Who gets the better "shaft" in sex toys: Men or Women? Do women get the better toys? Men have the better toys?

Vaccinium Vaccinium
I'd say women, but the $6000 "Real Doll" is probably the most luxury item (and thus arguably the best) of all sex toys.
01/15/2011
VieuxCarre VieuxCarre
I feel bad for you guys. I really do. There are only so many cock rings and masturbators that you can use. Unless you like shoving stuff up your butt In that case, you've got a bit more to choose from.
01/15/2011
Moein Moein
No doubt that women always get better and more toys.

May be because men are so tough and so difficult to please, where women are more simple in sex and they can enjoy it in many ways.. I said may be.
02/11/2011
lemony lemony
I don't pay much mind to products for males, but that's because I don't need them. I see more stuff marketed for women.
02/13/2011
ninaspinkturtle ninaspinkturtle
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Originally posted by El-Jaro
Twice yesterday I heard a woman say/type "I wish I had a penis to enjoy this toy". The first was the Tanga Flip and the other was on Yeti's review for the fleshlight with lips.

My initial response was "You have a lot more ... More
i think its better for woman because they are designed with a woman in mind
02/16/2011
SexyStuff SexyStuff
Men always have the easy side on sex, but I like the assortment of womens toys better
02/20/2011
indiglo indiglo
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Originally posted by Sundae
I think it's a bit of a trade off. Women have more options when it comes to masturbation because you can dream up more things to stick in you than you can stick yourself into. Plus, I think many women have trouble using just their hands to ... More
Yeah, I tend to agree with this. I think in general, women do have more options in the toy department. But I think we need them.
02/24/2011
kendra30752 kendra30752
Well, I think us women have it better. Lol. Sorry guys.

I'm always arguing with my partner about who's luckier when it comes to sex. I say I am because I always have multiple o's and he has 1. I have the wonderful clit and he has a penis. I tell him that I wish for one day he could borrow my cooter. I also tell him that if he did, he'd never give it back! Lol.

I think women have many more different options, but really it's about time we're "allowed" to even enjoy sex. A lot of areas and people still think a woman shouldn't enjoy sex, but should only give it?! Why that is, I will never know. I think maybe all the toys is God's way of making those years up to us. Lol. Maybe that's why we get the clit.

I also don't know ANY male that would use booty toys or even engage in that type of thing so really their only options are pocket cooters and the few other things out there that aren't much different I don't believe.
05/10/2011
ToyGurl ToyGurl
It's difficult to answer this. EdenFantasys (to me, at least) sells more products for women. But, for example, if you go to a local sex mega plex, you see a lot more products for men. I never knew how many masturbators/auto strokers really existed until I went to one. There's also tons of prostate products and butt plugs these days... the list is endless.

All I wanted to do was get a simple rabbit for myself, and instead was trying to figure out what was made for an ass and what was made for a vagina. Almost checked out with a rabbit-like anal vibrator.

True story.
05/10/2011
brittany8612 brittany8612
I think women have a lot more choices
06/03/2011
Errant Venture Errant Venture
I feel that women get more, better sex toys. Though, to be fair, they can use them in a lot more ways than we men can.
06/29/2011
sarki sarki
I would say women do
06/30/2011
Pleasure gal Pleasure gal
Was wondering if anyone has replaced the O ring, that makes some vibrators waterproof, w/ a silicone/rubber flange that has an opening to screw the two parts together in the middle so the vibrator can be safe anally?? Just a thought.
07/24/2011
Ash1141 Ash1141
I think women have a better range of toys.
09/18/2011
AndroAngel AndroAngel
Women have it better with more variety, however, quite a few toys for women can be used by men, if they so desire. (Anything with a flared base and fairly safe material can be used anally, and most vibes can be used on the cock, balls, and perineum.)
09/18/2011
Rhazya Rhazya
From what I've searched on this site, and what I've seen in person at sex shops, I'd say women have a lot more choices. I think that's just as well though, call me sexist (I'm female) but it's a harder for woman to get off so it's just as well that we have more options available to us.
10/06/2011
SiNn SiNn
Quote:
Originally posted by El-Jaro
Twice yesterday I heard a woman say/type "I wish I had a penis to enjoy this toy". The first was the Tanga Flip and the other was on Yeti's review for the fleshlight with lips.

My initial response was "You have a lot more ... More
id say men get teh shaft adn chicks get all sorts of cool toys
10/06/2011
Sweet-Justice Sweet-Justice
I would sat they/re about equal
10/25/2011
JGrey JGrey
Girls have it better, lucky to be one!
10/27/2011
emilia emilia
woman have more toys
10/29/2011
Eva Schwaltz Eva Schwaltz
It's difficult to say which ones are better because men and women require very different stimulation. Women definitely have a lot more to choose from, but there are really good men's toys so to speak.
10/29/2011
Cherrylane Cherrylane
I think women definitely have it better in terms of quantity, and probably quality as well.

There's a part of me that thinks it's somewhat because most of the companies making sex toys are run by straight men.

However, I think it could also come down to the simple anatomy of things. Basically since the earliest records of human's using tools there has been evidence of female sex toys. Stone, wooden, ivory dildos. Finding something that can be inserted into a hole is a lot easier to come across or design than something that fits "just right" around something else ie. a man's penis.

And when it comes to male insertables or anal devices, I think it's probably a matter of demand. When anal dildos and vibes are designed specifically with men in mind, they can become less appealing to women, and vice versa, so most are designed to appear gender neutral. And although only a fraction of straight couples have reported having anal sex on a regular basis, they are much greater in number than gay couples who report having anal sex. Now, there are many a straight man out there who enjoys having his bum played with, but fact remains that MOST of the time, women are the ones being penetrated. And again, because the majority of women do not engage in anal play or anal sex, and neither do most men, so of course there are going to be fewer toys designed for anal use.
10/29/2011
geliebt geliebt
I feel like there are many more toys made for women. I also think there are more possibilities (to a certain extent) of what a woman can use versus what a man can. I certainly don't think men are missing out on toys, though. They have plenty of fun ones too!
11/02/2011
bratofthekitties bratofthekitties
I think men don't have as good sex toys as women because an external sexual organ seems easier to figure out because atleast you can see and feel what's going on (not that women can't do this, but it's a lot more abstract to me.
12/07/2011
RagdollsandZombies RagdollsandZombies
I think women have more toys to choose from (not so much verity but just more of the same toys are made over and over) while in a way choices might be limited when it comes to solely made for him toys they seem a lot more innovated. And really depending on how adventurous a guy is or if he likes exploring a little anal play a lot of toys marketed towards women can be unisex.
12/07/2011
Scythe Scythe
Quote:
Originally posted by El-Jaro
Twice yesterday I heard a woman say/type "I wish I had a penis to enjoy this toy". The first was the Tanga Flip and the other was on Yeti's review for the fleshlight with lips.

My initial response was "You have a lot more ... More
Woman most definitely have it better when it comes to sex toys.
05/11/2013
xilliannax xilliannax
Quote:
Originally posted by El-Jaro
Twice yesterday I heard a woman say/type "I wish I had a penis to enjoy this toy". The first was the Tanga Flip and the other was on Yeti's review for the fleshlight with lips.

My initial response was "You have a lot more ... More
Women have better toys. More variety.
05/11/2013
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