A reader asked us that question this week, and we think it's an excellent one -- and one that unfortunately we have no answer for! So we thought we'd share it with the group. Vagina has so many sexier sounding possibilities, depending on your preference. Because most of us don't like to say "I love your vagina" in bed. So there are options. But when it comes to the asshole, what are the options? So many negative connotations with the a-hole word... what alternatives do you prefer?