Would you sleep with someone, who you found disagreeable, or off-putting, personality-wise, just because they're attractive?

LQ LQ
I think it works the other way around, too - fortunately, or no one except models would ever get laid. I've dated some funny-lookin' guys, but at the time thought they were the hottest thing ever just because I was so into them.
11/03/2011
XYCopperheadSly XYCopperheadSly
I don't think that I could ever sleep with someone if I thought they had a "bad" personality....

But I also used to tell myself that I could never do anything sexual with someone who is 1) Lacking in intelligence or 2) Couldn't carry a conversation.

.....and yet I have come to find myself a wanton cyber-sex slave to a couple of men that I probably wouldn't give the time of day to in "real life," just because they're gorgeous. One is really nice, and speaks English, but kind of has a rock for a brain. The other knows about 10 words of English, but he's the MOST GORGEOUS ITALIAN MAN I'VE EVER SEEN.
11/05/2011
LavenderSkies LavenderSkies
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Originally posted by Errant Venture
Yesterday, a friend of mine and I were watching a TV show - a singing/talent show - where a singer I absolutely cannot stand was a guest. I seriously cannot stand her music. However, my friend pointed out that, despite this hatred, I'd still ... More
No, definitely not.
11/07/2011
Oxygen99 Oxygen99
In my younger days I absolutely had sex with or gave head to people just because they were attractive. It's pretty much the whole point of a one night stand.
11/07/2011
Ms. N Ms. N
That's a definite no here. If I don't like you well enough to hang out with you, I am definitely not going to sleep with you.
12/05/2011
klyte klyte
It would depend on the situation. Sometimes, bratty people can have their shining moments.
12/05/2011
Zinzai Zinzai
I could see it from a male's perspective of just dominating the individual, with no emotional investment in sex.
12/09/2011
Tuesday Tuesday
I would sleep with someone I didn't find attractive physically if his personality were a good fit for me, but not the other way around. A disagreeable or off-putting personality is a deal-breaker.
12/09/2011
GONE! GONE!
It would bother me way too much.
12/23/2011
eeep eeep
Generally, I am very picky about who I sleep with or date. I'm also more attracted to personality than looks, so typically speaking - no I wouldn't sleep with someone whose personality I disliked, even though they were gorgeous. I've had opportunities before to do such things, and didn't.
That said, I think there is likely to be an exception for me, and for most people.
12/23/2011
kendra30752 kendra30752
Absolutely not! If a person's personality and attitude are ugly then I want nothing to do with them. A pretty outside can quickly be ugly when I see that they're lacking in personality. Personality is the biggest factor for me. If I were just looking for anybody to sleep with, I might would, but I'd never just look for someone to F. Thankfully, I have a partner with both a beautiful inside and out. The thing that attracted me to him 5 years ago was his very considerate personality and happy attitude.
12/23/2011
IllBeYourLover IllBeYourLover
I would not.
12/27/2011
llellsee llellsee
Nowadays I couldn't but a few years ago I would, and did.
12/27/2011
quinceykay quinceykay
Well... I have. I didn't hate his personality, but he just wasn't dateable, and when we talked about things other than sex, we just didn't click and sometimes had nothing to talk about or got into stupid arguments. However, in the bedroom everything was awesome, so it was okay. Lol.
12/29/2011
Misfit Momma Misfit Momma
I checked that I wouldn't but I have in the past, mostly in swingers club situations.
12/29/2011
hyacinthgirl hyacinthgirl
Not my thing. I guess because I've seen it cause nothing but heartbreak for my sister, who has convinced herself that Beauty is Good. She's been with a lot of stunningly attractive men, and each one has left at least one horrible, painful welt on her psyche.
01/08/2012
sexygoddess sexygoddess
Nah.. I'd have to like them in all aspects for me to sleep with them.
01/10/2012
sweetcuppincakes sweetcuppincakes
If there were something redeemable about him, then maybe. But otherwise, if I think you're an asshole (without the 'charming' element) then no.
02/14/2012
Katelyn Katelyn
I have had sex once with a gal I find extremely annoying and more than a little stupid. I did it but it was sooo awkward in the morning. I would never do it again and I think I must find someone's personality interesting to be truly turned on.
02/15/2012
bayosgirl bayosgirl
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Originally posted by geliebt
Absolutely not, never ever ever.
I keep sex in a really special, vulnerable place in my mind. For it to happen (any sexual activity at all) I need a LOT of trust, and indeed a lot of love there already. If everything isn't right, it's just ... More
Same here.
02/15/2012
TexasBrat TexasBrat
Quote:
Originally posted by Errant Venture
Yesterday, a friend of mine and I were watching a TV show - a singing/talent show - where a singer I absolutely cannot stand was a guest. I seriously cannot stand her music. However, my friend pointed out that, despite this hatred, I'd still ... More
I'd have to have some sort of attraction to make it worth MY while. I know what I can do in bed, and if there's no attraction, I can do it myself if need-be. ;P
03/26/2012
SexysaurousRex SexysaurousRex
if i can't stand there personality couldnt sleep with them. it just wouldnt happen.
03/27/2012
gsfanatic gsfanatic
Nope, because it's more interesting if you like them too
04/29/2012
catastic catastic
I've tried it. It doesn't work for me. If the personality is a turn off, then I can't.
05/02/2012
unfulfilled unfulfilled
You have to have a great personality that agrees with mine.
05/02/2012
Nirelan Nirelan
no, no i wouldnt, personality always wins out over looks lol sorry cute guys
06/19/2012
Envy Envy
Nope. I need that emotional connection. Doesn't matter how pretty they are, if their personality sucks, I want nothing to do with them.
06/19/2012
Ilovelingerie Ilovelingerie
Quote:
Originally posted by Errant Venture
Yesterday, a friend of mine and I were watching a TV show - a singing/talent show - where a singer I absolutely cannot stand was a guest. I seriously cannot stand her music. However, my friend pointed out that, despite this hatred, I'd still ... More
I don't find very many people attactive, at all. And the one that I do, I jump on(bend over for) every chance I get.
06/19/2012
KrissyNovacaine KrissyNovacaine
Attraction for me is completely about personality. I won't find someone attractive if I can't like who they are.
06/19/2012
pirata pirata
no way in hell. they would genuinely look hideous to me because of the personality
06/19/2012
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