Would you sleep with someone, who you found disagreeable, or off-putting, personality-wise, just because they're attractive?

authorzero authorzero
Generally I would say I wouldn't sleep with someone I found to have terrible personality, but there are exceptions. Sarah Palin for example; I can't stand her politics, but given the chance I'd have to, especially for the story.
06/19/2012
Stinkytofu10 Stinkytofu10
Quote:
Originally posted by Errant Venture
Yesterday, a friend of mine and I were watching a TV show - a singing/talent show - where a singer I absolutely cannot stand was a guest. I seriously cannot stand her music. However, my friend pointed out that, despite this hatred, I'd still ... More
I wouldn't sleep with someone I didn't find attractive, personality-wise.
06/19/2012
iabicpl09 iabicpl09
I would fuck a snake if it had ears
06/20/2012
Roz W Roz W
Off-putting/icky personality equals unattractive, to me. I guess I have done it, but only with women, and I think it had to do with my lack of confidence re: finding a woman who was both likeable and who would like me.

Sleeping with a guy who is also a jerkface is one of the scariest things I can think of. I don't care how fucking pretty the world things you are.
06/26/2012
Bodhi Bodhi
I would.

Disgust and hatred (to an extent) Can sometimes enhance things.
07/05/2012
BoobCopter BoobCopter
Hell no.
07/07/2012
hybridinsurge hybridinsurge
No, I would be angry with myself afterward.
07/07/2012
MGDavicnigirl MGDavicnigirl
Yes!

If they are attractive, and we are both into each other at least from a physical standpoint - why not?

I have slept with men/women who are attractive physically, but have zero in the chemistry department. They were great in the sack, but I'm not looking to date these individuals, just looking for hot sex.
07/09/2012
Nacht Stern Nacht Stern
For me it is all about personality.
If our personality's crash were not getting in the sack.
07/12/2012
thisisadeletedaccount thisisadeletedaccount
If I don't like someone's personality, then I'm not physically attracted to them, either. The two things are very closely linked for me. A nasty personality is a huge turn-off.
08/07/2012
Lovely Jubblies Lovely Jubblies
Absolutely not
08/08/2012
Girly Juice Girly Juice
I seem to be incapable of being sexually attracted to someone I'm not intellectually/emotion ally attracted to.
08/09/2012
Rory Rory
I would have to consider the whole package.
11/04/2012
RonLee RonLee
Not only is personality important. No matter how attractive someone is, dumb is a major turn off. Smart is just so damn sexy.
11/04/2012
phoenixfire phoenixfire
I happen to find Tom Cruise somewhat attractive, despite the fact that I think most of his views are loony to the point of being ridiculous. I think he's enough of a nut that it would give me pause. However, I have to admit that if he showed up at my door asking for a night with me, I'd be tempted, and I would expect my husband to understand. There's a particular scene in Interview with a Vampire (the film, though I did read the book first) that has stayed with me a long time and influenced who I am sexually.

The same is true of Johnny Depp, though I think he is a little less crazy (and therefore more tempting.)

My husband and I often have these discussions. I find it interesting to see which celebrities make his hot list. I wouldn't change who I am to suit his tastes, though. It just lets me know more about him as a person.
12/10/2012
Katelyn Katelyn
I think I answered this question with a 'no' but I keep thinking about it. It really depends on the trait that I find annoying but I actually think I could. As long as I knew it was a one time thing.

I had a huge crush on this girl whom I knew was playing me, but at the time I would have done ANYTHING for her. I was totally obsessed, even though I knew she was a player. So it is hard for me to say that I absolutely wouldn't.
01/13/2013
FLIPxMODE FLIPxMODE
i have
01/13/2013
Martiniman Martiniman
It would depend on the person and the flaw. We're they disgusting in their beliefs and actions or was there just something about their personality or demeanor I didn't care for. By your example, there are several female singers and actresses I don't care for based on their abilities, but I'd still sleep with them. So I guess my answer is yes, although being a married man, I'm answering this question as a purely hypothetical one.
01/14/2013
falalena falalena
Quote:
Originally posted by Errant Venture
Yesterday, a friend of mine and I were watching a TV show - a singing/talent show - where a singer I absolutely cannot stand was a guest. I seriously cannot stand her music. However, my friend pointed out that, despite this hatred, I'd still ... More
i am a woman and as soon as i discover a good-looking person has a disgusting personality, they become just as ugly on the outside.
01/14/2013
Gone (LD29) Gone (LD29)
If someone's personality grated on my nerves, I just couldn't do it. It wouldn't matter how attractive I found them physically.
01/14/2013
KinkyNicki92 KinkyNicki92
I wouldn't. its always a physical attraction first. but if they have an ugly personality I could easily look over it
01/14/2013
TheirPet TheirPet
I'm mostly attracted to personality. If you got a bad one I don't care if you're the best looking person on earth, you're not getting in my pants.
01/14/2013
Geogeo Geogeo
Quote:
Originally posted by Errant Venture
Yesterday, a friend of mine and I were watching a TV show - a singing/talent show - where a singer I absolutely cannot stand was a guest. I seriously cannot stand her music. However, my friend pointed out that, despite this hatred, I'd still ... More
im currently sleeping with a guy that I find a bit annoying and clingy but he's good in bed so meh
01/22/2013
Wicked Wahine Wicked Wahine
I could not get past my repulsion. It's very much about my non physical reaction to a person, not just the physical. It's almost as if my dislike of their personality causes a physical reaction in me destroying any attraction I would have felt had they not opened their mouth.
04/03/2013
SourAppleMartini SourAppleMartini
I can't do that. As soon as i discover a person's true and ugly personality he stops being physically attractive to me. I actually have a friend who is extremely good looking and popular with girls, but treats his romantic conquests like shit. And yeah, we are good friends because he has always been really nice to me, but as soon as he starts flirting it is such a turn off.
04/06/2013
Leather & Lace Leather & Lace
I wouldn't.
04/06/2013
karenm karenm
No. Personality is really important to me (it has even come before looks in a couple cases of people I liked).
04/19/2013
DreezzyyBabyy DreezzyyBabyy
Nope.
04/27/2013
spiced spiced
Now, I wouldn't sleep with anyone other than my wife. But when I was younger I slept with people I didn't particularly like (apart from the raw, chemical attraction) several times. I usually enjoyed the sex, but had no desire to have a relationship with them. IMO, that's what the one-night-stand is all about. And what condoms are for.
04/27/2013
bog bog
Quote:
Originally posted by Errant Venture
Yesterday, a friend of mine and I were watching a TV show - a singing/talent show - where a singer I absolutely cannot stand was a guest. I seriously cannot stand her music. However, my friend pointed out that, despite this hatred, I'd still ... More
I might every once in a great while. I don't typically find strangers irresistibly sexually attractive with wild chemistry and sparks flying between us. If it happens, though, why not?
04/28/2013
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