle and "work" on him or her together and communicate verbally with your co-worker/partner: even phrases like "I think she likes that" or "it's so sexy to see you ___". Switch, take turns being in the middle. Be sure to make eye contact. Check in.

Be sure to end on a good note. If it's not going well then stop and be caring with your partner. I think the difficult for many people is not the extra person(s) but the confusion between love, intimacy, sex and recreation. The overlaps can be disconcerting.
06/26/2011
Sex'и'Violence Sex'и'Violence
depends on the circumstances. Rules would definitely need to be set.
06/26/2011
Errant Venture Errant Venture
Outside of a relationship, sure. But inside one, no.
06/27/2011
xoxo xoxo
say hell no bc my boyfriend and I should only do that with each other. My boyfriend would never want that though.
03/04/2012
hall5885 hall5885
I would say yes. Then again that's assuming that it wasn't me that asked.
05/11/2012
gsfanatic gsfanatic
We've joked about it, but I couldn't see either of us seriously going through with it.
05/12/2012
pitona pitona
I'll say,"HELL NO!"
05/14/2012
Roz W Roz W
been there, done that (with different partners) do not give a fuck. You know, everybody talks about their fantasy fuck but nobody talks about awkwardness and PRESSURE. People talk about emotional backlash with sexual experience; do you think that would be *less* if there were more people involved? No.

I like one-on-one with whatever gender. I like groups, even, because there's less pressure on any one person. But couple-plus-one can get icky, IME.

I sometimes get contacted on dating sites, by couples who think they're "adventurous.&quo t; HAH. YAWN. How about letting the ladies alone to get it one with each other, you entitled d-bags.
06/26/2012
silverdragonfly9 silverdragonfly9
Neither my boyfriend or me is interested in a threesome
07/07/2012
hall5885 hall5885
Say yes but than again in my case I was the one who asked for one.

Edit to add: I just realized I posted twice on this with pretty much same answer. lol oops.
07/23/2012
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